Alex rants abt stuff

There are hundreds if not thousands of useless identities that people on this site make up for fun just to mock real trans people. Your made up genders get buried by more and more made up genders. the chance of someone still identifying with the gender you just made up is 0.

you are not trans. you are cis. you use pronouns and gender as an aesthetic. you make trans people look like a joke.

 you discredit the struggles of real trans people.

every time i look at myself i dont recognise my body because i know that i am supposed to be male. i want to kill myself every time i have to wear feminine clothing or get referred to as female.

the point of mogai identities is to make people realize that gender is a social construct and it can be altered in any way without it affecting anyone.

we create more genders to end with the idea that gender is something everyone must follow and everyone must have. we create more genders to have fun with being trans, to connect the things we love to our movement to end gender.

you know why?

because being trans isn’t pure suffering. because we need other trans people to accept that it’s okay to be trans; that even if cis people and transmeds try to make us feel pain, we won’t let them. that having dysphoria is okay, but it doesn’t mean that being trans is negative.

you aren’t helping the trans community, you are doing the exact same thing cis people do to you. you are blaming us for being opressed.

we struggle with our gender too, but whoops! surprise, surprise! being trans isn’t about being a white binary passing trans person, or about pleasing cisgender people. it’s about respect, and accepting everyone’s gender.

Anyways you clearly have the definition of dysphoria and gender dysphoria wrong.

“We create more genders to end with the idea that gender is something everyone must follow and everyone must have”

“We create more genders to have fun with being trans”

Last I checked being trans still whether or not you have suffering gender dysphoria or little to none gender dysphoria everyone who is actually trans knows that being trans isn’t fun. I didn’t want to be trans or “create” my gender.

None of the mogai stuff sounds like it is actually gender/LGBT stuff at all.

All it is aesthetics, personality traits, music genres, clothing styles, and mental/physical disabilities rebranded as a “gender”.

it’s a whole bunch of other stuff you’re trying to compile into the lgbt movement.

“Last I checked being trans still whether or not you have suffering gender dysphoria or little to none gender dysphoria everyone who is actually trans knows that being trans isn’t fun. I didn’t want to be trans or “create” my gender. “

that’s literally the point, you literally just proved my point.

i am trans and i know that being harrased, outed, and misgendered isn’t fun. that’s exactly why i’m trying to have fun with my identity. that’s exactly why i look at my favorite songs and use them as a gender.

because i need a fucking rest from being harrased.

i didn’t want to be trans either, it took me time to accept it and i was lucky my online friends didn’t have any problem with it.

but the fact that i didn’t want it, and the fact that people dislike it, makes me want to feel more comfortable with it. i want to feel like it’s a gift, even if i get hated even more by people like you.

the moment you realize gender isn’t something you must have or follow, the better you feel with your identity.

there isn’t any "man” or “woman”, or there doesn’t have to be. it was invented thousands of years ago by someone that we will never know, by someone who didn’t really have a clue about identity.

you think it was always like this? when we were barely even human, these labels didn’t exist. genitals did. and genitals don’t say anything about your identity other than your assigned sex; not even your assigned gender.

you could modify gender in whatever ways you want, and it still wouldn’t hurt anyone. it would hurt some transmed’s feelings out there, but no one is actually hurt by a teenager saying they’re catgender. literally no one.

your western idea of gender brainwashed you so bad that you actually think gender must have requirements. like, no, gender isn’t anything other than a concept, that’s literally it.

i am trans myself, and i know when something is transphobic behavior and when something is making exclusionists mad over a tumblr gender.

mogai means “marginalized orientations, gender alignments, and intersex”, it’s literally another word for lgbtq+; “none of the mogai stuff sounds like it’s lgbt” is easily the most stupid sentence i’ve heard.

the problem isn’t that “we are making being trans look like a fun thing”, the problem is that you don’t want trans people to be happy with their trans-ness.

transmed: being trans isn’t fun. i hate being harrased.

xenic person: i hate the harrasment too, but i try to stay positive and use my identity as a way to prove transphobes wrong.

transmed: no that’s literally transphobic you can’t have fun with your identity if you’re trans.

all of those things are identity things they are not gender things and they don’t need to be.

When people were first discovered there was two kinds of people. There were some people who had the ability to give birth (called females) there were other people who had the ability to impregnate those people (called males).

within these sets of genitalia there just so happens to be sex characteristics, first and second that apply differently to those who don’t have the other genital.

People with certain genitalia have more predictable sex characteristics.

Males and females look physically different and act physically different from eachother.

It doesn’t mean you are different or weird if you like certain things that the other gender likes because toys, clothes, and objects can’t have genders.

You need dysphoria to be trans

You need dysphoria to be trans

You need dysphoria to be trans

If you do not have dysphoria you are not transgender!

If you do have dysphoria, you look handsome/beautiful/attractive and I’m proud of you for making it this far

I am trans! I have authority to speak on this!