amaranta

i dont know why people are so bad at parsing out beauty standard related to breast size specifically (i do know) it's not that complex and certainly not hidden at all, larger breasts connote an undisciplined body in a specifically racialised way, so they're always objects of both sexual interest and social stigma. the two don't contradict and the kind of violent sexualisation directed at larger breasts is of an entirely different category than when someone is made to feel shitty for having smaller breasts, the same way 'skinny shaming' is not a comparable phenomenon to anti fat discrimination even though the former is still like. rude. body fat in general = unrefined, uncivilised, again racialised terms because this is a discourse of racialisation & with breasts theres a specific configuration from delicate maiden femininity when small to sexualised object when large. women who work as haute couture models with 15 bmi and women who act in porn wearing a 28ff are all women subject to body judgment misogyny but you're insane if you think theres not a clear answer as to which has the more enviable social position lol

I can't enjoy sex i just know too many people who have made the whole idea kind of reddit to me

no, i am not "traumatized". I just think it's kind of reddit when you touch me

efforts towards a "positive vision of masculinity" or whatever are so funny because what these guys are trying to figure out is literally "what's a way of being a good person that's Not For Girls™"

does any fictional character lend themselves better to explaining transmisogyny than anthy himemiya. like right from the beginning, utena is like “hey, why is everyone abusing the fuck out of this girl??” and everyone is like “nonono it’s FIIIINE! you see, she’s the rose bride which isn’t the same as being a real girl, it’s some other shit scientists don’t even know the ramifications of yet but she’s very abusable, you should try it some time. but also be careful because she’s a scary witch” and then utena is like “have any of you asked her what she wants or tried being nice to her?” and they’re all like “she says she doesn’t have desires and she does whatever we want, it’s fine!” and the whole time she’s suffering cosmic sexual abuse

#and racism #she is The allegory for transmisogynior

"masculine role models" lol