Acting to Youtube and a bunch in between

are people under the impression that aromantic people never want to have close personal relationships with the people in their lives. "oh i wish i was aro it would save me all this drama!" actually human relationships are always deep and complicated and messy and have the potential to hurt and help and change your life and being romantic is just one possible aspect of that. aromantic people want to be close to the people around them just like anyone else. and i know the real issue is that people think romantic relationships are the only way to be truly close to someone else but it's weird and off-putting to constantly hear the implication that aros are somehow fundamentally incapable of forming relationships that would impact their lives negatively cause they don't wanna go on dates with people. not even mentioning the aros who do

Aromantic Horror is when your best friend in the whole world, that you have spent half of your life by their side, who helped you and you helped with, who lived through your worst and your best and their worst and their best moments always together, who you loved with all your heart through all those years, gets a partner and looks you in the eyes and tells you "I have never had someone that makes me as happy as them" and you just have to sit with the realization that you mean nothing to them and that your love is not "good enough" for them

january 30, 2016

HAPPY 10th BIRTHDAY SFW SASUKE

thank you ao3 for being an archive and not an algorithm. thank you for letting me like things without consequences, thank you for being free with no ads, thank you for having lawyers to defend our freedom of speech. thank you tag wranglers. thank you to all authors and thank you ao3