coming outs

so i made this blog to be a place for people in the closet in any way (disorders, lgbtq, whatever!) to come out! either on anon or not on anon. be who you are here!

ideally, send asks beginning with “i’m coming out as _____.” “i’m coming out as a did system.” “i’m coming out as bisexual agender.” etc etc. you can add any details you want- about you, your story, your experience, whatever. this is just a place to get things off your chest!

the idea here is for everyone to be accepted. therefore:

mspec and aspec exclus get out.

anti-agere/petre get out.

proshipper or anti-anti, get out.

sysmed or transmed, get out.

homophobe, racist, ageist, sexist, antisemitist, whatever, get out.

if you hate on anybody for any reason? get out. 

here’s mod lepidoptera’s intro post!

and here’s mod spacedog’s!

tags:

hey there! that's so lovely of you!! i also love your URL and profile photo, they're super cool! you seem like a really snazzy being to know, ty for dropping by the inbox!

hell yeah!! presentation is not gender!! you smash those gender roles, i bet your earrings and long hair look wonderful!

I regress from 0-5yo and its often involuntary or i need help regressing

This is in no way supposed to force you into agere/petre this is just so i can properly come out if you want to ignore this you may but if you do not accept ageregressors or petregressors you can go ahead and leave my page

Ive been meaning to come out so i hope alot of you accept ^^

woah!! that's awesome!! we're agere too :0

also /ot but your URL is so cool!!

My name is Virus/Error, and my pronouns are it/.exe/xe :]

oh my stars all those genders are so amazingly snazzy!! and your pronouns too!!! i'm obsessed!!

we've got a headmate who uses .exe (among others), music's very cool :] we've also got one straight up named syntax error that uses .exe/.jpg/.mp3. computer pronouns my beloved <33

This can happen with just one person too (which is confusing so let me explain)

One of my comfort characters is Spencer Reid. Sometimes I’m romantically attracted to him but I’m never sexually attracted to him when this occurs. But other times in sexually attracted to him and not romantically.

I don’t know if there’s a label for this and I don’t even know what I would look up to find a specific label so…? Does this make me aroace or like,,, ??

ooh! i don't know a specific label for it, but i think just looking up "asexual microlabels" or something of the sort would lead you down the right path! i know there are labels for when your attraction spikes, and for when you're attracted to ficticious people, but i'm unsure if there's one that has to do with sexual and romantic attraction intersecting. worst case scenario you ask someone to coin it for you or if you're feeling brave, coin it yourself!

also, if you wanna ID as aroace, go for it! there's nobody telling you what you can and can't do if it feels right- at least, there shouldn't be. if there are, drop kick their asses and find better friends /hj

all my love,

i'm glad they took it well!! but when they start forgetting like that, you just gotta remind them! "hey, those aren't my pronouns" or "hey, i'm not a girl." simple stuff like that- try not to get aggressive or accusatory. or if you don't wanna be so forward, refer to yourself as your preferred terms if that makes sense? i don't know if that makes sense. either way.

it doesn't have to be a huge big conversation! if they were accepting the first time, i doubt they'll react badly to a little encouragement in the right direction.

*inhale* so i’m coming out as genderflux, gendervoid (at times), and a demigirl (during other times. it fluctuates, yk). i’m also a namehoarder, asexual, greyromantic, aroflux, and omniromantic with a preference toward non-men.

as well as the fun lgbtq stuff, i’m also low empathy with npd, bpd, and avpd.

thank you :D

that is certainly a lot of things!!! there are gonna be so many tags on this post /pos

you're so stunning!! thank you for being you <3 ily!

I was also recently diagnosed with BPD

woah, your pronouns are so awesome!! rem/rems and fae/faer my beloved <33 also qprs? yes!! you are an icon, my good sir/madam.

hey there!! that's so snazzy of you!! men <33

hoarding neos and xenos is so cool >:3 slay queen!! proud of you :D

aw, nonnie, you sound like you've been through a lot of hurt. i'm so glad you have that support system in place, though. some affirmations for you real quick:

you're not just confused. you are valid.

your pronouns, no matter what they are or how you want them used, are wonderful.

you are beautiful.

i'm glad you're happy with yourself and your friends. cheers to keeping that feeling alive <3

im coming out as aroace!! It took me quite a bit to come to terms with the label but rn Im really happy about it. I started out labeling myself as pan, because, I mean, its the same amount of attraction towards everybody, right? and I faked quite a few crushes to the point where I even faked myself into believing they were real. but eventually I realized that I wasnt having any real crushes and I didnt find anyone attractive.

for a while I even thought I was straight, because I was realizing that I didnt get crushes on girls (I didnt get crushes on guys either, but I guess at the time I thought straight was the default >:() and when I finally figured out that I could still be aroace and want romantic relationships, I aas really sad bc I felt like I was missing out

and then theres the whole problem of amatonormativity. everyone was constantly expecting me to get into a relationship, and although all my friends supported me, they didn’t quite understand. so they’re over here talking about their crushes and people they find attractive, and I felt really left out bc I just couldn’t relate at all.

but the other day I just read this book called loveless!! Ive never related more to a character and I felt really accepted. and I found a nice community on tumblr, and Im finally coming to terms with who I am. It was a long journey, but I don’t regret a bit of it because it made me into who I am now ^-^

oh my god those genders /pos and your name is so cool!! welcome to the family, mon, you're so snazzy!