no

she did not experience "male socialization." when i look back on our childhood, it is easy to understand that there was no privilege to that concept. she was forced to try and shrink herself into the shape of a man, and was abused when she didn't succeed at playing the part. being "raised as a boy" only highlighted the stark incongruity between what was expected of her and what she was. this repeatedly led to her facing violence.

scripts for accounts like that are as follows: start off by being blatantly transmisogynistic, claim that “transfem abusers silence us non-transfem victims!!” then when the well-deserved tongue lashings come flying in begin to crytype about how Traumatizing it is to be recognized as the bigot you are, then use it to double-triple down on your original claim that “transfem communities harbor and protect abusers.” it’s a very common tactic bigots of all stripes use, and the whole time it’s just gaslighting transfems about their own oppression, claiming they have some sort of social power to keep tmes silent when they’re victims of abuse at their hands.

as i’d hope most of the people reading this know, the exact opposite is true. transfems are almost never believed when they speak out about being assaulted by a tme person, and there is absolutely no need to “bring awareness” to transfem perpetrators- because nearly every single tme person and their mother already assumes transfems as potential predators, so they’re already predisposed to believe they’d SA someone no matter what!! it’s kind of one of the most major facets of transmisogyny there is!!

Because when trans women dare to speak up for themselves, Tumblr nukes their blogs.

We need to be fucking loud about this, daily, because Tumblr staff is specifically targeting and deleting trans women who are not breaking ToS and who often have fundraisers up FOR THEIR SURVIVAL.

By deleting these blogs repeatedly, Tumblr staff is saying loud and clear what they hope happens to these girls.

Are y'all okay with that? Because if not we need to be posting about it more because we have seen by now it's incredibly fucking unlikely this sites moderation will delete our blogs for it because we are not trans women

incel culture

terfism

gamergate

calling feminists nazis (funnily enough, that the first to teach them to say "transandrophobia" ended up being a proud nazi doesn't bother them)

Interestingly, it has not developed: