iâm a genderfluid lesbian that uses any pronouns. i suffer from ocd, epilepsy, and ptsd. this is my sideblog for journaling and talking about discourse, as well as disentangling my own biases. self-improvement, ocd, transfeminism, lesbianism, kin talk, and decentering men (including trans men) will be main themes of this blog
i will only answer good faith asks and replies. in this house we center lesbians- especially those of other marginalized groups.
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my main positions on many discourse issues are under the cut:
if youâre a TWERF, you do not belong in lesbian spaces. learn to respect our sisters or get out. you are an active danger to our communities.
âtransandrophobiaâ discourse is a pipeline to TWERF rhetoric. transmascs deserve respect and freedom from transphobia, but we are not uniquely oppressed in the same way that trans women are, and we certainly arenât more oppressed than they are. anyone who wants to convince you of the latter point is a cryptoTWERF at best. degendering yourself to insist you understand womanhood better than trans women do is transmisogynistic. do not fall for TWERF propaganda.
TWERFs are not feminists. âradfemâ is too generous of a label for them. real feminists challenge how the patriarchy defines what gender means, the role of sex in society, and what women can and canât be. TWERF ideology reinforces all of the above.
i donât buy into cancel culture. i will never share callout posts, and largely find them useless in actually holding anyone accountable for harm, helping victims, or contributing to justice. (iâm a restorative justice advocate btw, fuck the police and fuck the prison industrial complex)
lolcow culture is a transmisogynistic plague. doesnât matter how wrong someone is, it will never justify them being mass doxxed, threatened, stalked, harassed, and having their lives ruined by malicious tar pits on the internet.
inclusionist, anti-transmed, ace people belong in the LGBT community, mspec lesbians are valid (split attraction model shouldnât just apply to ace people), âmale/female socializationâ isnât a thing, âgold star lesbiansâ fuck off (but youâre almost all TWERFs anyways so)
nonbinary people can be lesbians, cis men and binary trans men (who do not identify with womanhood/any non-masculine gender whatsoever) can't.
fiction is fiction, write and draw what you want, purity culture is patriarchal white supremacist garbage
if your ideology justifies itself with âprotecting the childrenâ i am automatically suspicious of you. children arenât property, and the notion that they are is what puts them in danger of assault and exploitation.
the psychiatric system needs to be abolished and replaced with a system that prioritizes the healing and freedom of traumatized and neurodivergent peoole. many âmental illnessesâ were invented specifically to shame women and minorities for having agency (bpd and odd, for example). harm reduction is nearly impossible with the current system of shame and institutionalization that is imposed on people who dare to seek help for problems that make neurotypicals feel uncomfy (addiction, suicidality, harm urges, psychosis etc).
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looks like the whispers of lolcow forums infiltrating transfeminist spaces is very true. iâve found multiple twerf sock puppets in the transmisogyny and transfeminism tags spewing out hate just in the past few hours.
and oh hey, look at that!
transandrobros (at least those of you who havenât already dived headfirst into twerf ideology), this should be a fork in the road for your beliefs. transfems specifically are disproportionately targeted by these hate groups, and theyâre using the language you invented- language that was invented primarily to complain about trans women pointing out that weâre privileged over transfems- to do it. all i ask is that you think about that for a moment.
from transmascvoicesproject to the first user of âtransandrophobiaâ (who became a TWERF shortly after coining it), i canât trust spaces curated specifically for transmascs anymore, any more than i can trust spaces meant just for men. itâs proof of our privilege, that they always manage to become breeding grounds for transmisogyny one way or another.
either yâall actually hear out trans women as to why that is, or yâall will inevitably fall down this pipeline. which will it be?
i should probably clarify! when i say a twerf coined transandrophobia, iâm not even talking about st-dionysus. i donât know nearly enough to make a full judgement on him (though his opinions do infact suck), but a year before he âcoinedâ the term, there was this person.
the year was 2021, and to my knowledge st-dionysus made his big transandrophobia post in 2022. a massive portion of people who believe in transandrophobia were either TWERFs themselves or TWERFs in the making, and itâs been this way for a long long time.
for those filtering out the transandrophobia tag, my last post was directed at transandrobros and i tagged it for reach. dw, iâm not falling down that stupid pipeline
looks like the whispers of lolcow forums infiltrating transfeminist spaces is very true. iâve found multiple twerf sock puppets in the transmisogyny and transfeminism tags spewing out hate just in the past few hours.
and oh hey, look at that!
transandrobros (at least those of you who havenât already dived headfirst into twerf ideology), this should be a fork in the road for your beliefs. transfems specifically are disproportionately targeted by these hate groups, and theyâre using the language you invented- language that was invented primarily to complain about trans women pointing out that weâre privileged over transfems- to do it. all i ask is that you think about that for a moment.
from transmascvoicesproject to the first user of âtransandrophobiaâ (who became a TWERF shortly after coining it), i canât trust spaces curated specifically for transmascs anymore, any more than i can trust spaces meant just for men. itâs proof of our privilege, that they always manage to become breeding grounds for transmisogyny one way or another.
either yâall actually hear out trans women as to why that is, or yâall will inevitably fall down this pipeline. which will it be?
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like you understand how mask off this is, right? what plausible deniability is there in the phrase "genderwoke pedophile"? genuinely completely and entirely indistinguishable from every fascist ever on trans people, particular transfems. swap "log6" out for "Libs of TikTok". do you fucking get it yet? jesus christ
Genuinely need everyone to realize that "pedophilia" is just a reactionary nothingburger. Almost no one who sexually abuses children experiences sexual attraction to them. Child abuse emerges from power differences in hierarchical environments, it doesn't burst fully formed from the head of a lolicon blogger like Athena from the skull of Zeus.
People with weird and nasty kinks and fantasies are simply not a danger to children unless they're in childcare, parents, camp counselors, teachers, or religious authorities. Let me repeat it for clarity: a trans woman who calls her girlfriend "little sis" is completely harmless to children relative to your average parent. A trans woman with a diaper fetish is far less sexually predatory than your average local politician. There is no abuse without power.
Using accusations of pedophilia to smear trans people isn't "going after pedos even though it's not politically correct". It is shifting the blame for child sexual abuse from its socially-protected perpetrators to a minority scapegoat that's less likely to be defended. You can shoot all the tranny perverts you want, but in the end you won't have protected a single child.
The thing about the "trans women are capable of harm" type posts and blogs like transmascvoicesproject is that on a daily basis trans women are told that we are predators, that we are violent, that we have the rape organ, that we solely exist for fetishistic reasons and that makes us dangerous to be around. Society never lets us forget this. Cinema never lets us forget this. Terfs never let us forget this. Political parties on either side of the spectrum never let us forget this. These people post like they live in a world where trans women/transfeminine people are shielded from the consequences of our actions by our identities, but that's a fantasy. We are not only held accountable for our actions, but responses to our mistakes and transgressions are often extremely worse than that of other people. Not to mention, a lot of trans women are lied about, marked rapist/pedophile/abusive by an abusive, transphobic ex, and then isolated and removed from friends groups for the crime of coming out as trans. This is so, so, so common.
We do not need you to remind us we are capable of harm, trust me when I say we fucking know.
Every trans girl I know is too afraid of being seen as a predator to allow herself to be intimate with someone else. It takes years of understanding ourselves as something outside of the common archetype for us to get over that.
But go ahead. Tell me again that I'm capable of harm.
sometimes i get a glimpse of the scale of the fucking. ISFF hateposting cottage industry and it's all deeply connected to a bunch of kiwifarmers and none of them seem to notice how deranged it is to do all of this. just post about a trans woman 24/7 set up multiple blogs to screenshot and track down everything on her. i wish you all a very happy crack your head on the pavement
it's like people nominally understand that minorities are subject to a lot of additional scrutiny, and like, if you pressed them on it they'd understand it's a lot harder to grow into a healthy well-rounded person under all that extra scrutiny, but if you point out that they're part of that process they're like. well she's a pedophile groomer menace to society [citation needed] we can't just like, NOT stalk her continuously
remember how for a month or two someone kept saying isff ran an entire child trafficking business and was trafficking children to a bunch of other tumblr trans women and screamed about having proof, but whenever anyone pressed for proof, they'd never post any? And, tons of people just. Believed it? That a super poor trans woman somehow ran this Epstein level trafficking campaign to other trans women that lived in completely different continents?? it was so. obviously bullshit and transmisogyny. like, it's so obviously fake and transmisogynistic but all these "we're all faggots in the eyes of the state" people refused to see it that way.
you gotta remember, this all started cuz isff said misandry didn't exist. they called her a pedophile for months just because she said transandrophobia doesn't exist. all these posts people post as reasons to hate her were from december, she had been being called a pedophile throughout the summer and fall! she only made those posts in december, the transmisogynists already calling her a pedophile!
if you are "anti-isff" you are a transmisogynist. You hate trans women.
TMRAs love to be like, "you wouldn't hate me if I hadn't transitioned" and buddy. you have no idea how little fondness I have for cis women as a class, let alone transmascs pretending to be cis.
I hate to break it to ya man but there's no hypothetical scenario that you can cook up where our social positions are inverted. I recommend a different method of resolving your distress surrounding this.
to be perfectly honest it feels like soft-launching your detransition, can't wait to see you pop up on my dash talking about how trans women inducted you into gender ideology and then abused you or whatever
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it's more than a little irritating when tumblrites get all precious about 4chan. the only reason you think this place is better is because of the people you follow. please keep in mind that tumblr has a thriving TERF community, staff only banned the #reichblr tag this year after a trans woman made a fuss about it (they ban her at minimum once a month), kiwifarms uses the place as a hunting ground, etc etc.
it's very obvious to me that it comes from a desire to go, "oh, I'm nothing like a 4channer, all the horrible bad stuff happens somewhere else and has nothing to do with me". and then you scroll past posts talking about anti-Black racism because they made you feel uncomfortable.
hello I was on the internet when 4chan was created, it was made by a bunch of upper-middle-class teenagers as an anime fan forum. I will put this into words you can understand: 4chan is and was just as much a part of "fandom" as tumblr, livejournal, wattpadd, any of it.
it's very obvious to me that it comes from a desire to go, "oh, I'm nothing like a 4channer, all the horrible bad stuff happens somewhere else and has nothing to do with me".
Recently a hate group known as "bogorbersihlgbt" committed acts of transmisogynistic violence against 15+ trans women that took place in Bogor, West Java. Anyone willing to help out the victims can do so in the form of reporting the account @bogorbersihlgbt on instagram and encourage others to do so as well, and those who have the means to donate financially can do so via bank transfer:
(source, trigger warning for descriptions and video screenshots of the acts of violence that were enacted. more detaills are provided in this linked Instagram post as well.)
With our government recently targetting the LGBTQ+ community more and more it's our responsibility to help out those who are most vulnerable to these hate crimes. Existing as a visibly queer person is getting increasingly more dangerous so we must stand for and protect our trans sisters in this sociopolitical climate.
At first it seemed like transmasc voices project was gonna flounder. Then suddenly they started getting asks like âMy dad is a transfem murder-rapistâ and every third tme on this site is going âinterestingâ like Elon musk.
okay final conclusion on transmascvoicesproject- it's a riley gaines-style grift.
everything i said in my first post was true. she drummed up the outrage, turned on the crocodile tears, and now three days later she's reblogging from kiwifarmers to get mousidy HAL'd for daring to see cocsa as something wayyyy more complicated than csa perpetrated by an adult. and like clockwork, the twerf choir is singing as loudly as they can about him.
the entire account was made to be an incredibly public and noticable twerf recruitment campaign.
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fox news: important conversations about black people's crime rates are being silenced by people calling us racist for pointing it out!
the daily mail: important conversations about muslim immigrant crime rates are being silenced by people calling us islamophobic for pointing it out!
libs of tiktok: important conversations about lgbt people's crime rates are being silenced by people calling us queerphobic for pointing it out!
transmascvoicesproject: important conversations about transfem crime rates are being silenced by people calling us transmisogynistic for pointing it out! b-but i'm NOTHING like those other three! i swear!! i'm an Ontologically Good Victim so i can't be a bigot!!! and i'm dressing up my statements about it in flowery feminist language, surely transmisogynists wouldn't do that, right?
people going âdebate meeeeeeeâ when the âclaimâ in question derives from the most bad faith twerf rhetoric possible will never not be pathetic
also itâs honestly baffling that you reblogged several posts about why transmascvoicesproject is fucking terrible and then proceeded to run defense for her on this post. care to explain whatâs up with that?
oh sure no problem. i believe it is horrific to act as if a person talking about abuse they faced is a bad thing, however, the person transmascvoicesproject themselves sucks for their transmisogyny and not actually being a place that cares about transmascs
okay, i guess thatâs where youâve misinterpreted me. i do not think people talking about the abuse they face is a bad thing, no matter who the abuse was done by. this post is meant to call out transmascvoicesproject using the excuse of âspreading awarenessâ as a smokescreen for spreading transmisogyny, similar to what the right-wing news outlets i compared it to do, and it looks like we both agree on that point. hope that clears it up!
