evil girlpervert

i know that a lot of trans women struggle with comptop and being pigeonholed into being the "hung, virile dom" despite the fact many, if not most, trans women aren't interested in using their penises (or at least aren't interested in using them that way) due to dysphoria. and we do have to be honest and acknowledge that a big part of transfem supremacy is the sexualization of that transmisogynistic stereotype! ik that's not representative of all of the kink but be for real it is like 95% of the content out there.

a lot of kinks (rape, misogyny, incest, ageplay, etc etc etc) are about sexualizing these power dynamics in our fucked up societies and i do not think that's ever going to stop being a thing that humans do, nor do i think it's inherently a harmful thing. but genuinely if we want to make sure we're not harming people we need to acknowledge that's what's happening. i do think that the "risk aware" part of RACK when you're playing with these kinks includes making sure you're aware that 1.) these are the social dynamics you're playing with and 2.) you are capable of reinforcing these harmful dynamics if you're not careful.

this is mainly aimed at the cis women (i am one) who engage in this kink. i honestly think that if you cannot acknowledge you're capable of harming the trans woman you're playing with-- yes even accidentally and yes even as the submissive in the dynamic, then you're simply just not a safe play partner. and good god do not assume that any trans women would automatically be into transfem supremacy.

and for the trans women who're into these kinks please do not feel like you have to subject yourself to mistreatment just to get sexual attention. i know that is easier said than done, as a black woman i see it happen all the time in regards to black people and race play. but you deserve better than being used as a kink dispenser and being thrown away the minute you become inconvenient. please be picky about your partners.

i know that a lot of trans women struggle with comptop and being pigeonholed into being the "hung, virile dom" despite the fact many, if not most, trans women aren't interested in using their penises (or at least aren't interested in using them that way) due to dysphoria. and we do have to be honest and acknowledge that a big part of transfem supremacy is the sexualization of that transmisogynistic stereotype! ik that's not representative of all of the kink but be for real it is like 95% of the content out there.

a lot of kinks (rape, misogyny, incest, ageplay, etc etc etc) are about sexualizing these power dynamics in our fucked up societies and i do not think that's ever going to stop being a thing that humans do, nor do i think it's inherently a harmful thing. but genuinely if we want to make sure we're not harming people we need to acknowledge that's what's happening. i do think that the "risk aware" part of RACK when you're playing with these kinks includes making sure you're aware that 1.) these are the social dynamics you're playing with and 2.) you are capable of reinforcing these harmful dynamics if you're not careful.

this is mainly aimed at the cis women (i am one) who engage in this kink. i honestly think that if you cannot acknowledge you're capable of harming the trans woman you're playing with-- yes even accidentally and yes even as the submissive in the dynamic, then you're simply just not a safe play partner. and good god do not assume that any trans women would automatically be into transfem supremacy.

and for the trans women who're into these kinks please do not feel like you have to subject yourself to mistreatment just to get sexual attention. i know that is easier said than done, as a black woman i see it happen all the time in regards to black people and race play. but you deserve better than being used as a kink dispenser and being thrown away the minute you become inconvenient. please be picky about your partners.

i know that a lot of trans women struggle with comptop and being pigeonholed into being the "hung, virile dom" despite the fact many, if not most, trans women aren't interested in using their penises (or at least aren't interested in using them that way) due to dysphoria. and we do have to be honest and acknowledge that a big part of transfem supremacy is the sexualization of that transmisogynistic stereotype! ik that's not representative of all of the kink but be for real it is like 95% of the content out there.

a lot of kinks (rape, misogyny, incest, ageplay, etc etc etc) are about sexualizing these power dynamics in our fucked up societies and i do not think that's ever going to stop being a thing that humans do, nor do i think it's inherently a harmful thing. but genuinely if we want to make sure we're not harming people we need to acknowledge that's what's happening. i do think that the "risk aware" part of RACK when you're playing with these kinks includes making sure you're aware that 1.) these are the social dynamics you're playing with and 2.) you are capable of reinforcing these harmful dynamics if you're not careful.

this is mainly aimed at the cis women (i am one) who engage in this kink. i honestly think that if you cannot acknowledge you're capable of harming the trans woman you're playing with-- yes even accidentally and yes even as the submissive in the dynamic, then you're simply just not a safe play partner. and good god do not assume that any trans women would automatically be into transfem supremacy.

and for the trans women who're into these kinks please do not feel like you have to subject yourself to mistreatment just to get sexual attention. i know that is easier said than done, as a black woman i see it happen all the time in regards to black people and race play. but you deserve better than being used as a kink dispenser and being thrown away the minute you become inconvenient. please be picky about your partners.