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Can you explain how the real life catgirl thing works? I thought it was a joke before but people seem to be talking about it in the context of people getting lice now?
theyâre actually called cuddlebugs
Thereâs a cluster of bay area* rationalists that itâs often easier to refer to collectively. A lot of them had cat ears theyâd wear a lot, so catgirls became the name. Theyâre very cuddly, mostly trans girls, and basically live at my house on weekends (or they did. Yâall need to come visit me). The cuddling wasâŚprobably not great for preventing the spread of lice.Â
@onthecareandfeedingofcatgirlsâ is typically the one I tag for more in-depth explanations.
*Some catgirls exist outside the bay area. I think theyâre mostly people who would fit into this group if they were in the bay area. It can also just be a convenient label for people with certain traits (or just people who wear cat ears a lot)
what the fuck
is this about real people?? you mean human beings (mostly male???) are walking around with cat-ears tiaras, thinking themselves very rational, and calling themselves âcatgirlsâ???
are you serious??????
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The Catholic Church is wild tho.
You take a vow of poverty but find a loophole by having your followers pay for the palace you live in so you can sit on Twitter and tell the rich that theyâre evil for buying their own houses.
And all this is okay because your teachings are infallible because your best friends took a vote on it.
The Catholic Church leans toward socialism and leftist dogma not because it is charitable but because it is a rigidly hierarchical and authoritarian institution. Authoritarianism is what it understands. Its fascination with fascism developed from the same root.
I say this as someone who was raised Catholic and attended Catholic schools.
âYou understand, venerable brethren, that We speak of that sect of men who, under various and almost barbarous names, are called socialists, communists, or nihilists, and who, spread over all the world, and bound together by the closest ties in a wicked confederacy, no longer seek the shelter of secret meetings, but, openly and boldly marching forth in the light of day, strive to bring to a head what they have long been planning - the overthrow of all civil society whatsoever.â â âQuod Apostolici Munerisâ
Definitely leaning towards socialism and leftist dogma, yup
Oh well if they released a statement against socialism then they couldnât POSSIBLY be utilizing their ideology. Perish the thought!
Itâs not just 1 statement though, look at the sequence starting with Rerum Novarum. From what I can tell, with the exception of Liberation Theology and Mater et Magistra (which was itself controversial amongst Catholics), Catholocism has been pretty away from the Left.
AoFP is right, in that, yes, thereâs a correlation to be drawn between the Cathedrals of the Church and the Cathedrals of leftist states, but authoritarianism does not imply leftism.
The writings of a pope who has been dead over a century are irrelevant and have no impact on my observations or the behavior of the 20th and 21st century church.
Ok, if you wonât take it from Leo, then how âbout the Catechism?
âAny system in which social relationships are determined entirely by economic factors is contrary to the nature of the human person and his actsâŚA system that âsubordinates the basic rights of individuals and of groups to the collective organization of productionâ is contrary to human dignityâŚThe Church has rejected the totalitarian and atheistic ideologies associated in modern times with âcommunismâ or âsocialismââ
Iâm open to being persuaded if I become aware of those instances youâre talking about, but I honestly donât know what youâre talking about.
have you ever been so leftist that you refused to ordain women?
âImagine if I just had a bottle of convincing juice I could object into you at any time? Would it be rational for you to believe me?â ââŚ.. pump me full of your convincing juiceâ
-My rationalist friend (via rationalists-out-of-context)
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My thoughts on Baygate:
1. Not sure if @bendini1 already knows this, but the Bay community wasnât planned, in the sense of someone saying âletâs have a Bay communityâ. Lots of rationalists are involved in tech, and they all ended up in the world tech hub, and then some people founded organizations to take advantage of it being the world tech hub, and then other people moved in to work for those organizations, and then other people moved in to be with their friends, and then other people moved there because it seemed to have critical mass. I moved there originally because I was low on money and @luminousalicorn agreed to let me live with her. Then I met lots of people there and liked it and decided to stick around.
Why does this matter? Because anyone trying to start an alternative hub isnât just replicating the original process that made the Bay Area a hub. Theyâre trying to do something thatâs never been done before - push against entropy and try to bring people to a place they wouldnât otherwise be. Some seasteaders or secessionists or micronationalists trying to start a new country might think âOh, well, France is a country and they seem to be doing fine, how hard could it be?â. But French people didnât âbuildâ France, in the sense of wrest a group of people from all over the world to form a country despite all obstacles. France just happened. If youâre trying to start your own country, your task is completely different from Franceâs and any attempt to compare them is going to make you think itâs much easier than it is.
To create a community anywhere other than the Bay (or Seattle, or other major tech hubs/universities in exact proportion to the degree to which theyâre a major tech hub/university) is going to take social technology and institutions and pushing-against-entropy-ability that have never been tested before.
2. I donât live in a group house. But my girlfriendâs old group house had seven people. One was the head of MIRI. One was the head of AI Impacts. One worked for OpenAI researching AI alignment. One worked for CFAR working on rationality techniques. One worked for OpenPhil researching effective charities. One ran an anti-aging website and newsletter. And the last one was Ben Hoffman of Compass Rose. The group house threw great parties and a bunch of them were in polyamorous relationships with each other.
So when people say âOh, people just live in group houses and throw parties and have polyamorous relationships with each other, which CLEARLY means theyâre not doing any real workâ, I start wondering where exactly theyâre getting their information from.
Any claim that going to Berkeley has stopped people from doing anything interesting has to deal with MIRI, CFAR, OpenPhil, Center For Effective Altruism, GiveWell, Leverage Research, the Center for Human Compatible AI, the Berkeley Existential Risk Project, SPARC, OpenAI, all being based on the Bay and mostly or at least partly rationalists. Other people are working remotely for someone or other, like Ozyâs work for Wild Animal Suffering Research, or Ben and Oliverâs work on LW 2.0. Some people I know who arenât involved in any of those things are doing big data startups, pharmaceutical startups, anti-aging startups, cryogenics startups, Bitcoin startups, AI startups, secret-Peter-Thiel-sinister-agenda-related startups, or just earning to give really effectively. Some people who arenât involved in any of *those* things have their own personal projects but arenât prepared to go public yet.
Iâm really curious if the "people in the Bay Area seem unproductiveâ crowd have added up all of those things, taken a census of how many people are in the Bay Area, and decided the number of things going on is lower than they would expect given the population. Or if itâs more like âwell, nobodyâs cured death yet, guess theyâre not really tryingâ.
3. The first step in claiming that rationalists have neglected âThe Craftâ is a very clear explanation of what exactly âThe Craftâ is.
I can think of one interpretation in which itâs sort of like Superforecasting on steroids. I agree there arenât enough people doing this.
I can think of another interpretation in which itâs something more like what I do with Slate Star Codex. I go off and pursue things Iâm curious about, come across difficult questions I donât yet know how to answer, work to try to understand them better in some non-systematized and non-systematizeable way - then report back to others.
Thereâs some stuff in the Sequences like http://lesswrong.com/lw/9c/mandatory_secret_identities/ which suggests that pursuing âThe Craftâ separately from other projects is an error, that nobody should claim to be working on âThe Craftâ until theyâve already got other projects in traditional object-level fields going. In this model, the people who work boring day jobs and then report back on what theyâve learned about rationality are doing it exactly right.
Thereâs an even stronger version in which rationality is an attitude you bring to everything else. A person who does nothing but go to parties all day, but who watches and improves their mental processes as they decide which parties to go to, is a better rationalist than someone who writes books about biases and heuristics haphazardly and poorly. In this model, having a ârationalist cultureâ or ârationalist societyâ is a big part of what you need - you want to be interacting with people who will encourage those tendencies in you and keep you honest.
I worry that a big part of the anti-Bay argument is that you can always point at any specific thing, however good and helpful, and say âAh, but itâs not The Craftâ. Therefore, nobody in the Bay is working on The Craft. Maybe a list of examples of what sort of projects (real and hypothetical) qualify would be helpful and then we could see if other areas seem to produce them more often than the Bay. This would help deal with the objection mentioned in (2), if for some reason none of those projects qualified as âreal Craftâ.
To @worldlypositions, who I just learned inexplicably hates iambic pentameter but loves iambic tetrameter:
O, thou art like a summerâs day But fairer and more temperate Rough winds do shake the buds of May And summer hath too short a date.
Sometimes too hot the sunlight shines And sometimes is its color dimmed And every fair from fair declines By chance, or natureâs course, untrimmed.
But thy own summer shall not fade Nor shalt thou lose the fair thou ow'st Nor shalt Death have thou in his shade In timeless lines to Time thou growst.
So long as men can breathe or see, So long lives this, and through it, thee.
Not going to blame @worldlypositions this time, but for my own amusement:
A summerâs day? No, youâre more fair! Thereâs storms in May And sunshineâs rare.
The skyâs too bright Or else too dim; All charms take flight By natureâs whim.
But you wonât fade, Nor lose your fair, Nor reach deathâs shade; These lines will spare!
If men still see, This poemâs for thee.
Days to Compare? No, you're more fairÂ
The heat: a cage; None cheat Old ageÂ
But thou Willt stay Ask how? If theyÂ
Can find These linesÂ
The rules about responding to call outs arenât working
Privileged people rarely take the voices of marginalized people seriously. Social justices spaces attempt to fix this with rules about how to respond to when marginalized people tell you that youâve done something wrong. Like most formal descriptions of social skills, the rules donât quite match reality. This is causing some problems that I think we could fix with a more honest conversation about how to respond to criticism.
The formal social justice rules say something like this:
You should listen to marginalized people.
When a marginalized person calls you out, donât argue.
Believe them, apologize, and donât do it again.
When you see others doing what you were called out for doing, call them out.
Those rules are a good approximation of some things, but they donât actually work. It is impossible to follow them literally, in part because:
Marginalized people are not a monolith.Â
Marginalized people have the same range of opinions as privileged people.
When two marginalized people tell you logically incompatible things, it is impossible to act on both sets of instructions.
For instance, some women believe that abortion is a human right foundational human right for women. Some women believe that abortion is murder and an attack on women and girls.
âListen to womenâ doesnât tell you who to believe, what policy to support, or how to talk about abortion.Â
For instance, some women believe that religious rules about clothing liberate women from sexual objectification, other women believe that religious rules about clothing sexually objectify women.Â
âListen to womenâ doesnât tell you what to believe about modesty rules.Â
Narrowing it to âlisten to women of minority faithsâ doesnât help, because women disagree about this within every faith.
When âlisten to marginalized peopleâ means âadopt a particular positionâ, marginalized people are treated as rhetorical props rather than real people.
Objectifying marginalized people does not create justice.
Since the rule is literally impossible to follow, no one is actually succeeding at following it. What usually ends up happening when people try is that:
One opinion gets lifted up as âthe position of marginalized peopleâÂ
Agreeing with that opinion is called âlisten to marginalized peopleâ
Disagreeing with that opinion is called âtalking over marginalized peopleâ
Marginalized people who disagree with that opinion are called out by privileged people for âtalking over marginalized peopleâ.
This results in a lot of fights over who is the true voice of the marginalized people.
We need an approach that is more conducive to real listening and learning.
This version of the rule also leaves us open to sabotage:
There are a lot of people who donât want us to be able to talk to each other and build effective coalitions.
Some of them are using the language of call-outs to undermine everyone who emerges as an effective progressive leader.Â
They say that they are marginalized people, and make up lies about leaders.
Or they say things that are technically true, but taken out of context in deliberately misleading ways.
The rules about shutting up and listening to marginalized people make it very difficult to contradict these lies and distortions.Â
(Sometimes they really are members of the marginalized groups they claim to speak for. Sometimes theyâre outright lying about who they are).
(For instance, Russian intelligence agents have used social media to pretend to be marginalized Americans and spread lies about Hillary Clinton.)
The formal rule is also easily exploited by abusive people, along these lines:
An abusive person convinces their victim that they are the voice of marginalized people.
The abuser uses the rules about âwhen people tell you that youâre being oppressive, donât argueâ to control the victim.
Whenever the victim tries to stand up for themself, the abuser tells the victim that theyâre being oppressive.
That can be a powerfully effective way to make victims in our communities feel that they have no right to resist abuse.Â
This can also prevent victims from getting support in basic ways.
Abusers can send victims into depression spirals by convincing them that everything that brings them pleasure is oppressive and immoral.Â
The abuser may also isolate the victim by telling them that it would be oppressive for them to spend time with their friends and family, try to access victim services, or call the police.Â
The abuser may also separate the victim from their community and natural allies by spreading baseless rumors about their supposed oppressive behavior. (Or threatening to do so).
When there are rules against questioning call outs, there are also implicit rules against taking the side of a victim when the abuser uses the language of calling out.
Rules that say some people should unconditionally defer to others are always dangerous.
The rule also lacks intersectionality:
No one experiences every form of oppression or every form of privilege.
Call-outs often involve people who are marginalized in different ways.Â
Often, both sides in the conflict have a point.
For instance, black men have male privilege and white women have white privilege.
If a white woman calls a black man out for sexism and he responds by calling her out for racism (or vice versa), âlistened to marginalized peopleâ isnât a very helpful rule because theyâre both marginalized.
These conversations tend to degenerate into an argument about which form of marginalization is most significant.
This prevents people involved from actually listening to each other.
In conflicts like this, itâs often the case that both sides have a legitimate point. (In ways that are often not immediately obvious.)
We need to be able to work through these conflicts without expecting simplistic rules to resolve them in advance.
This rule also tends to prevent groups centered around one form of marginalized from coming to engage with other forms of marginalization:
For instance, in some spaces, racism and sexism are known to be issues, but ableism is not.
(This can occur in any combination. Eg: There are also spaces that get ableism and sexism but not racism, and spaces that get economic justice and racism but not antisemitism, or any number of other things.)
When disabled people raise the issue of ableism in any context (social justice or otherwise), theyâre likely to be shouted down and told that itâs not important.
In social justice spaces, this shouting down is often done in the name of âlistening to marginalized peopleâ.
For instance, disabled people may be told âyou need to listen to marginalized people and de-center your issuesâ, carrying the implication that ableism is less important than other forms of oppression.
(This happens to *every* marginalized group in some context or other.)
If we want real intersectional solidarity, we need to have space for ongoing conflicts that are not simple to resolve.
Tl;dr âShut up and listen to marginalized peopleâ isnât quite the right rule, because it objectifies marginalized people, leaves us open to sabotage, enables abuse, and prevents us from working through conflicts in a substantive way. We need to do better by each other, and start listening for real.
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Who is Chris Arnade and why does he always act like the only person on twitter who has ever met a poor person.Â
Heâs a guy who (by his own telling) worked on Wall Street for 20 years, took up photography as a hobby, started talking to poor people because he was taking pictures of them, and suddenly had this sophomoric moral revelation that Actually, Numbers Are Bad and Inhuman, While Individual Narratives Are Authentic And Good.  He quit his Wall Street job and now talks to / photographs poor people full time while sneering at everyone who dirties their hands with actual policy (which inevitably involves the dread Numbers, since âpersonally befriend everyone affectedâ does not scale up to millions of people).  One day he is going to learn about the concept of âvoluntourismâ and his mind is going to get blown, again
I am being mean here but the guy really pisses me off
I donât want to be confrontational because I really respect you as a writer and as a thinker, but Iâm going to have to defend him. One of the big, blaring, nasty failure states of policy wonks like us is going overboard and saying âThe metrics (that we have defined, of course) are telling us all is well. Anyone who has problems with the status quo are either behaving in bad faith, or outliers. Because of that, we should discount them.â If weâre not careful, we tend to privilege the map over the territory (which on a fundamental level makes sense, we wonks deal with the maps rather than the territory) and end up trying to force human experience to conform to our equations rather than the other way around. Chris Arnade is anâŚimportant counterweight to those urges. He goes around and tries to document people and their experiences. Maybe itâs because I am marinating in academia too much, but it really seems to be a recurring pattern that we develop some models and then just stop there, with the models becoming normative. We donât usually have someone go and check whoâs experiencing the effect of our models afterwards. Two examples that I think pattern-match to what Chris is trying to do:
https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1257/aer.20131578 The classic one is that thereâs some evidence that trade with China did cost the US a significant number of jobs, and this harmed a lot of people in the US. I am uncertain this claim is right, but until very recently you werenât even allowed to conjecture this without being shut down as some sort of anti-intellectual racist hick. And then, years later, oops! I guess all those racist hicks might have noticed a real thing! Whoopsie!
A more recent one, from SSC, was this http://www.businessinsider.com/check-cashing-stores-good-deal-upenn-professor-2017-2 where it turns out that poor people keep going to check-cashing stores forâŚrational reasons. Because it works better for them given what they value as a demographic. Yet weâve built our policy models around the idea that evil dirty check-cashing stores are tricking poor dumb yokels into using them, and that we need to educate those poor people right.
I apologize if Iâm getting heated, but it really does seem like a recurring theme where we wonks create a model, it matches well enough, and then when it starts encountering contradictions with reality we ignore (or worse, punish) the humans that are contradicting our policy models. Chris Arnade is going out and gathering the results of our policies, and heâs trying to do it with compassion and giving dignity to the people involved. That is a valuable service, especially to those of us who want to dismiss it.
I am not trying to put folk wisdom on some sort of pedestal here, less-informed people are wrong more often. But dismissing people because we have declared them less-informed and thus valueless is sloppy thinking. Deciding we have a lovely elegant model of how policy should work and prioritizing its implementation over actually looking at its effects on people is sloppy thinking. Chris is an evangelist of going up to the people affected by the bad outcomes of our policies and asking them how theyâre working. It doesnât mean the answers are oracular, just that heâs trying to push us in the opposite direction of our most common failure state. The fact that, if left unchecked, his arguments would push us into another, opposite-side failure state, does not seem to be grounds to dismiss him any more than itâs grounds to dismiss laissez-faire economists because they dislike economic coercion. I donât always agree with Chris, but I think my intellectual ecosystem would be poorer for not having him.
First off, I admit I have read very little of his output. Â Can you give me some examples of writing heâs done that you consider worthwhile in way youâre describing here?
Because I agree with you that this kind of investigation is valuable and important, and not done often enough, especially in parts of academia (I think there ought to be far more âfield workâ done in economics, and that check cashing case is a great example of why this matters).  But everything I have seen from Arnade suggests that he is not simply doing his part among journalists (there are others!), academics, etc. who talk to people on the ground and thus provide this vital kind of knowledge.  My impression of Arnade is that he thinks (to exaggerate only mildly) he is the only person that ever talks to people on the ground, and â whatâs more â that makes his own general models more plausible than anyone elseâs, even in cases where he hasnât talked to people, just because he is in this unique state of talking-to-people-related enlightenment.
Or, as OP said, he acts âlike the only person on twitter who has ever met a poor person,â and uses this quality of himself as a person as a discursive weapon.
Take for instance this passage from the article I linked above:
Recently I came home from a day in the Bronx, exhausted by the cumulative effect of a thousand little dramas. I opened my computer and looked at my twitter stream. My old world reappeared. I read smart commentary on places like Brazil. I scrolled through tweet after tweet, all shouting the story of the day.
It was all logical and rational and clever. Everyone was throwing different numbers around to show they were right.
Few were telling the messy and complex stories of the struggles to navigate the illogical and absurd reality of life, about the consequences of the news on, you know, people.
One smart columnist, Matt Yglesias, was arguing why the death of 1,129 people in a clothing factory in Bangladesh was understandable and âOK.â Poor countries need lax labor laws before they can be rich ⌠It went something like that.
The author had fallen so far down the wormhole of numbers and clever arguments that he had forgotten humans were involved. Like Wall Street and I had forgotten that it was humans we were loaning money to and that it was humans who we were foreclosing on and it was humans whose governments were defaulting.
I wanted to tweet back. âGo to Bangladesh. Talk to one of the children of the dead. Hell, donât just talk to one. Spend two weeks listening.â
He hadnât gone to Bangladesh. He had just read a few headlines from a competing columnist and decided to argue based on that.
After much thought I tweeted to him, âyou are an idiot.â
Yglesiasâ post was tonedeaf, and he apologized for it.  But letâs note a few things.  First, Arnade didnât go to Bangladesh either.  He imagined the misery he would witness there, from the armchair, and imagined that Yglelsias would change his mind upon witnessing this misery.  The argument isnât âyouâre wrong, and I know because I actually talked to the affected peopleâ; the argument, as far as I can understand, is âyouâre wrong, and I know because I am the sort of person who talks to affected people.â  And the end result â perfectly and poetically â was yet more standard twitter discourse between armchair jackoffs: âyou are an idiot.â
Second, there is a real policy question here (âdo poor countries need lax labor laws before they can be rich?â), and like many policy questions, it involves accepting one bad thing, X, to avoid another, Y.  This is open to multiple kinds of attack: that X is in fact worse than Y; that X is immediate and assured while Y is only the prediction of a fallible model.  What does not constitute a good attack is to point out that X is in fact bad.  We know that already.  Probably some people do need to âgo to Bangladeshâ (or the equivalent, for whatever policy question) to have the true awfulness of X rubbed in their unwilling face.  Sometimes this will change minds that ought to be changed.  But the armchair posture of âthe only one here who feels the badness of bad thingsâ is not conducive to helping people.  There are always people suffering, no matter what policy is implemented, and in policy discourse, âyou donât get it, suffering is really badâ is an argument that can serve any master, prop up any side of any debate ad hoc.  Its application is always ad hoc, because nothing important is without downsides.
(This all carries over in p. obvious ways to Arnadeâs writing/tweeting about Trump and Trump voters.)
Finally, on a more emotional level, there is something that just ⌠squicks me out about the idea of individual people getting used as discourse one-upmanship tools by the journalists whoâve talked to them, whoâve âspent two weeksâ listening and self-consciously emphathizing, who feel their pain.  Thankfully there is nothing in my life like the Bangladesh factory collapse, but there are cases where I can imagine becoming such a token.  Iâve talked a lot on here about how I spent 5 years in my adolescence on Risperdal, and how it messed me up, and how I think there needs to be more awareness about the dangers of antipsychotics.  But I know very little about the ugly procedural guts of the system that ended up producing my 5-year Risperdal prescription.  And my insides squirm when I think about some journalist coming to talk to me, listening to my own story, and then using âIâve talked to people hurt by Risperdalâ as a trump card in some complicated policy argument.  Would their favored policies actually help people like younger me?  Would they help them, but at the cost of hurting other people worse? Those are among the questions I would ask if I were part of the debate, but I wouldnât be part of the debate; having been Talked To, my usefulness would have ended.
I would rather my suffering be known than not known, but once it is known as part of a statistic, I do not want to serve a further use as a sentimental token. Â I do not know the answers, and ~feeling my pain~ does not confer knowledge of the answers.
[jonathan haidt voice] a man creates a tulpa of his anime waifu. no one else ever knows and the act does not harm the man himself. was this wrong?
the most important advice i give to people who write me about being in abusive activist cults / hot allostatic load situations is to dis-identify with their language and leave their universe âŚgetting invested in that po-faced neo-1950â˛s pious language and the culture makes you a huge targetâŚi donât know if i made that clear enough in the original but yeahâŚthen resist the urge to join some polarized faction that vaguely hates the thing that hurt you but for different stupid reasons, and make friends who are real people and know how to chill the fuck out lol
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