buzzbee

I can’t overshare because that would be very humiliating but everyone else should overshare because I like to know everything

having a hometown is such a fucked up concept. i grew up here so i do not want to stay here anymore. i miss it when i am away but once i am back i realise why i wanted to go away as far as possible from it. i am familiar with every corner of this place i did not realise when it slowly changed into something unrecognisable. i would probably like to be buried here but i'd rather die than live here

Netanyahu being a war criminal isnt even like a hidden thing or whatever like it’s a bare minimum fact to state that but im fr like worried bout mamdani now that he made that vid like. very bare minimum for ana median politician its just worrying bc of how much trump keeps targeting him 4 being like a bare minimum decent politician here + the democratic party getting rlly mad at him as well it’s like ok mr mandani imma need u to step up the security fr, its nice that he turned down a pay raise bill publicly like very cool of u but u might need the money to beef up ur home security actually

my number one advice for trans women both on this shitass platform and in real life is: you do not have to answer that question. people are so used to exploiting transfems' collective low self esteem that they will just expect you to answer questions that are best responded to with an openly disgusted stare. you do not have to answer these motherfuckers' questions. you don't owe anyone an explanation. "who do you think you are to ask me that" and "what makes you think that's an acceptable thing to say to me" are good, but most of the time you can just say nothing and look at them like they just offered you a spoon and a bowl of shit to eat. you'd be amazed how fast people start backtracking if you just say nothing and let their idiot question grow stale in the air

and needless to say you do not need to answer anons. yes this includes if they tell you everyone is saying something about you and can you explain. it is a trick. let them refresh your blog in vain

irl this doesn't work on people who have made up their minds to be openly hostile but it works on just about everyone else. most people have less-than-unshakable social confidence. practically everybody is secretly afraid of that moment where they realize they did something socially wrong. and no version of that moment is as jarring as when the flow of interaction just. ends. nobody is ready for the script to just stop. consequently, if you can project a passable lack of uncertainty during the brief, lurching silence that follows when you just don't respond to someone's weird question, in a way that is clearly deliberate, it only takes about 3-4 seconds at most before the other person will assume they fucked up bad even if they're not sure how. you just stare at them with perplexed disgust. they will backtrack and apologize. you still don't have to say anything. if you know them and you want to let them off with a warning, you can let them squirm for a second and then say "anyway," and change the subject like they were just being weird and you're doing them a favor. if you don't know them, or don't want to, just say say nothing, look at them like they're gross, and then ignore them

every teenager is right that music is more important than anything else in the WORLD!!!!!

i have a bunch of disgusting ideas if anyone's interested

(me ever since I was 12) okay I actually need to get it together now

the worst person you know thinks they're super empathetic. the kindest person you know thinks they're fucked up and evil