for the ask game! 2, 23, and 26!
2) do you have a collection of anything?
i fear i may truly be part crow bc i literally collect everything. in the least capitalistic way possible i love things; like, i love creation, and the act of creating, and the idea that people -- and the earth in general -- can just, make things. when i phrase it that way it sounds kinda woo-woo but i promise i'm normal.
in terms of specifics: i love art and images; i have a whole backlog of art/prints that i need to get frames for. i'm never beating the woo-woo allegations, but i also have a pretty decent collection of tarot/lenormand/oracle cards, many of which i even use w some frequency (lmao, i need to be better about taking them out and reading w them). i recently had to buy a new bookcase just to have a place to keep my calico critters (sylvanian families). i have a very modest dvd collection, and an even smaller masks collection. i have nearly 300 pez dispensers, and currently they're just in a few bins piled near my front door bc they're so fucking hard to display.
i love stuffed animals in general, but i have a few sub-collections within that larger category. i've been collecting webkinz since i got my first one when i was eight, much to my parent's chagrin (they refused to get me one for the longest time bc they thought it was a pointless fad, but i managed to talk my aunt into getting one for me and the rest has been history). i have about a dozen puffkins, which i'm obsessed w but are suprisingly hard to find. this also seems like the most logical section to mention my 70+ (at last count, so it might be closer to 100 now) furbys.
the only reason i don't currently have a cat is bc i collect dead things while living in a studio apartment, so i have no way to keep my cat away from my dead things when unsupervised. i've processed some of my own bones and mummified specimens, but i also have some i've bought, as well as a few traditional wet specimens; a couple pieces of taxidermy; many pinned and resin encased insects; and a single, beautiful diaphonized frog.
that's not everything but. perhaps it's enough.
23) what's the coolest place you've visited?
define "cool." unfortunately for you i think everything in the world is cool, hence my answer to the first question. also, define "visit." how far do i have to travel for it to no longer be. just. hanging out where i live.
anyway. sorry for stalling. i don't really travel much. i think, objectively, the answer is: for spring break my senior year of high school i went to spain. it's still the only time i've left the country, and still one of the only times i've even left my time zoneπ some of my favorite places in the world are museums and parks/beaches/little nature patches, and obviously there were some really cool ones there. i went to the prado and got right up to the rope on the garden of earthly delights which made me cry, and one of the hotels i stayed at was right on the mediterranean, and one night at like. ten pm. one of my friends and i went for a walk just wading in the water for probably about a mile before we turned around and went back. i think in general i should be granted more unsupervised access to the water in the middle of the night all my local beaches close at sunset.
also, when i was a kid my dad used to take annual business trips to dc, and my mom and i would tag along to go the museums and stuff. i have such vivid memories of a lot of the art in the national gallery and various exhibits in the natural history museum.
for things i thought were cool, i also love peculiar artifacts of humanity. like, little shops and roadside attractions that only exist bc someone was Unmedicated. i feel a strong sense of kinship w them. some of my favorites have been the mothman museum in point pleasant, west virginia that i bullied my parents into taking me to on our way home from tennessee one year; holy land, usa in waterbury, ct; and, like, several scare attractions i've been to. but literally everyone would call me insane for ranking, like, 'corn maze w an animatronic scarecrow in it' on par w actual art museums, so i won't. at least not explicitly.
26) do you make a list before going to the grocery store or just wing it?
i really just rawdog it. conveniently i live really close to several grocery stores, so i honestly just buy, like, a handful of things at a time multiple times a week/as needed. i can't meal prep bc my brain a) hates leftovers (for a few irrational reasons; it's not relevant), and b) won't let me eat something unless it's exactly what i want in that exact moment. i'll get really invested in a food for, like, a few days/weeks at a time and then refuse to eat it ever again for months/years, so if i keep too much of a backlog of food on hand, especially perishables, it all goes bad and then i kill myself out of grief and guilt.