todoroki with a blog

Also the documentary is very biased and you can tell that she wants to paint us with this very broad brush that makes us out to be predators. For example, she features "ex-radqueers", but not any of us that are in the community for this video. Wouldn't it be good to show your audience a bigger perspective (aside from that one person from the past interview)?

Her definitions are slightly correct. I like how she didn't only mention anti and pro contact but also neutral, complex, etc, but you can absolutely see the direction of the video. Like, when she mentions paraphilias it would have been nice to cover what they are and the attraction ≠ action ideology I usually see here.

Also her trans identity section is laughable. Obviously she will spotlight trans race and trans disabled because those are eyebrow raisers, but ignores that many of the beings that identify with these have dysphoria or that we all aren't a monolith when it comes to accepting some sorts of labels. We literally had a mini civil war over trans Nazi / NIN.

Also let me just add that I am a grown ass woman that's employed and educated. The radqueer community isn't just youth. And the way Jessicur discusses (usually teenagers) joining the community is vaguely similar to how bigots view children coming out as queer and joining the lgbtq+ community. It also makes it seem like most radqueers aren't vanilla queers ourselves. Like I knew I was lesbian before I knew I was radqueer; that cant be separated. Also many of us are cis poc, disabled, mentally ill, etc. Fake claiming is always bad.

I'm not even gonna get too deep into pro-ship vs anti ship. Fiction does not affect reality. Propaganda is different because of pre-existing prejudice and obviously government run campaigns will affect people more than some randoms fanfic on ao3.

I won't clown on ex-radqueers who "escaped" because I just don't think that's fair. They had a reason for leaving, but I DO think its weird of Jessicur to use it to further this agenda of depicting this community as a Cult. We don't have figureheads or a hierarchy. We argue on this damn site almost every week. Nobody is in danger if they choose to leave. Now I can't deny that there are many traumatized beings that join this community, but it's the same with the lgbtq+ and plural communities. Are they cults too?

A RADQ / TRANSID HEADCANON GAME!

— created because i have the unmistakable urge to change everything abt myself and become someone else ! so lets help each other become unrecognizable 🩷 /hj

this one is a trading game ! so if you want some , you gotta give some ! but dw , because i'll do my best to give some to everybeast who reblogs ! send an emoji along with ur headcanons and the responder will give u some in return !

for example , if u send 🧵 , you'll give them permaIDs ! and the responder will give YOU permaIDs in return ! ^_^ you can also send one emoji , and ask for another ! like sending trans-IDs and requesting perma-IDs in return !

REMEMBER : IF U GET AN ASK , SEND HEADCANONS BACK TO THEM , TOO !! ITS A TRADING GAME ABOVE ALL !!!!

🧵 — PERMA-IDs !! What do you think I am permanently ?

🎡 — TRANS-IDs !! What do you think I should be ? Do you think I'll transition to them ?

🌙 — CIS - IDs !! What do you think I already am ? (note : these are not things ur born as , just things u ID as already being !!)

🎏 — HARMED / HARMFUL !! What harmed / harmful IDs do you associate with me ? (can be cis / trans / perma / etc.)

🌹 — PARAS !! What paras do you associate with me ?

🍟 — NAMES / TITLES !! What names or titles would you give me ?

🐠 — PRONOUNS !! What pronouns would you assign me ? can be 1st person , 2nd person , 3rd person , whatever !!

🍧 — NATI - IDs !! What IDs do u think I was born as ? (note : these arent necessarily cis - IDs !! but they can be !)

🎀 — BONUS GAME !! Give ANY headcanons you want ! random facts , misc IDs , ANYTHING!!

ִ ࣪ ˖ ࣪ PermaLegPain ! ᰔ ִ ׄ

A permaID for someone who feels they have or should have permanent leg pain

Alternative description: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH KILL ME UGHHHHH OWIE

— spiteworse [ spite-worse ]

when an individual identifies as being worse out of spite !

I was checking out the reason why LSDqueer (And other stances around being pro - noncon) was coined and it's so hilarious. "Oh I'm pro - rape because uhm.. I don't feel empathy about it :/" ???? Are you fucking stupid u dumb bitch. Do you even see how much of a joke you sound right now or are you incapable of such thing. "Oh I don't feel emotionally affected by rape so guess what! I'm pro rape!!! Get raped. Why? Because yeah. Not feeling empathy is synonymous with being pro - stuff. Didn't u know? I pulled this info up my asshole!!!" Dude. Bro