yâall can deadass blame Drew Afualo for me going full on terf and proud. i do NOT care anymore. how can you, as a cis woman, deadass get on the internet and say that you stand by the opinion that trans women have a âbetter and more beautiful understanding of womanhood than cis women doâ and then call every cis woman a terf bitch who disagrees? itâs no shock to me that so many feminists and women are jumping ship. yâall continue to constantly go into spaces meant for women and throw misogyny in our faces. we canât speak on sex based violence, our biology, our childhoods, pregnancy, periods, and now even our own womanhood without it being redefined, or us being told to shut up OR being called insecure or a âterfâ / transphobic for recognizing that there are differences between trans and cis women. whether yâall like it or not biology and socialization play a huge part, a trans woman will NEVER understand womanhood from the perspective of a biological woman who was born and raised a female. that doesnât meant they arenât âwomenâ but trying to pretend they have a âbetter understandingâ of womanhood is flat out invalidating and misogynistic. period. why are we even comparing anyway? itâs like they are asking for a further divide. i could seriously rant about this forever, i even have screenshots, im just glad she blocked me or i wouldâve been arguing in her comment section on tiktok for years. this was nothing but a great reminder as to why i keep my opinions on this topic to myself. i genuinely am so done dealing with braindead idiots like her who purposely dance around the point then fall back on misogynistic rhetoric to project this allyship persona. youâre NOT an ally to cis women: thatâs for sure.
