— things everyone should know

a WORD.

Likewise if your environment reinforces detrimental and negative habits you will end up emulating those habits as well. Don't be afraid to move away from spaces that are detrimental to your betterment as a person.

Black girls in leisure — moodboard

Also screenshot the picture from your camera roll and crop it because if he saves it to his phone now it will show an updated date and time taken

I second this! Just a thought for my fellow black women: Femininity & Opulence > Poverty & Caping

Black girls in luxury —Moodboard

I really hope the sugar daddy era dies. I can’t wait to see the day we are all wealthy girlfriends/fiancées/wives and going to cute fancy dinners and gifting each other Chanel bags and expensive jewelry❣️ Please only deal with men who give you *everything*. Men are so simple and highly moldable. They are easily impressed by women’s sexuality, persona and at times, even our indifference. You will not get the most bang for your buck sugaring. In sugaring, men try to mold you to their advantage. You will get the most for dating and marrying a wealthy man who is generous in dividing up his wealth for you. Sugaring doesn’t land you a billionaire. Escorting has the potential to since it’s a numbers game- but the online sugar dating will likely lead you to trouble; wasted time, lowballing, scams, assault, legal trouble. Ladies build your personal brand of who you want to be. Brand is everything. Start waking up as her, start dressing like her, start motioning through your day as her. Get your clothing tailored, even your hoodies! This will make you feel so expensive and elegant. When you’re out running errands hoping to meet your Billionaire whale husband, act like you’re an off duty model, or like you’re in between fancy appointments. Write yourself a cheque for 20 million dollars and store it in your favourite wallet and wake up feeling secure; you don’t need to hunt out men, you have that 20 million dollars (even though you don’t, insist on believing you do). You have everything you need. Focus more on these small loving details and your synchronicities will pile up. This will alter the way you interact with men and you will end up finding one person who will take care of everything; your bills, shopping, debts, school, misc/emergency costs. Everything. You don’t need a million semi-potentials, you only need one man who will do everything for you. The more we hold men to this standard, the more we will repel shitty men from our community entirely. There is simply no room for men who can’t solve our problems. Women deserve to value, love, trust and believe in themselves and each other. 💞✨

black women in leisure — moodboard

5. STAY SAFE AND ALWAYS HAVE A LOWKEY WEAPON. There is some nut cases out there and you never want to end up in a bad situation trust your gut.

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