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@youre-giving-me-idjititis

@tamberland

THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING I’VE EVER LEARNED

i'm thinking about how cats hold their babies and how so many mammals also hold their babies and also about how physical touch is a love language

[image id: two ginger cats, one large and one small, lying asleep. they are cuddling chest-to-chest with their arms around each other, their eyes closed, and their bodies curled around each other. they look content. end id.]

i'm thinking about how cats hold their babies and how so many mammals also hold their babies and also about how physical touch is a love language

[image id: two ginger cats, one large and one small, lying asleep. they are cuddling chest-to-chest with their arms around each other, their eyes closed, and their bodies curled around each other. they look content. end id.]

I just realized the reason so many people will call someone “an abuser” when the facts of the matter indicate instead that the person is actually simply “an asshole” is because you can’t just create engaging social media guilt by association drama by demanding people unfollow x or y if they’re simply an asshole, but if you re-reframe banal assholishness as genuine psychological abuse it means you can also start shit with anybody who associates with the asshole in question. That might also explain why people say “this person is a gaslighter” when they instead mean “this person says lies”.

Hey op, I’m trying to read you in the best way possible, but this sounds EXTREMELY insensitive to survivors of abuse.

It goes way past merely “insensitive.” Actually, it sounds pretty abusive in and of itself. It’s victim-blaming at its finest. “You’re not being abused, you’re just trying to create drama” - really? Nope.

i am always kidding but i am also always serious. do not underestimate me

This is an amazing life story in under 3 minutes.

Trixie’s eternal look of bewilderment when Katya goes off on one of these will never wear thin

I’ve had this on repeat for the last couple of minutes switching my hearing to hear either “that’s a fucking excellent idea” and “that sounds like an excellent idea” (which is what he’s actually saying) and it’s really tripping me out