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literally every anti-polyamory caricature I've ever seen has just been filled with this latent rage that people that are "ugly" or "weird" are able to be desired by multiple people. fat people, autistic people, people who talk weird or have disabilities or even who are a bit cringey about their relationships - there's just a desire to discredit the fact that they're wanted and loved by portraying their relationships as intrinsically shallow. it could not be more of a self-admitting L if it tried to be. mad that people you hate are still capable of being wanted aren't you!

I was imagining "reverse creep radiohead" as a bit and now I can't stop thinking of "I wish you were special, I'm so fucking special" and laughing

If you think I've recommended this book too many times, it's because I have. Because it keeps being relevant. And I would love for it to NOT be relevant, but until that day I'm going to boombox it to the sky that everyone- especially white settlers globally, because y'all continue to benefit from the very same insatiable consumption of Black and Brown bodies- needs to read this book. I've even got quotes on the page if you type the name up and search.