Warning and request regarding this post:
I had responded directly to her post, but I figured doing a separate post would help too. The post I linked is my original request to please consider not donating or supporting her due to a history of abusive and manipulative behavior, as well as abandonment of two children. If anyone needs to see the proof/receipts, I will gladly share it when requested. Here's what I originally wrote:
I would warn against donating to her. In the time I have known her she has abused her partners medically and emotionally along with severe manipulation from which they are all recovering from still. As another former partner of hers who was also friends with her for years prior, I also experienced some of that abuse and manipulation as well. Since the split from her polycule she has consistently ignored all contact and gone out of her way to avoid paying court ordered child support and has made no requests to see her child either. She tends to target members of the LGBT+ community along with the FFXIV community for her grifting. She tends to attempt to shift the blame onto other people for her own actions and their consequences so please be careful. She has ghosted to the point where legally, nothing has been addressed. Valorie has not attended court, she has not responded to any messages from anyone involved in her child's life, the child support office has never even been able to serve her since she legally changed her name again and didn't change her address from where she was living before she ghosted her child completely after January 2023. I want to be clear, I'm reblogging her post because I want to warn others and prevent anyone from going through the betrayal and manipulation I and her former friends, partners, and communities went through. I'm only responding to this because if I can help someone else stay safe from the behaviors she has demonstrated in the past, and stop someone else from ending up in a toxic and abusive relationship with her or help keep someone else from having another child that she might abandon.
