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The ninja have such a "boys will be boys" aurora around them. They joke and laugh and make fun of each other without any real malice. They really made it feel like a bunch of teenage boys who got thrust into a world of being ninjas.
RSD check
Your friends don't secretly hate you
You're not a bad person for things you did and said months or years ago that you now recognize as bad
You aren't cringe for being excited about things
You don't talk too much
If you feel sick from intrusive thoughts/rsd please sip on some water, get a blanket or plush to cuddle, put on some music or a video that makes you feel happy
You are loved <3
Iâm just going to leave this hereâŚ
im on mobile, can someone make one that adds âjewsâ
Done
Cowards wonât reblog this version.

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Hai hai!
Friendly reminder to be kind to autistic people who struggle to take care of themselves physically or have habits that are often labeled as annoying.
Being autistic is not always "cute" and not all stims are convient for those around us. Those actions are meant to comfort us, not others in the area. That does not mean we are any less deserving of kindness and friendship.
Greasy unkempt hair
Leg bouncing
Mouth open chewing
Drooling while stim chewing
Long unclipped nails
Groaning and other verbal stims
These are all things I've seen other autistic friends shamed for in person and online :c None of these traits/actions are why a person should be treated poorly
some of you don't see ableism as a real issue and it shows
like I see ableism everywhere, even in feminist spheres. I see people throwing around "crazy" "psycho" "narcissist". i see so called feminists saying the r slur WAY too easily.
we're completely left out of environmental conversations or just dismissed (see: the straw ban). we're collateral damage in their eyes.
I've seen a skinny woman get abuse and hate for posting a selfie of her in her wheelchair and tagging it as "body positive", told she was "hijacking the movement".
black disabled or mentally ill (like schizophrenia) people die, and i see people excusing it as "how was he acting?" as if being mentally ill is a fucking death sentence!
disabled women are more at risk for abuse, especially at the hands of carers, and its glossed over! nobody ever talks about it!
abled feminists call us inspirational. the government only cares about us when we can do something for it, like playing in an elite basketball team (like my husband used to. the second he stopped, he stopped getting aid).
shit, you guys need to take ableism more seriously. stop dismissing us. we matter.
Letâs talk about low empathy...
Sometimes I do lack empathy and I recognise that. I often feel like a horrible human being due to my struggles with empathy. Today was a day that I felt extremely annoyed and upset with myself because I just couldnât feel any empathy towards someone. But you know what? I am not a horrible person. My intentions are never bad, I am always trying, and I canât help the way my brain works. Autistics that struggle with empathy are not evil, they are not bad, they are not inhuman, they are not wrong. We think differently and we feel differently but that doesnât make us bad people. Iâve seen people villainizing autistics who struggle with empathy and thatâs not okay. Autistics do have a stereotype of being emotionless robots that donât care about others and thatâs not true. Lacking empathy doesnât mean we donât have emotions or donât care about people, it means we may struggle to understand other peopleâs emotions, relate to other peopleâs experiences, and also struggle to feel certain emotions in different situations. Please donât attack autistics who have lower empathy. Please donât call us evil or mean. Itâs not okay and we deserve love and support too. We canât help the way our brains work.

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yeaaaah đ§
donât know what parent of an autistic child needs to hear this but as long as theyâre not harming anyone your kidâs stimming is not a âproblem behaviourâ
in our house we have a few categories of stimming behavior.
1. the no category. this is for things that are unsafe. hurting self (head banging, scratching), hurting others, chewing on choking hazards. i know this is excluded in OPâs post, but iâm putting it on my list because if you parent an autistic child and deal with this, you have to be aware that a key to off-limits stimming is redirection. stimming satisfies an important physical and neurological need for the autistic brain, and that behavior is sensory-seeking. if you must say no, please also offer options or help redirecting to appropriate outlets for pressure, motion, rhythm, chewing, etc.
2. the shared space category. listen, i get that a lot of people are assholes about things that arenât hurting them. thatâs not what this category is for. but we have a household with multiple autistic individuals and a work from home situation. âshared spaceâ is the code phrase we use for âplease take this stimming to a different location.â sometimes, aural stims like repetitive noises or physical stims like pacing can be legitimately distracting to other people in a room (or car!). in the case of other autistic people, it might even feel painful or mentally consuming. this category is no-judgment âplease move to another location to continue stimming this way.â itâs not bad, itâs not wrong, you arenât being shamedâ just do your best to respect others and their needs or comfort, and leave the communal area or lower your volume.
3. the you do you category. it doesnât matter that nobody else is doing this to feel comfortable or happyâ you arenât hurting anyone else, you arenât being disruptive in a space other people are using together. go for it.
and in every single category, anger has no place in redirecting a stim. not even the no category. stimming isnât malicious, thereâs no actual moral requirement to be âless weirdâ or âlike everyone else.â even reminders like âyou arenât the only person in this room and thatâs very loudâ donât need anger. stims arenât done at anyone. theyâre just the body expressing a kind of neurological hunger, and whether the answer is âenjoy that!â or âthis isnât safe for you to eat (ie, do)â fury doesnât help.
oh shit this is a REALLY helpful way to conceptualize stimming and competing needs.
Ppl without ADHD be like âoh if I get rid of all possible distractions then youâll be forced to focus on the boring task!â Fool⌠You underestimate my PowerÂ
My partner: dear itâs time to get up
Me: but distractions
Partner: I have removed them
Me: sleeps
Person: we have removed all possible distractions
Me: but have you considered this?
Me: *zones out and daydreams*
Person: I have removed all distractions so you can do [insert task]
Me: *chuckles* Silly neurotypical. So naĂŻve⌠Donât you see? I AM the distraction.
The distraction is coming from inside the house
Hello I just found your blog and you seem like a cool person! It makes me happy to see a fellow FtM autistic online (: I hope you have a nice day!!
Aww this is so sweet! Thank you I hope you also have a nice day!

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the âholding out as marriedâ rule is so fucked up
like⌠not only can I not marry the love of my life without losing my health insurance and the $800 or so a month Iâm forced to survive on
but I canât even CALL her âmy wifeâ casually
like literally the US govât has people whose job it is to go and interview the family, friends, & neighbors of disabled people to just make sure that they never refer to anyone in their life as âmy wifeâ or âmy husbandâ etc
and if you DO, then SNAP! Youâre defrauding the US govât of the pittance you can barely survive on and you are no longer entitled to your disability benefits
(some kinds of benefits might remain in diminished form but if you were disabled before age 22 you are fucked COMPLETELY and canât get them back even if you divorce⌠the only loophole is if the other person was ALSO deemed disabled before 22, because that fucking makes sense)
and this is just⌠legal and no one but disabled activists ever talks about this shit
so yeah Iâd love some of that gay marriage shit but I will never be able to get married, and to add insult to injury, I canât even casually refer to my partner as âmy wifeâ without risking the health insurance and income I need to survive as a disabled lesbian
this is what we mean when we say the USA does NOT have marriage equality yet
if youre adhd/autistic (or both like this dude here) im just here to say you're NOT annoying me when you scroll through my blog for half an hour (or longer, who cares) and reblog everything you like. doesnt matter if my notes are you and just you for what feels like a mile of scrolling. hyperfcoused on my blog? rad. autism/adhd are your special interests / hyperfixations? amazing. just got stuck in executive dysfunction and you actually have been wanting to do the laundry for two hours but youre still scrolling? i hope you can function that executiveness tm soon but youre amazing too. any other reason? dont worry youre good. thats all i had to say really, but i truly want you all to know this.
Honestly when I see a bunch of the same person in my notes it makes me really happy! Especially if it's a new follower bc it feels like that's their way of getting to know me :)
I love seeing this