Austen Summers

Two fuckboys walk into a bar... “What can I get you?” The barman asks. Oh, nvm we’re pulling, later man ✌️ @moeabbassi ⎈ 👫 Pulling (bringing girls home) comes down to 5 FUNDAMENTAL things: ⎈ 1. Having a great interaction 2. Screening for the right girl: good logistics, no serious boyfriend, and high DTF level 3. Seeding: mentioning things to do at your place or her place 4. Leading: moving her with your own movement and with authoritative, certain verbals 5. Objection Handling: dealing with the reasons she gives you for not going with you (e.g. I can’t leave my friends—I’ve got friends here too and we’ll be back before they know you’re gone) ⎈ #pulling #pullinggirls #fuckboys #barjokes #torontonightlife #nightgame #pickupartist #meetwomenfromahealthyplace ⎈ Check out the Pulling Guide on the Tube for Infield Examples 💻 ☞ 📺 (at Toronto, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/BnO69DYAcb6/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=qmc7anvjy3nu

Things Cooler Than Owning A Lambo: 🚗 Having a fit, healthy body
💪 Sleeping with girls using only your personality and #effectiveness as a man 🍆 ➡️ 🕳 🔥 Having close friends and family 👊 Doing something meaningful for work 👨‍💻 Using #meditation, #psychedelics, and sex to train your brain to be #present 🧘‍♂️ Being the person you want to be: #authentic and real to your core 🏆 Finding your “tribe” of people who think like you do 🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️ Being #grateful for what you already have and appreciating people, things, and aspects of your life fully 🙃 Comment Below: What else is cooler than owning a #Lambo? (at San Francisco, California)

The Berlin Wall divided family, friends, and an entire European city. It officially ended in 1989 and people flooded across from the socialist east Germany to the democratic west Germany 🇩🇪 and later covered the wall with grafiti. ☢︎ Before the wall 3.5 million East Germans fled to West Berlin where they could have access via flights to other countries in the west and their family. But for almost 30 years it stood as an unjust wall where 140 people were killed by border guards. ☢︎ Some people escaped by tunneling, some stole construction trucks and drove through the wall, and others on a zip line. ☢︎ How would you escape? ☢︎ #berlinwall #westgermany #eastgermany #ichbineinberliner #ironcurtain #camoshirt #climbingthewalls #parkourlife #offtopic (at Berlin Wall, East Side)

Let them watch 👀 🐄 ☁︎ I often think of pick up as a right of passage, in which boys learn the principles of the universe to transition into men. ☁︎ The vehicle for that transition can be anything difficult: surviving in the wilderness with nothing like they did in Sparta, dealing with the trials and tribulations of entrepreneurship, or progressing in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. ☁︎ But the basic principle is that the activity must be challenging and painful in some way, so that you must be forced to grow and expand to complete it or attain Ann expert level. ☁︎ Comfort and pleasure in modern society does NOT make you happy. Overcoming challenges and personal growth make you happy. There isn't a cultural "rite of passage" that many of us go through anymore, so we have to create our own. ☁︎ Choose something challenging, something that you're afraid of, and something that will allow you to grow and learn the principles of the universe. For me this is pickup. ☁︎ You’re forced to confront your fears, to dedicate to “kaizen” by continuously improving yourself, your communication, and your strategy. You’ll go through periods of pain, doubt, frustration, elation, love, and ultimately breakthrough the other side as a MAN with a deep understanding of yourself and women. ☁︎ #riteofpassage #manup #colombiangirl #medellingirl #cows #cowsofinstagram #envigado #hikingcows #ritesofpassage ☁︎ What’s one difficult thing you’ve experienced in pickup so far?

The two most beautiful things in Colombia in one picture. 🇨🇴 ❤️ ⚡︎ You attract who you are not what you want. ⚡︎ If you want a girl who is intelligent, emotionally-stable, sexually adventurous, embraces her femininity as you embrace your masculinity, reads, works out, hikes, and has a great sense of humor, YOU have to be and do those things as well. ⚡︎ Research shows that you attract people who are more similar of you. There is no evidence for opposites attract (at least). Birds of a feather flock together, and winners want to be around other winners. ⚡︎ If you’re a toxic, low-value, obese gutter-dweller, you’re going to attract a snorlax. So if you’re there ADMIT IT. And take steps to improve in each area until you’re the prize that your ideal girl is chasing. ⚡︎ #cascada #waterfall #medellincolombia #caminata #colombia #couplegoals #dreamgirl #iminlove #waterfallhike ⚡︎ What’s the main quality you look for in your dream girl? (at Medellín, Antioquia)

Trippy AF ❀ A night out can be as crazy as a trip on shrooms. As an experienced psychonaut (one who explores consciousness with meditation and psychedelics) I can say that with certainty. ❀ The rush, the pushing through boundaries, the romance, the rejections, the hilarity—it’s a rollercoaster of emotions that will launch you into a psychedelic state. ❀ The people who stay in game long-term, do it because they LOVE it. ❀ If you want to be one of this 1% of people who make massive changes in themselves, you have to learn to love these ups and downs of game, find the humor in rejection, enjoy the process, and keep plodding forward with an optimistic attitude. ❀ That 100% belief that you will improve and break through will keep you going. ❀ Being jaded is almost like being dead. Like, oh my god, nothing impresses you because you feel like you’ve seen it all before, and you go through life with basically dark lens on, the curtains closed, no light gets in, no rhapsody gets in, and that’s death. ❀ So if you’re advanced, focus on squeezing the enjoyment out of game and if you’re a beginner, you’ll have some work to do before you can experience game this richly, so strap yourself in for one hell of a ride. ❀ #woahdude #trippyart #trippingballs #enjoytheride #enjoytheprocess #nightgame #pickupartist #jaded #perchla #pulling ❀ ☟ Tag your smartest friend ☟ (at Rooftop Bar At Perch)

Brb bobs it’s time to hustle 🚀 ✔︎ Male attractiveness is about EFFECTIVENESS. ✔︎ You don’t need to be “the best;” just be effective: in your career, health, social situations, habits. ✔︎ Women are attracted to men who are able to effectively operate in the world they live in. Get shlt done and achieve your intended result. ✔︎ Would *you* follow a leader who gives up, makes excuses, or is unresourceful? FVCK NO. So should a girl follow you if you show the same weakness? FVCK NO. Failure + An Excuse is not as good as success. ✔︎ Be more effective. The more effective you are at more things, the more attractive you will be. Read Managing Oneself by Peter F. Drucker if you want to go deeper into this concept. ✔︎ #effectiveness #effective #beeffective #thaigirls #thaigirl #bangkokgirl #getshitdone #leadershipquotes #hustling #contentcreator ✔︎ ☟ Tag a friend you want to succeed ☟ (at Bangkok, Thailand)

Gratitude ⎊ Humans tend toward perpetual dissatisfaction: the millionaire who wants MORE, the pickup guy who hasn’t had a threesome, the adventurer who has yet to leave his country. ⎊ It’s easy to want more More MORE, but ultimately the money, the girls, and the adventure won’t bring you any sort of fulfillment unless you train your brain to be grateful. ⎊ Gratitude is a state when you warmly or deeply appreciate what you *do* have. A state where anger, fear, and sadness can’t exist. ⎊ Challenge yourself each morning to write down one person, one thing, and one aspect of your life you are grateful for. ⎊ This is the #1 thing that’s improved my happiness and I hope it makes you a happier, less dissatisfied, human being as well. ⎊ #gratitude #gratefulness #begrateful #longboarding #longboard #longboardgirl #skatergirl #sandiegobay #yachtlife ⎊ What is one thing, person, or aspect of your life you’re grateful for? (at San Diego Bay)

Loosen Up. Play Around. ✣ When you’re a kid, there’s one thing you know how to enjoy: play. Play is the idea of doing something just because you like it: sports, getting in nature, joking around, instruments, teasing and “playfulness,” games. ✣ As you grow up, you get more serious as the realities of adulthood responsibilities set in. Work puts you in your head. You’re not present anymore. You’re not playing anymore. It’s tougher to just let go and get swept up in the fun of play. ✣ Make an effort to get back into play, get present, get loose. Release yourself from all limitations, free from stress and fear. It boosts your optimism, positive emotions, and sense of belonging. ✣ It’s essential to having healthy relationships with others. To quote the National Institute for Play: ✣ “Humor, the enjoyment of novelty, the capacity to share a lighthearted sense of the world’s ironies, the enjoyment of mutual storytelling, the capacity to openly divulge imagination and fantasies. These playful communications and interactions, when nourished, produce a climate for easy connection and deepening, more rewarding relationship: true intimacy.” ✣ #play #playful #playfulness #hiking #hawaiihikes #mickeymousehat #havefun #getoutsideandplay #loosenup #gohavefun ✣ What’s your way to play? (at Crouching Lion Hike)

Be Assertive ☑︎ No one wants a little b*tch. ☑︎ Being passive comes off as weak, uncaring, low value. ☑︎ Being aggressive comes off as reactive, mentally unstable, crazy. ☑︎ Assertiveness is that sweet spot between passivity and aggression where you demonstrate your confidence. ☑︎ It shows that you confidently have the ability to stand up for yourself and others while being tactful and empathetic. ☑︎ Stop justifying yourself and rationalizing instantly when someone questions you. Stick to your guns calmly and assertively. ☑︎ Go for what you want with the positive assumption that you will get it, but don’t be brash or give up too easily. Something worth having is worth pursuing. ☑︎ #beassertive #assertive #assertiveness #romanwarrior #passive #aggressive #2girls1guy #standupforyourself #dontbealittlebitch #confidenceiskey ☑︎ Tag a roman warrior @goldlyfe (at Royal Ontario Museum)

Invest in yourself and become a king. If you don’t, no one else will. ♛ Invest in building your confidence. The more you cultivate your value, love yourself, and embody the value that you offer, the more confident you will become in sharing it with others. ♛ Set goals and keep track of your progress to reach them weekly. ♛ Self-learning. Absorb limited, but high-quality information from trusted experts: books, articles, audiobooks and podcasts, and videos. ♛ Attend seminars like the ones I host in different cities. You’ll meet likeminded people who will accelerate your growth. ♛ Invest in your health. People waste away their health for 20 years and think they’re going to get it back in 20 minutes. Wrong. Invest in your health: nutrition, sleep, exercise, stress reduction. ♛ Invest in a mentor. We all need mentors and trainers. Trying to do it all on your own is a form of clinical self-sufficiency narcissism. This is why I’ve spent over $50,000 on mentors for game, business, health, as well as for conferences, books, and travel (when I was broke I still spent what I could and even with my credit card). With a mentor, you’ll get a strategy and cut your learning curve. ♛ #investinyourself #mentorship #investinyourhealth #loveyourself #austensummers #blondegirlshavemorefun #hollywoodhike #gogetit #griffithparktrails #levelupyourlife ♛ How are you investing in yourself this year? (at Griffith Park Trails)

Take the leap. ⟼ You’re never going to feel ready. There’s never going to be the perfect moment. ⟼ You just have to throw yourself in, imperfectly, and go for it. ⟼ Gradually you will cultivate this unbreakable belief that you will succeed. ⟼ Visualization of you winning helps, daily affirmations of “I’m a f$^&ing winner” help,” so does saying “yes” and doing your “power move,“ but nothing builds the belief you’ll win quite like winning. ⟼ Losing begets losing and winning begets winning. It’s the Charlie Sheen effect of meta-confidence. ⟼ Throw yourself in. Get those small wins under your belt, and move up the ladder to bigger and bigger wins, you f$%^ing winner you. ⟼ #Winning #JumpIn #JustDoIt #TakeTheLeap #SelfDevelopment #ManUp #WinningMindset #GetTheGirl #DoIt #horseshoebend ⟼ Tag a f^$&ing winner in the comments! Would you take this leap? (at Horseshoe Bend)

Do Something. ⚙︎ Want women to *perceive* you as awesome? Do you want the trick to make them feel that you’re interesting? ⚙︎ Here it is: Do interesting things. Read interesting things. Become an interesting person. ⚙︎ The equivalent of a lame guy trying to “game the system“ is the same as an obese girl wearing makeup. You’re not going to fool anyone but yourself. ⚙︎ Instead of trying to ‘polish a turd’ with a technique, improve who you are. ⚙︎ Real value shuts everyone up. Be so good they can’t ignore you. ⚙︎ #yogainnature #yogagoals #yogaeverydamnday #howtobeinteresting #beinteresting #dosomething #devilsbridge #yogathreesome #downwarddog #besogoodtheycantignoreyou ⚙︎ Tag another dating coach, so they can improve their insta. (at Devils Bridge)

Fvck what THEY think about you! ✍︎ Too many of you place too much importance on what your friends, family, and random people think about you. ✍︎ Ultimately you have to ask yourself: Do I have the courage to live life according to my values? Or am I going to live according to other people’s values? ✍︎ Going out to talk to girls, hit on them, and make their day is making the world more connected, more joyful, and more sexy, so there is nothing to be ashamed about. ✍︎ In fact you should feel rude if you DON’T approach, because she won’t get that elevation in her mood. ✍︎ Do you really want to live your life based on the random firing of neurons in someone else's brain? ✍︎ FVCK NO. This is your life. You get one shot at this, so live according to your values, not other people’s. They’ll soon forget, but your choices are with you for life. ✍︎ #socialfreedom #letsgetit #whattheythink #fuckwhattheythink #yourlife #onelife #grandpalacebangkok #thaigirl #datingadvice #howtomeetwomen ✍︎ Tag your wingman in the comments to motivate him! (at Bangkok Grand Palace)

One day everything the light touches will be yours~ BUT! ∙ You need persistence and discipline, not luck or motivation. ∙ If you're starting from very little success with women, this journey will take a lot of time, effort, and persistence even when you don’t have motivation and you doubt yourself. ∙ The people who succeed in this journey are not the guys who have to watch motivational videos to go out, they are the guys who have the stick-to-it-ness to go out even when they don’t feel like it, the ones who take action, get themselves into a good mood, approach a shit ton, break it down and learn from where they’re making mistakes. ∙ They're the guys who are constantly improving in their own lives, their happiness, their appearance, their diet, their meditation, their sense of a good life who date the hottest girls. ∙ They're the guys who become WINNERS regardless of their initial starting point. ∙ I wish you persistence and discipline, not luck or motivation.
∙ It is essential to find joy in the process of pickup. For me it is the most fun and freeing activity I do. ∙ If you enjoy it (laugh a lot, get a rush, go out with fun wings—VERY IMPORTANT), you'll do it a lot more and your learning will accelerate! ∙ Cultivate persistence and discipline, don't wait for luck or motivation to strike. ∙ #lionking #simba #persistenceiskey #disciplineequalsfreedom #persistence #discipline #pickupcoach #motivationisnotenough #createyourownluck #winnersneverquit ∙ What are your thoughts? Comment below! (at Camelback Mountain)

What a perfectly harsh environment of cacti and desert to slap you with a tough talk. ▲ Biology is ruthless and competition is a fact of life. ▲ If you are not improving, you will be weeded out. And no one will care. There is no guarantee your life will “auto-pilot” to something worthwhile, in fact… ▲ Most men throughout our species’ history were losers who didn’t get women or reproduce. Don’t let this be your fate. And don’t wish it were easier; wish you were better. ▲ There is also an instinctual pressure to shame men of current low sexual value to keep them from improving. No one cares about you getting good at game, and the world will proactively try to stop you. ▲ Take responsibility for your own dating life, step up, and become the man who gets success. No one else can do this for you and the world does not give a single f*&^. It’s on you. ▲ #biology #evolutionarybiology #evolutionarypsychology #nobodycaresaboutyou #stepup #stepupyourgame #bebetter #selfimprovement #truthbomb #toughtalk ▲ Tag a friend who needs to be slapped with this truth bomb. (at Desert Botanical Garden)

Saturdays are for the boys. ⏣
👘 @goldlyfe // 📸 @goncalohoshi // 🎥 @holistikid ⏣ Easiest way to “add value” to guys you know is connect them with someone who would be of value. ⏣ Focus on mutually beneficial relationships. I connected a guy who owns a gold brand with a Netflix documentarian friend, and we had a photoshoot day where everyone brought something to the table and got epic content back. ⏣ Focus on the “value add“ in everything you do and the “thing you get” will be an afterthought. ⏣ The poor are obsessed with the money they can get now, while the rich are obsessed with adding more value to their customers and know the money will come. ⏣ The lonely are obsessed with getting hot girls now, while the players are obsessed with giving her the most epic experience while knowing sex will come. ⏣ What is something you can offer that would be valuable to people around you? ⏣ 🏷 Tag a friend to add value to his life ;D ⏣ #addvalue #addvaluetoothers #givevalue #saturdaysarefortheboys #saftb #goldlyfe #goldclothings #cinemagraph #cinemagraphs #cinemagrapher (at West Hollywood, California)