#yourlife

Years and years and ago, I lived with someone to who i helped to take care of them and they ccare of me, exact situation, not inportant.

One day, I was grilling them on the stove, a grilled cheese sandwich. And while during this act, I had a phone call comein, and I had to answer it. Becaose of this my attention was drawn away from the the task I was doing.

I burned it. The bottom side, of the sandwich had become a charred mess. And of course I did not panic, or. Because I care abut the person who I was making the sandwich for.

So then I took the sandwich, off the stove, and set it on a plate. I took a tweezers, clean pair, that I had, and sat down in front of it sandwich. I took very careful to pluck fof the burned charred crumbs of sandwich bread, sourdouh, to put to the side.

I sat down there and sandwich for hours. When we love someone we are willing to go the extra steps to make sure they are loved and tasks get cared for, because if noe one else is would be there for them, but even if they are, and if they are or arent then you show you love for them.

Now, I took so long at this extra steps, and by the way I had to set down my phone call when i realized, which didnt take very long, but anyway when I finished plucking of the burnt parts from one side, she was gone. So I decided, to eat the sandwich myself.

Why? do I like grilled cheese? I don't care for the cheese used in this particular one, not to my taste.

But I had do to do it anyway.

This teaches me, it is isimportant to go through things youdont want to do, to do the right thing in the end.

Look at yourself. You’re everything you’ve ever wanted to be. Successful, gracious, loving, adoring, sexy, spicy, pretty, extraordinary, ethereal. A WHOLE DREAM. You are the package. You are the whole entire meal with extra sauce for extras. Your vibe is elegant. Your aura is envious. Your face is the replica of a doll. Your body is a masterpiece. Bank account on HEAVY. House on customized! Your career is exactly what you knew it would be- your dream. Nothing but God can stop you. You’re living in luxury with the love of your life. Your children are well off, no need to ever worry for nothing. Every time you wake up, you are blessed! Your eyes open and you breathe a sigh a relief thanking God you’ve overcome every obstacle that has come your way and stronger than ever to take on more. You are supported. You have a winning circle and a foundation for a family. You live the day with thankfulness, in the present, not fazed by the past in any way. You live like you’ve always wanted. If you want to shop you can because money attracts you. You could never be without. If you want to travel, you can just pick up your things and go because you are your own boss. If you want to stay in and relax, your body and mind will agree and so will your career because you worked and work so damn hard for everything you have! No negativity can knock you down. You’re beyond anything you’ve ever surpassed. You are ambitious. You are well-respected. You’re known for your beautiful heart and serenity. You can walk in the room and be noticed because you are light and attract light. Nothing can stop you from continuous gratefulness and love. There is always a smile that matches your energy on your face. You’ve learned that happiness is not a phase, but a CHOICE and you’ve learned that through the highs and the lows, your happiness will not deter. You’ve healed all the messy parts and now you’re embracing this growth. You’re joyful. Holidays don’t bother you because you created your own traditions. A recession isn’t a problem because your savings are ABUNDANT. You’ve prayed for this and now you’re here. You’re sure about every single thing in your life and take precautions on the new things trying to enter it and you’ve protected your energy for this long that you can spot any trace of fear or maliciousness. Your space is your temple and you’re so proud. Finally... you can breathe and take in all that is yours and all the beautiful things to come! THANKFUL ALWAYS. GRATEFUL TILL THE END OF TIME. FOREVER IN THE STATE OF JOY, LOVE, and most importantly: PEACE.

Curate means, “you organize and present it. Curate comes from the word cure, and a curate is supposed to cure that most important part of you - your soul. ”  Are you curating your own life? Or are you emulating another person’s life? Bringing “YOUR IDEAS” into existence will not allow you to copy what some else has because you have decided to open up your gifts to bring them to life. Your gifts and talents are to be expounded upon so you can be a blessing to others. Curating your own life doesn’t allow for you to copy another person, you will truly see that these are your unique blessings given just for you. But the problem we find ourselves in is trying to copy another person’s persona, the person you are trying to emulate has curated their own life which is designed just for them, not for you.

Then the question becomes, “Who Are You?” You need to know who you are to organize and present your life. When you stop trying to be like the people you see in the media, you will have a better handle and assessment on how you are to move with your life. Curating your life will have its ebbs and flows. I know that it’s easier said than done, especially with the way media advertising is all in your face, on your social media pages, even your emails but when you take your eyes off of the distractions, you will be able to oversee your life. Your curation is your evolution, you will not remain the same when understanding your purpose, your posture changes and so does your voice because you have decided to no longer look to your left or right trying to be like the people you see in the magazines, on the internet or videos (TikTok, IG Reels, FB, etc.,)

To curate, your life means, “Showing people who you are.”  It’s time for you to stop hiding and start shining. This is “Your Time” so let’s get to it.