is it weird if i say i genuinely wish there was more positivity aimed at people w large chests
"having a large chest is the beauty standard" no having a large chest is the Sexual standard theres a difference. i can only even be Hot and everything i ever wear will be deemed too sexual for every single situation. tank top shows too much cleavege or side boob a button up is always too busty and a crop top will always show too much skin. having a large chest leads to so much back pain and sexualization and complaining about it makes people go "ahh grass is alwahs greener/you are the beauty standard, why complain?" like genuinely i urge yall to watch anything with a larger chested woman and notice, REALLY notice, that her chest is her entire personality. notice that people critiqing misogynist charavter designs alwayd tend to rally in the statement that large chest=misogny, casting aside the Many Many Many women and people who look like Me and just . have a large chest? and exist? and deserve respect and not to be seen as nothing more than a sex symbol by both sides? idk ikdayy
Yes. Also. Having a moderately large chest is the beauty standard for women, and specifically women who are already conventionally attractive. Those are important caveats.
If your chest is really big, you're only going to see yourself in gag characters. It stops being sexy and starts being a joke.
Especially if you're a guy, GNC, older than 30, fat, or otherwise don't fit into "hot girl" stereotypes.
Gag Boobs are a trope for a reason, after all.
Being sexualized against your will is also shitty, and this does not take away from other folks' frustration! That is also valid; there was a point in my life when I also got a lot of unwanted attention and it really sucked. It was a huge relief to cut my hair short and become potato-shaped, and stop being stalked.
But ngl, the only character I can think of who looks like me is Meat Loaf in Fight Club, and that character is 90% boob joke.
So like. It's worth not assuming exactly what experience large-chested folks are experiencing. Other than back pain. I think we can all count on the back pain.
















