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One of the quickest ways a good writer can embarrass themselves is to poorly render an accent.
Struggling to speak English as a second language is a narratively interesting and culturally relevant experience, but also tricky to render well in printed English. It is one hell of a needle to thread. You have to focus on how the world infantilizes a person for speaking sub-standard English, without infantilizing the person.
When successful, I think you can show a great richness of character by how someone butts up against the limitations of their language. When you fail though you end up writing the Wardine Be Cry chapter of Infinite Jest.
Work it grandma
OK I SAID WORK IT AND SHE REALLY DID
I think you mean, "Work it, GREAT grandma". And she does!
I'd like to ask for some help from any intersex followers I have (or any intersex folks who come across this post!)
I've been struggling a lot to find proper terminology for intersex issues in my research because Google is all gunked up and Tumblr is just as hard to parse through.
So, if anyone could point me in the direction of any good literature by intersex authors or any good online resources (especially that define terminology) that would be incredibly helpful!! I'm still doing work myself but any sort of direction would be wonderful!
(tl;dr I want to be a better ally to intersex folks in trans feminist conversations about sex/gender and approach my own theory with intersex experiences in mind better! So, any and all resources would be appreciated!)
Glossaries and terminology 📋️
Intersex terminology masterpost by @intersexfairy
Media and style guide by IHRA
Intersex variations glossary by InterACT
Other Basic Things To Know 📣 (tumblr posts)
Some common misconceptions addressed by @skelejon
"Please stop acting like being intersex is just 'cool quirky genitals'" by @identitty-dickruption
"People need to understand that some intersex people find out late" by @none-gender-left-man
The Social Model of Intersex by me
"Unfortunately, most intersex people are not told outright that they are intersex" by @genderpunks
Tumblr intersex polls without votes from non-intersex people by @queercripintersex
Intersex PSAs for trans allies 🏳️⚧️ (tumblr posts)
PSAs for perisex trans people by @moonshinedyke
Please remember AFAB/AMAB doesn't mean "typical anatomy" by @asocial-and-antisocial
"God I wish perisex trans people would stop tokenizing and fetishizing intersex people and our bodies" by @chaos-in-one
How to talk about transition goals without being intersexist by @identitty-dickruption
Examples of casual intersexism from trans people by @hiiragi7
Exercise: Exposing intersexism in yourself by @hiiragi7
"having issues with the term transintersex is not terf rhetoric" by @hiiragi7
"In the United States, the people that are actually getting targeted with genital mutilation and nonconsensual hormones are intersex kids, not trans kids" by @trans-axolotl
"I’m begging people at this point to realize that hate towards intersex people isn’t just. Fucking misdirected transphobia" by @theforesteldritch
Make "space for ipsogender, intergender, and/or ultergender folks" by @queercripintersex
"When there's an actual discussion happening about biological sex and how it's actually super complicated, it hurts to get excluded [by trans people]" by @queercripintersex
In polls about gender, give options for intersex-specific genders rather than "intersex" by me, replying to @asocial-and-antisocial
"Those are intersex animals, not trans or nonbinary" by @heckacentipede with a reply by me
On supporting intersex people who want to go on HRT by @thehmn
"Perisex trans people have been the front of people being intersexist to me" by @oy-gayvalt
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"intersex trans people who can’t go on HRT for any reason are no less trans" by @identitty-dickruption
An experience of being objectified by trans people by @genderpunks
Academic Literature 🎓️
Holmes, M. (Ed.). (2016). Critical intersex. Routledge.
Horlacher, S. (2016). Transgender and intersex: Theoretical, practical, and artistic perspectives (pp. 1-27). Palgrave Macmillan US.
Orr, C. E. (2022). Cripping Intersex. UBC Press.
Davis, G. (2015). Contesting intersex: The dubious diagnosis (Vol. 10). NYU Press.
Reis, E. (2021). Bodies in doubt: An American history of intersex. JHU Press.
Lock Swarr, A. (2023). Envisioning African Intersex: Challenging Colonial and Racist Legacies in South African Medicine (p. 245). Duke University Press.
If you don't have access to a university library, copies of those and other intersex books can be accessed via the @intersexbookclub discord!
Non-academic literature 🧙♀️
Intersex #OwnVoices books by Bogi Takács

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I sometimes feel that I'm not doing enough with my life, but at least I grew my first two arms significantly before a cactus would have been expected to.
Reblog if you grew your first two arms significantly before a cactus would be expected to
Be sure to give adolescent saguaros a thumbs up to let them know they’re doing a good job.
Hello my beautiful human body! I’ve invited you here today to discuss adopting non-mucus-based solutions to common challenges—
a critique that always irks me a little is when people say a fictional gay male relationship is actually being written as a lesbian relationship, like first of all what does that even mean and second of all a good chunk of the time it seems like people are only saying that because the men are emotionally vulnerable with each other
many out there, even among my fellow lgbtqs, seem to hold a “hotcock” view of gay relationships
i think there is a phenomenon where sometimes a trans person will go “hmm. i am treated as a man when it is convenient for others, and a woman when it is convenient for others, and often as a freakish third thing excluded from the advantages of both. surely, because of the gender binary, the Other Type of trans person experiences the opposite: they reap the benefits of maleness and femaleness at once.” like babes no they can do it twice
This applies to a bunch of other subgroups of the queer community too. Asexuals are made to feel like freaks for not being sexual enough by the same society that makes everyone else feel like freaks for being too sexual. Lesbians feel pressured to be bi even while bi women feel like they'd be more accepted if they were lesbian. Butches, femmes, and wlw who are neither are all made to feel like they're doing it wrong. PLUS unique facets of shittiness for every shade of non binary PLUS different attitudes towards mlm and wlw PLUS divisions within mlm spaces etc etc etc. And these frictions and differing needs and experiences are absolutely worth discussing, but every time we decide the problem is just that Those Other Queers have it easy we are making the actual problem worse.
Hilariously, it also happens within the asexual community as a function of even smaller identity microcosms; I grew up watching waves of this crash back and forth on AVEN back in the day.
Babes. They can always do it twice.
yeah google has gone downhill ever since they let ai take over their platform

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Hobby Sins
I think one of the funniest abortion stances I've heard was from my parents neighbor. He's a like, hard-core libertarian viking larper guy who is very tall and very fat and very bald.
He believes a fetus is human with a soul, but also its "basically attacking the woman's body" so if she wants to get rid of it, that's "basically self-defense". He compared it to shooting a home invader. So he supports abortion not as healthcare, but as killing a baby in self-defense
Y'know I'm so glad someone reminded me of this. Because this was also discussed.
My stepmother did NOT like the way her Libertarian Viking Neighbor framed pregnancy as the fetus "attacking the woman". She incredulously told him this was extremely disrespectful to expectant mothers to portray pregnancy as so violent and negative.
Libertarian Viking Neighbor's response was that people consensually hurt each other all the time, and "there's like a whole community about that, with the acronym the one that starts with a B" And his reasoning was that if the mother was consenting to bring attacked by the baby, it in fact wasn't violent and negative because there was consent.
He brought up people consensually hurting each other, didn't go for one of the obvious answers like boxing or body mods or something, no he went STRAIGHT TO BDSM and he DIDN'T EVEN REMEMBER THE ACRONYM
Feeling funny today
i think its funny when people are like "you cant blame your parents forever" because like. im permanently disabled because of them. am i allowed to be mad about that?
My friend. I hold grudges for shit that happened a thousand years ago. You think my parents fuck-ups from within the past few decades are exempt in ANY way?
I know you mean like. National grudges.
But you're really not helping the immortality allegations here.
I've never tried to avoid those allegations, OLD friend.
Don't you fucking dare.
I have never once held a grudge against a historical figure.
SUUUUUUURE
fuck people who reblog posts which contradict each other. no! be explicitly clear

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admire folks who reblog posts which contradict eachother. exactly! keep em guessing
As an older queer, allow me to say: the walls of the closet are load-bearing. It is our job as a community to stand in front of that door and tell everyone who wants to peek inside to fuck off.
There are so many reasons a person may choose not to come out and there is no reason a person would owe the public or a stranger that information. Certainly it's not owed simply because someone is famous.
We have fought for decades to make it safer for people to be open and authentic about themselves, but we are not yet there. And even if we were, the closet would still be something we need to maintain for those who are not ready to reveal that part of themselves.
May we never become so obsessed with representation that we forget the sanctity of privacy.