aro-antics

A big ace mood is looking at a video online then going “hmm... oh! Oh this is a thirst trap...... yeah no, this does nothing to me”

This is the most coherent explanation of tralfamadorians I’ve ever seen, and the prettiest description of what it means to perceive time as a dimension.

all my friends are upset because they're going to be single on valentine's day? like i know i'm aro but like i seriously don't get it? being single is not a bad thing (and sometimes it's a very good thing). normalize being single !

we clown on alloromantics who ship aro characters a lot, and we should, but i feel like a lot of our anger should actually be directed at the creators who are universally too cowardly to actually depict an aro character and instead restrict all conversations of their identity to Hints or out of media confirmation

The single/taken binary is just so limited, I wish there were a term that conveyed "not in a relationship" as easily as single does and "not available for a relationship" as easily as taken does.

"unavailable"?

I mean yeah, that could work, and there are many other terms that could fit in theory. But in my experience any answer that doesn't fit the single/taken binary is immediately questioned, challenged, or dismissed.

Oh you're right, no is a good answer when given both options. I'll try that next time ^^

I was wondering how polyam people feel about the single/taken binary, I'm sensing some more aro polyam solidarity here!

A big ace mood is looking at a video online then going “hmm... oh! Oh this is a thirst trap...... yeah no, this does nothing to me”

cries in Wants a Romantic Partner to Love but also cries in If Anyone So Much as Looks at Me With the Idea of Potential Romance, I’ll Slit Their Throats

the most ace lesbian thing I've ever done is trying to explain to my straight friend how girls' bodies are just more aesthetically pleasing 😅

Thinking about how the first person Thirteen sees and speaks to after regenerating is Grace and how the Doctor has the tendency to be closer with or latch onto the first person they see/meet after regenerating and how she was more open about regeneration and talking about herself but then Grace died and she became more closed off,,, like the first person the Doctor meets and opens up to after regenerating dies the same day she meets her and I feel like that must have had an impact on Thirteen and how she just closes herself off from other people