This is coming from one of the worse places in my heart; why must I trudge through 11 issues of White Guilt from Nia to get any insight on how Jay, her victim is doing? Like we couldn't do even one full length of those issues to be like "hey, let's give space for Jay to grieve about this"?
We spent time grieving for Nia and for Jon, they were both allowed to be upset without someone trying to minimize or invalidate it. Jay though, he says anything and someone's jumping to insult him or shut him up. Not once has Jay gotten to be like "I am upset", without reprimand.
Nia, immediately justifying herself. Jon, constantly undermining him or shoving his feelings aside. Lori too was insulting him about his mother when she died like, a month ago tops. Absolutely no one has been nice to Jay.
And it sucks.




























