"girlmath" "girldinner" girl help overthrow the fascist regime NOW

Such natural beauty …

in 2026 be nicer to aroallos

similar to many other subtypes of aphobia, aroallophobia is derived from the socially dominant purity culture of amatonormativity and sex negativity, dictating that sex can only be justified in monogamous, marital, romantic relationships, but that having those relationships is mandatory. this is worth mentioning to emphasize that aroallos' fellow queer siblings did not invent aroallophobia, but most likely grew up in a culture that instilled it; i.e., some queer people have done the work to unlearn said amatonormativity, sex negativity, and aroallophobia, but others have not, so they continue to perpetuate it. in 2026, take it upon yourself to listen to aroallo people's experiences (here's a good starting post) (and this one too, but with a TW for rape mention). unlearn aroallophobia just like anyone growing up in homophobic society would need to unlearn homophobia.

the secret cheat code for women is realizing you dont have to date men

this doesnt just go for lesbians it goes for bi women and straight women too. i cant even count how many times straight women have told me “i wish i was a lesbian so i didnt have to date men” but guess what … u Dont have to date men 

to be clear this also isnt necessarily saying ‘go date women instead!!’ its just saying…. u dont have to date men. u dont have to be dating women in order to not date men! in fact if ur not attracted to women at all please dont date women just as a substitute for men. but if dating men isnt making u happy… u dont have to do that. u dont have to make a space in ur life for men

Can I be honest. The way we keep going from Monday to Tuesday to Wednesday to Thursday to Friday to Saturday to Sunday back to Monday is deeply troubling

things will work out + it’s still early + not everything is lost + trees