In a world full of roses, be a sunflower

"what are your pronouns?" well im mixed, she/her on my mothers side and he/him on my fathers side, either works

i'm bisexual and aromantic so you'd think i'm just always out fucking bitches all the time because bisexuals and aromantics who aren't asexual individually get called whores all the time. but this is not true. because you see. i have absolutely zero game. so i just sit on my little computer all day instead #mycomputer

romance is a scam invented by dan and phil to sell more nordvpn subscriptions

we need 2 normalize characters who dgaf about romance

sorry im literally so tired of everyone being shipped with someone can a guy not just chill

i want 2 say this isnt just about aro characters. im aro i love aro characters i love ace characters but this also is about allo characters. its normal and healthy and fine for alloromantic people to not be in romantic relationships and i wish media reflected that

Gonna be honest a lot of people deep down view cheating as worse than abuse which is why so many people view downright controlling and manipulative behavior in a relationship as 100% permissible so long as that behavior is centered around either preventing or discovering cheating.

being anti-amatonormativity in a romance centered world is like watching half the people you know put all their eggs in one basket and then drop the basket and all their eggs break and they’re crying and swearing they’re never gonna do that again and then a month later they have all new eggs in a new basket and they tell you the problem was they didn’t have a strong enough basket or fresh enough eggs and then they drop the fucking basket again.

Sometimes you are such a girl failure that you end up not identifying as a girl anymore

What I hate most about queerplatonic relationship discussions/arguments is the complete unwillingness from some people to admit that QPRs entail aspects that are absolutely not found in common friendships. People will literally go to their graves insisting that it is totally normalized in society for friends to live together forever, share finances, raise children, base all major life decisions on each other. Like…. genuinely in what fucking universe are you living in lmfao

part of the problem with amatonormativity is that if you aren't interested in a long-term monogamous relationship people assume you will be a miserable empty incomplete shell of a person so you have to insist on your ability to be genuinely fulfilled by things other than marriage/monogamy/romance/etc. but at the same time society is shaped in a way where not being interested in those things can easily make you alienated, between marriage and reproduction being depicted as natural life stages that everyone needs to go through to be a fulfilled adult and it being considered standard to prioritize your romantic relationships over your platonic ones. and if you ever express loneliness or anxiety or guilt over this experience then people take that as proof that you just need to Find The One to make you realize that all your feelings and desires were actually just immaturity/fear of commitment/trauma this whole time and the societal norm IS the only way for you to be truly happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

seeing trans women out in public is like warm sunlight washing over me it genuinely brightens my mood