Don’t even buy luxury until you have six figure savings generating income in stocks, bonds or high yield savings and an emergency fund

Keep the fact that you are a sex worker to yourself. Now I’m not telling you this because I feel like you should have internalized shame surrounding your job. I’m telling you this for your own protection. The only thing people will use that information for is to discredit you.

IMO this applies to boyfriends too. Idc 90% of the time it's none of their business what you were up to in the past OR what you are up to on the side 👀

Focus on your appearance, focus on yourself, see men as ATM but when you talk to them pretend to like them. Dont use messages as a way of having conversations on a daily basis, but as a form of communication to schedule dates. Never be too available. Have a roaster, talk to multiple men. Have your girl friends and have fun with them. Have your own things to do, like your business, your career, your life, your hobby. You are the main character.

I wish all women had this mentality!!

don’t be realistic on what you want. be realistic on how you’re going to get it.

Babes, the process is so sexy; the act of refining yourself day in and day out; that’s where the magic is

Some of the best finesses come from being in a simultaneous state of abundance and detachment

I don’t care to seem like a high maintenance 100% goldigger because I am

Sex work has made me see past men’s bullshit so easily. Most women are flattered if a man proposes he put together a home cooked meal a few dates in. All that means is he doesn’t want to spend money and wants you as close to his bedroom as possible. He’s not being a gentleman if he wants to pick you up for a date, he wants to be in control of your transportation so he can pressure you to stop by his place afterwords. Please recognize that they do these things for their own gain and don’t buy into it.

If you are determined to learn & apply no one can stop you.

The good thing about life is that everything I’ve ever lost, it’s been replaced with something bigger and better. I never lack, I just transition.