see you in hell

All the “green eyes” positivity is actually a bad thing, by the way. Having green eyes is linked to higher rates of retinal melanoma. You’re celebrating something dangerous that can cause suffering.

And besides, most people with “green eyes” lean closer to blue or brown anyways. They should just make up their minds and be brown eyed or blue eyed. And if it’s too hard to tell, they should get corrective surgery (because green eyes are dangerous, and associated with more difficult medical care!) or at the least wear contacts so they don’t confuse people. But also they should be required to

I hate to sound like this, but green eyes are a far more recent development than blue eyes in the mutagenic history of humans. So humans weren’t created to have green eyes.

And hazel eyes? Those are just a variant of brown eyes—come on, they’re far closer to brown than green. They just have a couple greenish traits. And there’s no way there’s that many green eyed people, or a wide variety of eye colors… It’s just not natural.

I don’t have a problem with green eyed people, they didn’t ask to be born that way—but there’s just too few of them for it to be an actual eye color. We don’t need all this “green eye positivity” or putting green eyes in media. The internet is making people delude themselves into thinking it’s more common than it really is.

‼️ THIS POST IS ABOUT THE TREATMENT OF INTERSEX PEOPLE ‼️

✅ I HAVE GREEN EYES THIS IS SATIRE ✅

⚠️ PLEASE DON’T SEND ME ANY MORE THREATS OF VIOLENCE IN DEFENSE OF PEOPLE WITH GREEN EYES?? ⚠️

So to the dad, anon just challenged his authority and his manhood. Dad is already threatened by his daughter having a boyfriend (and potentially eventually moving out due to that boyfriend/marriage), now anon is saying "I don't give a shit about you or your threat" as far as the dad is concerned. So anon saying he didn't mean it that way is what's triggering the "liar" comment.

It's a very patriarchal woman as property thing that crops up especially among white Southern Christians. I would lay money based on this story and my own experiences that anon is the girl's first boyfriend and that she's in the kind of family environment where she will live with her parents until marriage, a very literal dad giving daughter away at the altar situation.

Anon probably does not have sisters and didn't have all of this subtext made text constantly throughout his life, even though him carrying on a daily basis suggests some level of immersion in gun culture

Dad shows gun = "If you hurt her, I will kill you."

Boyfriend shows gun as well = "I also suspect you of being capable of hurting her and anticipate having to defend her."

And "hurt" in a dating context (or at least this specific gun related one) usually just means heartbreak, but "hurt" in a father/daughter context would more often be abuse.

So there's an implicit accusation he could read into it that turns the conversation into:

Dad: I think this relationship might not work out, and you will hurt my daughter's feelings.

Boyfriend: Well, I think you are physically harming your daughter, and brought this gun to show you I mean to rescue her.

Dad: How dare you! At least accuse me outright, for such a strong claim as this.

Boyfriend: I shall never say it outright, and therefore you have no evidence against me to use to kick me out right now.

Than I'll stop using the aro label. I'll realize that I was incorrect and go on with my life. No one's changed my mind yet though. I haven't met that "special someone 🥺🥺🥺🥺" "yet" so I don't care about this entirely hypothetical person.

Aphobes are stupid ngl. Realizing that this label doesn't fit me (which it will almost definitely still fit me as I get older) isn't going to be some world shattering event. I'll move on, I'll accept my mistake. Lol

this particularly works with anything negative i’ve forecasted. “i woke up feeling like shit today, so my day is gonna suck” isn’t a particularly helpful thought, but “it’s a great day to be alive!!!!!” feels hollow and insincere when i have a pounding headache & am running on three hours of sleep

instead i’ll tell myself, “i really don’t feel good right now, but i’m open to the possibility that coffee and breakfast might perk me up a bit.” or “i’m in a lot of pain today, but i’m open to the possibility that my workday might still have fun parts despite that”

t-...to-...toasty s'more mushrooms.....

hour to be seeing this,

i can’t stop crying

Doing things digitally just seems weird to us because there isn't hundreds of years of tradition behind it like more traditional grief rituals, so we are sort of paving a new path and outlet for grief in pretty much entirely uncharted territory, which is honestly really cool?

Very recently I lost a close, long term online friend who I never got the chance to meet up with in person and for the first couple of weeks I didn't know what to do about all of the feelings of grief I had because its a very modern and new problem that there just isn't a guidebook for yet. It feels weird to honor him physically when I exclusively knew him digitally, and even my therapist has said this is a scenario that she hasn't really encountered before, and is helping me find healthy digital grief rituals like continuing to send him funny memes I come across, and going through my old chat logs with him and pinning messages from him that make me smile.

If you are a writer or work with documents in any way, STOP USING GOOGLE DOCUMENTS. Go and write in your PC and don't save it to your cloud, save it to your hard drive, that you have, in your house. If you have a tablet or mobile, install Collabora Office which is a version of Libreoffice that allows you to save locally, in the memory of your tablet.

Don't save your life inside Google Drive. Use it, if you must, to share work stuff, but save your personal files in your hard drive or flashdrives, away from any fucking "cloud".

If you have a Chromebook I don't fucking know, burn it.

i personally use Syncthing between my windows desktop, android phone, and linux laptop and have never had even a little issue. a jailbroken microsoft office copy lets me keep all my files locally and has more features than google's dogshit editing software, but libreoffice is probably better for most people.

if you don't have the wherewithal to set up syncthing (or the ios port fsync, but if you're using ios you have a whole parallel set of problems and should probably see above for chromebooks) Proton has its own whole ecosystem of secure sharing tools.