I will come back leading the pack

pleeeeease post more!

maybe making consuming pop culture a huge part of your identity was never a good idea to begin with

I read that article. The article was thoughtful and good and ends with a plea to donate to transgender causes. Also people can be obsessed about any number of things. Sometimes it’s because they have ADHD or autism, but sometimes they don’t. And consuming pop culture forms both personal and cultural identity? There are people that form large parts of their identity around sports teams, or making movie-perfect stormtrooper armor. This behavior is normal and you can’t just call it pathetic because it’s something you personally don’t like, especially when the person in question understands the nuances of it and its problems. I am a transgender person for who Harry Potter was a big part of my identity and I am here to say that the cis person who wrote this article knows their place and knows where they are in all of this and understands that there are no easy answers to any of this.

smug ableist are once again mocking neurodivergent people for our hyperfixations, what else is new

Yeah but also don’t make fun of neurotypical people for having interests either. My grandma is as neurotypical as they come and she knows a lot about and is super into the sitcom Hogan’s Heroes. Human beings have interests. Human beings have interests that they incorporate into their personal identities.

You gotta just. Unfollow blogs that upset you. If you are so angry at a total stranger that you send them multiple anonymous messages, that is not normal. That is not healthy behavior.

Ive unfollowed for someone posting too much lego ninjago gifsets. Tumblr isnt like youtube or patreon, its not anyones job. You can unfollow and holy shit- you can RE follow later. its really not that deep.

I have literally no idea when someone unfollows me. None. Do it if you need to it's ok.

hey, how long does it take before the forest god comes to get you after you leave a strand of your hair and a fresh loaf of bread in a mushroom circle by the lake? asking for a fr

they got her

I’m happy for her

Duckduckgo is a nontracking search engine….may be worth a try.

FUCKING BOOST!!!!!

Just did this. The opt out and deletion process was easy and painless. Considering what we’ve seen of data breaches and the fact that Google straight up deleted their “Don’t be evil” clause? It seemed worth it to me.

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