The shimmerqueer community's fundamental misunderstanding of no-act's necrophilic contact stance is incredibly harmful. Just like their anti-consang stance, it is labeling innocent people as abusers and taking away the sexual rights of consenting people.
People cannot change their mind about anything after they die.
They cannot change their mind about what/who is in their will, they cannot change their mind about how their remains are preserved, they cannot change their mind about where they're buried, they cannot change their mind about whether they donate organs, they cannot change their mind about whether their ashes are spread and where.
But people know this before they die. They choose before hand to consent to these things, knowing they will not be around to change them. We do our best to respect these wishes because ultimately the person's body is their property, and what they want done with it after they move on is what we should respect.
I'm a zoo-exclusive necro, so this debate doesn't even involve me. I'm not looking to fuck any dead humans now or honestly ever. But who knows, maybe when I die I'll want a necro lover to have some fun with me, and I sure as hell am not going to let other people decide what I can and cannot let happen to my body.
Stop ignoring people's sexual rights because you don't like what they consent to.
