Hahaha. So this is my Fandom blog now :D

OUT OF CONTEXT MONSTA X

a little end of 2020 spirit

You can find many gems over at reddit.  u/cetacean-station posted one about celebrating her spouse coming out as a transgender woman a couple of days ago. 

cetacean-station writes:

I’ve been living with this new person, formerly my husband, full-time for almost three weeks. Cuz of corona we spend our time at home, so she’s been dressing up, I’ve been doing her hair and showing her how to do all the girly things… and like, holy shit. I’m head over heels for her!! Omg

Like OK, so many things that were challenging for me when she was a man have just… disappeared for this new person. In part because of this fabulous, fancy, blooming personality that I’m meeting for the first time, but also in relation to my own gender presentation. I’m a cis-looking genderfluid AFAB person, and while I’m OK at being a girl, I’ve always been kinda masc. I give off kinda tomboyish energy, low-key dyke vibes, & i always felt i needed to hold that back, for fear of emasculating him/seeming stronger or more masc then him. Also cuz, society. But this girl yo, she’s like, the most delicate & ladylike thing… I don’t have to tone myself down around her… her girly energy totally increases my masc energy, and i feel so authentically myself. It’s nuts. I’m super gay for her honestly.

I just wanted to declare this somewhere cuz she’s not out, and she may not come out, cuz she’s afraid to affect her job. I’m in love with this woman!! Holy shit. I can’t believe she’s been there the whole time and i didn’t know!!! and I’m so excited to get to know her, the girl of my dreams, the way i got to know the man of my dreams. <3

Thank you for reading this, I hope you have a nice day <33

Edit: y'all are beautiful, thank you for the kind words & shiny awards. I feel so much love. My heart is so stinkin WARMED rn! ♥️ Think I’ll take this energy and make breakfast for the pretty lady sleeping in the other room (my, um, WIFE?! omg😍wat)

I find more and more stories about family and friends embracing the gender variance of the loved ones these days. The message is often this one: They are not losing the person they loved. They are getting more of the best parts of that person.

There is a cultural backlash against trans people these days, but keep in mind that that backlash is caused by the increasing support of transgender people. The trans-positive undercurrent is getting stronger every day.