Haha looks like that relationship didn’t work out… didn’t work out et al.

tom hardy saying he feels at odds with his status as a male action hero bc he feels "intrinsically feminine" is miles and miles more gender fuckery than anything harry styles has done in his entire career

Yall, Tom Hardy is some value of queer and is open about it. I throw yall back to the interview he gave where he was like "of course I've had sex with men. I'm an actor." Him saying he's "intrinsically feminine"is just another expression of that. How he chooses to identify is none of our fucking business because identity is fucking private just like Harry Styles orientation is fucking private and us judging either of them is not fucking helpful. But I will say that those of you who were in elementary school during the Arthur/Eames days of 2010 do not recall when his MySpace photos made the rounds. You do not remember that he has been open and public about having already gone through an addiction to HARD drugs (we're talking alcohol of course but also cocaine and heroin) and come out the other side. This is a person who dealt with having grown up in a toxically masculine environment and gone "eh, no, I'm not going to live in pain over this." since he had kids and decided that he was not going to perpetuate that shit for them. He's been very open about these things. And if you deviate from cishet manhood? You're part of the quiltbag so Tom is one of us regardless of what label he decides to use. And if Harry decides he is? Then he is. Queer is queer. Stop fucking gatekeeping. It's toxic.

get okay with being some level of burden on others, seriously

you know what’s a real burden? a person that is so scared of leaning on other people that they try to be completely self sufficient and you end up either having to help them indirectly to save their ego or they have to break down in order to receive help, both of which are so much more heavy to the person that loves them than just being leaned on casually

loving the discourse atm that’s ‘vampires disgusted by all the anti-anxiety meds and microplastics in people’s bloods’ vs ‘vampires probably miss the high that over-the-counter opium and mercury tinctures gave blood’

Sometimes your excuse to keep going despite the mental illness is just that you learned a new thing and want to explore that more. That can be just enough sometimes.

"I'm at the grasping at straws stage but by god my grip strength has improved" is one of those phrases that's going to live in my mind forever I'm just saying

ok this is a poignant visual metaphor tho

(⊙＿⊙ ’)

You were born of a sacrilegious union. Your green dragon mom never figured the knight she seduced while masquerading as a noblewoman was a silver dragon in disguise. You’d no idea either, born a human orphan. When your dragon blood awoke, so did the dangers which all your heritage entails.

#“i’m two halfs dragon” “that’s just being a whole dragon” “no”

“im two halves dragon” “thats just being a whole dragon” “YOUD FUCKING THINK SO WOULDNT YOU”

School being so traumatic people have anxiety dreams about it for life sure doesn't seem uh. Normal

I didn't even have a particularly bad experience at school outside unmedicated ADHD stress but I get school nightmares constantly

I feel like so many people accept this as a quirky fun shared experience. But it's pretty alarming that such a huge chunk of people have RECURRING dreams about forgetting to take a class or complete a project DECADES after leaving the school system