*wheek*

When i was hospitalized for my ed, one of the key things they used to assess my mental health (and to declare that i was “mentally deteriorating” the longer I stayed) what by looking at how I performed femininity. When i was first hospitalized I woke up super early and did my hair + makeup everyday, wore tight feminine clothing, shaved, etc. As the months went on I stopped doing those things, I wore baggy clothes, never wore makeup, stopped shaving, always tied my hair up, and my doctors declared this was a sign of worsening mental illness, and that I needed to try harder to recover (and that my medication dosage needed to be increased), trying harder meant they wanted me to force myself to go back to my original routine of uncomfortable femininity, never did they even consider that a. it was so fucking ridiculous, especially when i was living in a fucking hospital full time for months on end and b. that i was so uncomfortable being forced to live in a hospital, having no freedom, and being forced to gain weight, and baggy clothes/not participating in exhausting, appearance focused routines gave me a small bit of comfort in a seemingly never ending state of extreme discomfort.

They always draw themselves as tiny and petite when the reality is:

TRA biphobe believes in random biphobia and is angry that bisexuals have boundaries because they think bisexuality = permanent consent at all times, more news at - 

A big part of the reason I don't want kids is simply that I don't think I would be a good parent. I'm short-tempered and can be vicious when I'm angry. I hate loud noises, repetitive noises, sticky sensations, and being touched when I'm not expecting it. I like getting drunk and high. I like doing things quickly and efficiently. I always have to be at least 15 minutes early to everything. I have horrible sleep as it is, and that's living alone and having a big comfy bed all to myself and never having to get up in the night unless I need to pee. I love being alone and doing things by myself.

no your cnc kink isn’t ’healing your trauma’ you’re reenacting it and sexually reinforcing pain means pleasure to your mind

Me, walking down the street: "No?"

"hate terfs? kill yourself"

Men need to stop hijacking radfems talking points and passing as their own

I'm surprised that she didn't mention this, but it's not only the men in the affected zone of the conflict who take advantage of these women, it's the men who are working for the very charitable humanitarian agencies she's referring to that send people in to the zone of conflict in order to "help." multiple men who work for charities that went into Haiti after the earthquake were caught routinely refusing to give women the food and water that was meant to be freely provided unless they exchanged sexual favors for it. this also happened to mothers who were forced to let themselves be raped not only for their survival but bc the men in question were withholding these resources from their babies as well.

Its also near impossible to solve, because if your answer is to just send female aid workers, well then you're putting those women in danger of being raped and murdered by the men they were sent to help.

Every time I see this debate on TikTok or another platform, I genuinely just try to scroll. I can't look at those comments. People have completely lost the fucking plot.