You are also falling into the patriarchal trap of assuming powerlessness and ignorance when talking about women who make choices you disagree with. Women have our own thoughts, feelings, and free will, and it's important to call out other women you believe are choosing to cause harm.
If you want to dismantle patriarchy, then sooner or later you're going to have to come to terms with the fact that a ton of women willingly, obediently, and faithfully do their bit to uphold patriarchy - to your detriment, their own detriment, and to the detriment of their own daughters, *with full knowledge and enthusiasm*. You won't be able to do anything about patriarchy without either converting those women to the cause, steamrolling right through them, or, more likely and effective; confronting them and their bullshit directly.
I don't really care about the choices of most of those groups of women, as they are mostly only hurting themselves on a personal level, though they can overlap with TIM worshippers (such as bisexuals who call themselves lesbian, partner with TIMs, and then promote cotton ceiling rhetoric). But TIM worshipping women have helped men propel the TRA movement way further than it would have gone without their support, and so many women, children, mentally ill, developmentally disabled, and gay people have been damaged beyond repair because of it.
Imo, women can and should be held partially, if not equally, responsible for harms that have been done to the above groups at the hands of TIMs and the broader TRA movement. I also think hatred is a natural response to seeing any group of women consciously and consistently making/suppoting the most damaging choices in the name of supporting obviously fetishistic males, to the detriment of other women and girls:
I abso-fucking-lutely hate with a seething passion the women who have aided males in their efforts to put violent males into female prisons, and still fight for that cause to this day despite all the rapes that have occurred as a result.
I hate women who have whole heartedly supported the movement to allow males to compete in the female sports category, or act like its no big deal because 'its just sports' or 'I don't even like sports anyway' or 'its only one or two, so what does it matter?'. Ah yes, TIM worshipper, telling girls - all girls, not just the sporty ones - that their health and fitness, ability to play sports safely, and right to fair competition comes second to male feelings and demands is never going to harm the collective female psyche of a culture going forward, is it¿
You bet your ass i fucking loathe the women who support boys being able to use the same locker rooms and bathrooms as girls in schools, despite knowing full well that boys are watching violent porn, despite knowing how much teenage boys are willing to sexually harass teenage girls, despite knowing full well what its like to be a teenage girls on her period in a public place, despite knowing that teenage girls have no choice, agency, or other options but to put up with having to change in front of those boys and be present when those boys are changing too, despite knowing the girls' objections, despite knowing the emotional and mental damage caused to girls who are given the message that their safety, dignity, and boundaries come second to male feelings, despite knowing that there will be girls as young as 11 sharing these facilities with males as old as 18/19 in some UK schools - I could go on and on about all the harms that servile female cowards have perpetrated against teenage girls in this one example alone, but you get the picture by now.
Hating men vs. hating women who support men is like the difference between hating an enemy vs. hating a traitor. And I think hatred is a valid response to all the bullshit TIM worshipping women have aggressively endorsed and supported over the last 15+ years.
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