bark your head off, dog

having undiagnosed autism is a sacred tradition that has been passed down in my family for generations

I think one of the greatest realizations I ever made was that I didn't have to choose between masculinity and femininity

The sooner you realise that you can do literally whatever you want as regards to your gender presentation (or lack thereof) and just take whatever bits and pieces you like from wherever, the sooner you can start enjoying life.

welcome to Lord Foog the 2st Thursday

if an anxious person abuses you you wouldnt call it ‘anxious abuse’. if a depressed person abuses you you wouldn’t call it ‘depressed abuse’. if someone with ocd abuses you you wouldn’t call it ‘ocd abuse’. if someone is abusive and has npd it isn’t ‘narcissistic abuse’, it’s abuse. trauma doesn’t make ableism acceptable

and im gonna stop you before you say 'um actually narcassistic abuse is just the term for a type of abuse not abusers with npd' as if that clears you of any ableism--when you use words like 'narc abuse' you are still conflating a disorder with abuse and you are still actively hurting people with npd. find a different term

realizing cis women also struggle with “passing” a lot of times and has a lot of the same issues with dysphoria trans women have (issues with putting on/losing weight, dissatisfied with bust size, not feeling “feminine” enough, etc.) has done a lot to combat dysphoria for me, cause it’s like, wow, we really have a lot more in common than we have in difference huh

terfs are starting to find this post, and i gotta say: terfs getting mad at a post that explicitly acknowledges cis women’s struggles and with notes full of cis women agreeing and talking about their own struggles and experiences really speaks volumes about how anti-feminist, and frankly misogynistic, terfs really are, that they don’t even give a shit about cis women’s struggles and experiences

We should put sex and magic on their own pride flag. Represent all the animal girls and wizards on this beautiful website