꒰৯𓉸ྀི ׅ winterlight forest ׁ ᛝ

accidentally like 1 (one) post before seeing the anti-endo/endo’s fuck off tag and immediately unliking and then suddenly my whole fyp is full of people talking shit about endos PLEASE I DIDNT KNOW I DIDNT KNOW IM SORRY GET ME OUT OF HERE NOOOOOOO

I wonder how it feels to be a therapist or psychiatrist in 2026 and watch the despair of young patients and realize it’s not attributed to mental illness but a rational response to the state of the capitalist hellscape world we live in

they talking about kink and bdsm safety on my post against tradwives now, white queers r the plague i swear to god they cannot see anything past themselves, bc sure as we all know the biggest problem with tradwife ideology is its “””””unsafe kink play”””” and not literal nazi great replacement fear mongering made from the fact that white people dont want to be “outnumbered” in birthrates by people of color bc they see us as a disease upon the earth

actually we CAN feel like our headmates are just some silly little fellas, thank you very much. we can romanticize our system, be proud to be plural, express ourselves loudly, and create hundreds of new members just because it’s fun!! we can be cringe and not give a damn what others think of the validity of our experience!! we can be happy to be a system and we can have as many fictives and roles and such we want!! we can exist on our own silly lil terms and that’s epic :3

maybe this is too woke but i really hate the trope of naked older women = scary or vomit inducing or gross or whatever. like you even see it used in horror on occasion like oooooo so scary theres a woman with saggy boobs and wrinkles. There is something to be said for unconsensual veiwing of nudity. sure. it’s uncomfortable and violating for someone to be nude in front of you that you don’t want to see. but rarely that’s seen as the issue and instead the real ‘horror’ or gross out joke is the very idea of a woman who does not have a body that is sexually desirable to men. The very idea of an older woman’s body is treated like it’s something that we should all know is gross, sick and wrong. It’s just something that really bothers me

anyone else notice how when "digital assistants" were just supposed to do specific tasks when you asked for them we had Alexa and Siri and Cortana, but now that they're being marketed as smart enough to take actions and make decisions on their own they've got names like Claude and Devin

Being anti-endo baffles me actually. Wdym it’s unrealistic for the human brain to create more beings per body just cause it wasn’t caused by trauma. The human brain is so complicated I think the most unrealistic thing is expecting it to follow your rules actually.

the "empathy fatigue" stuff is also very revealing because when you examine health professionals' self-reporting on the matter there is a specific type of person they describe losing empathy for- unsurprisingly, it's people with particularly chronic health issues and disability, drug users, people who "refuse to take care of themselves" and especially anyone with a health condition perceived to be "their own fault". very often what they describe as "empathy fatigue" is actually just the mask slipping on the seething contempt they already held

"Is it plural to-" "Am I a system if-" yes. The answer is yes. You are plural. I don't care what you're talking about, that's plural. If you think you're plural, if you want to be plural, if it would be helpful to identify as plural, you're plural. It doesn't matter how clear or different your headmates are, if you switch or not, if you have amnesia or not. If you identify as one person with different modes and you want to describe yourself as plural, then you're plural. The only person who gets to say if you're plural or not is you, and you say that based on what's helpful to you.

imo the way you feel about groups it's fully socially acceptable to hate (like children or polyamorous people, among others) is the canary in the coal mine for underlying bigoted beliefs. if you're only supportive of marginalized groups when it's cool to do so, probably you don't actually care about marginalized groups, you care about other people thinking you care