The Void™

*makes a gay little noise that turns you on*

seeing a black cat is actually good luck because then you get to see a cat

Women have suffered and been oppressed for so long and to such a large extent that it ends up being used to discredit us. After all, how could so much suffering occur to such a large amount of women unless on some level women were used to it or even enjoyed it? the argument goes. Our voices are silenced, our words are erased, our brains and bodies are mutiliated, and then our silence is used as proof that we didn’t mind it. Many times if you bring up oppression, people will say “Times were different, women didn’t mind it” or “it’s a different culture” once the oppression of women is so strong that it is heavily ingrained in the culture, it is seen to no longer infringe on women’s minds, that women just easily adapt. Then all the signs of rebellion, women’s rage and sicknesses, are treated as pathological and unexplainable.

My problem is I never healed I just kept going

nah man i cant come over tomorrow im gonna listen to songs and think about characters. yeah no its gonna be all day

i think people who have been wronged by society can destroy said society, as a treat

obsessed with when a mutual is having like. a full breakdown on the dash and they like. pause for one post to reblog some shit about eeby deeby

NEVER do your best. QUIT

God complex? Maybe to you. I find God quite simple.

sorry for being so sexy i dont know whats wrong with me

like have u ever just wanted to start smashing ur head into a hard flat surface and not stop 

I'm sorry but saying you can't say narcissistic abuse is so invalidating. Like its a different kind of abuse than any other. That doesn't mean narcissistic people are bad or will be abusers. But you can't just erase tonnes of peoples trauma because you don't like a term.

the thing is that narcissist abuse is just emotional abuse. there’s already a term for that kind of abuse and narcissist abuse is just the ableist version of that term. it’s not that we don’t like that term, it’s that it’s actively ableist and sanist and throws every narcissist under the bus for no actual reason other than people need a scapegoat and someone to pin every evil thing in the world on so they can dissociate themselves from it. the need to say narcissist abuse comes from the need to dehumanize and demonize a group of people so others can distance themselves from it (ie “i’m not a narc, i would never do that/think that”). it’s a way to create a boogeyman to blame for all the bad things that people do/say instead of acknowledging that everyone is capable of bad things no matter who they are/what diagnoses they have. the term is inherently oppressive against people who already struggle with being seen as human beings in the eyes of society. emotional abuse may have less of a attention grabbing effect, but it’s the correct term anyways. stop throwing narcs under the bus for the sake of your “validity”

Anyone can be abusive as a result of their struggling mental health. We don't use terms like "depression abuse" despite the fact that someone with depression can be abusive as a result of their depression. Abuse from someone with npd is NOT unique. This is because the individual symptoms of npd aren't specific to npd.- Lack of empathy, grandiosity, entitlement issues, struggling with your self esteem, can all occur in other mental illnesses and even in people who aren't mentally ill.