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🌷You can be desperate and Still shift

🌷You can be in a negative headspace and still shift

🌷You can roll over mid method and still shift

🌷You can feel depressed and unmotivated and still shift

🌷You can have trouble fully believing in Shifting and still Shift

🌷You do not have to force yourself to ignore your current circumstances and emotions to Shift especially if you are dealing with disabilities, chronic illnesses, Abusive households etc

🌷Remind yourself that you can shift in any mindset because you can shifting is inevitable and nothing can hold you back from shifting

The most helpful Shifting advice you could ever give is to tell people to remind themselves that they can shift no matter what emotional state they are experiencing Whether that’s sadness, anger, desperation, demotivation, lack of confidence etc

I see a lot of Loa shifters on here spreading that certain negative emotional states can hold them back from shifting as well as trying to attach reasons as to why people haven’t shifted yet and it’s so contradictive harmful and limiting

The way I see it that’s just creating the assumption in people’s minds that if they are feeling desperate, unmotivated or any type of negative emotion then it’s gonna hold them back from shifting and they’re not gonna shift and that’s just gonna cause spiraling and cause people to surpress their negative emotions instead of acknowledging them and reminding themselves that it has no affect on their ability to shift

Law of Assumption can be a helpful tool to shift but i feel like a lot of law of assumption advice being given on here is just straight up contradictive harmful and actually over complicating things and it doesn’t keep people in mind who are dealing with sicknesses disabilities and depressing circumstances in this reality

The point of Law of assumption is that your assumptions create your reality so why would you want to instill the assumption in people or even yourself that natural human emotions/reactions can hold you back from shifting rather than the assumption that you can shift in any state and nothing can affect your ability to shift

But that’s just my opinion 🫡

︵ things to script : trad & digital artist ♡

♡ traditional artist

🎨 ink, markers and watercolors never bleed through to the other side of the paper or ruin the pages underneath.

🎨 paper pages never accidentally rip, crinkle, warp from wetness, or get damaged when you use an eraser.

🎨 graphite, charcoal, and ink never smudge across the page under your hand while you're drawing. the side of your hand stays perfectly clean.

🎨 when you sketch out a draft in pencil, the lines erase completely clean without leaving those annoying "ghost lines" or dark smudges on the paper.

🎨 pencil never snap or shatter inside while you're sharpening them. they stay sharp for as long as you need them to.

🎨 markers blend together perfectly without leaving streak lines, patchiness, or chewing up the paper texture.

🎨 the pigments, inks, and colors you use on paper are vibrant and never fade, yellow, or lose their quality over time.

🎨 if you accidentally leave a marker or pen uncapped, it never dries out.

🎨 paint tubes never explode, brushes never shed hairs onto the canvas, and ink bottles never accidentally tip over onto your pieces.

🎨 oils, acrylics, and watercolors dry at the exact speed you want them to. you can layer colors instantly.

🎨 your studio is always stocked with canvases, sketchbooks, brushes, and pigments that never run out.

♡ digital artist

🎨 you can draw symmetric eyes, hand poses, and dynamic perspectives effortlessly. you never have to flip your canvas 50 times.

🎨 your hand is steady. you always hit the perfect, clean line on the first or second try without relying on the undo button constantly.

🎨 you intuitively know how to blend lighting, shadows, and color values to make your drawings look beautiful and professional.

🎨 your drawing software never crashes, your files never get corrupted, and you always remember to save your work.

🎨 your art style is unique, recognizable, and admired.

🎨 if you take commissions, your clients are polite, pay highly, and trust your vision completely. they never ask for annoying, endless revisions!!

🎨 on social media, your art reaches my target audience naturally. you are completely immune to online hate, art theft, shadowbans, or toxic people in general.

So I was scrolling o your blogs because I do it when I have questions about shifting, and I always get an answer, but recently, I tried the certainty method but I didn't get positive results and its completely okay. I did it in the last week of Jan telling myself I will shift on 5th of February. I am listening to subliminals you made.

Anyway, that's that. I was looking through some stuff and found something called "gateway tapes" Am confused, and i wanted you to tell me about it if it's okay.

Then, you talked about the states of the mind, but I didn't understand. Like how the subconscious mind works, the conscious mind, and the awareness. Plus am feeling extremely demotivated and hoped for some help because I don't even know what my mind wants, what am lacking, what i should do. For whatever the case. I know shifting is real and I have no doubt for that because am pretty convinced of how you explained your experiences. Please help

So what people call the “gateway tapes” actually refers to The Gateway Experience or The Gateway Process, which an audio program created by the Monroe Institute, founded by Robert Monroe. (The recordings use something called binaural beats, which are slightly different tones played into each ear and who can create a sensation of deep relaxation or altered focus (that can be helpful for shifting)). The idea behind the program is to helo people reach very calm, inward-focused mental states that feel different from ordinary waking attention (basically hypnagogic and similar states).

It’s important to understand that the tapes are not magic and they are not a proven method for OBE or shifting realities. Those tapes are not even related to shifting reality in anyway, so if you hear anyone talk about it that way you know that or they didn’t read the experience, or that they are specifically SEARCHING for way to justify their point (which are both bad and misinformation). They are just an audio sound, and the gateway process is the explanation and study, but it’s not focused on anything else. They talk about the brain and consciousness, but only for the researches on those beats.

It’s only that the U.S. government confirmed that the human mind can reach non-local dimensions through frequency, vibration, and focused consciousness. Basically that awareness exists beyond the physical body, and the universe is a hologram where time is non-linear.

What they can do for many people is help with relaxation, visualization, and concentration. So it can be useful for shifting (that’s why most subliminal use them) but they will not make you shift (only you can). I’ve read those tapes, but they are not relevant to shifting, and you can just listen to the binaural beats you find in YouTube (there are some in my subliminal).

Now, the three “levels of mind” is a model, not a stacked physical structure inside your head. Your brain is one system doing many things at once. But the way information is processed is divided in 3 “categories” or “levels of the mind”.

The conscious mind is the part you directly experience (your active thinking, deliberate choices, inner voice, attention, etc).

The unconscious covers everything happening outside awareness (automatic skills, emotional reactions, pattern recognition, memory activation, sensory filtering, and body regulation, etc).

The subconscious is really just unconscious processes that can influence awareness (between conscious and unconscious). (Habits, expectations, learned associations, biases, etc). These determine how things feel, what you notice, and how you react, subconsciously.

Im not sure how to explain it differently while sharing no misinformation so I hope this cleared things up a bit.

For the motivation part, here are some of my posts you could find interesting

Rational motivation to shift

Your awareness dosent have sens

The mindset to have while shifting

Why would an attempt not be successful if I had no doubting bones in my body

The full power of your subconscious

How to access the full power of the subconscious

Where a lot of blockages come from

Don’t wait after the universe

You are the only reason you Haven shifted yet

Possibles reasons of why you haven’t shifted yet

What is the best way to shift?

Healthy mindset for shifting

Advice about how to shit

How to become aware of my awareness in another reality

I hope this helped and let me know if you have any other questions. It’s still important to remember that you are the only thing that will make you shift, so even if looking for help is an amazing idea, don’t wait after anything and don’t except it to magically from from the sky one day. Take the matter in your hands! (I’m saying this the good way)

-Apeiron

Link To The Masterlist Of My Blog!

I was just mindlessly scrolling and stumbled upon a post. In the comments, @throwawayyyyyyyyyyy111111 has pasted a link to a 230+ pages Google doc which they had created and pilled in majority of @hrrtshape (deactivated) posts/asks. Personally, I don't know this blogger since i only joined tumblr in march this year but yeah I was curious, im always curious so i searched the link up immediately.

I read the first page AND I FEEL LIKE EVERY SHIFTER NEEDS TO READ THIS! I know the doc is very very long.. but I think it's quite worth it if you're doubting shifting or just unable to shift.

I will try to finish the whole doc today yippieee. Also big thank you to @throwawayyyyyyyyyyy111111 ❤️

When you strip away the quantum buzzwords, shifting is about redefining your sensory data. Right now, your brain is locked onto this reality because its reacting to what your eyes see and what your hands touch. To shift, you have to make your Dr more "real" to your awareness than the room you are currently sitting in.

Pick one specific sensation, just one. Thats the logic between "wr scent" or "script that a song will play when you shift" advices. It could be easy things like lavender, chocolate or your favorite perfume and as for sounds it could be sea waves, phone ringing or like I said , a song.

Force the 3d to match this. As you lie there, tell yourself "the reason I feel this bed under me is because it's my Dr bed." If you hear a car outside, it’s a car outside your Dr house. Youu are reinterpreting your current environment until your brain accepts the new context.

So many of you are done with loa, but usually, that’s because people use it as a magic spell. In reality, its a mental filter. If you wake up and think "dammit, im still here," you have just successfully manifested being here. Wake up and decide "im currently in my dr, but my vision hasn't fully rendered yet. I’m just going about my morning until the 3d catches up." It removes the frantic energy. You arent a seeker anymore, you know this reality is fleeting and temporary.

The biggest irony of shifting is that the more desperate you are to leave, the more you anchor yourself to the reality you’re trying to escape. Desperation is a massive tether to your cr. Think of it like this; if youre trying to fall asleep, and you stare at your eyelids and scream at your brain to SLEEP NOW, you will stay awake all night. Shifting requires that same letting go that falling asleep does.

Youve seen behind the curtain, you know the "one life, then dust" narrative is a scam and once you know that, you can't exactly go back to being a normal person. Treat this reality like a pre rcorded video. If you’re watching a movie and the main character is in jail, you don't panicking thinking you are in jail. You know you're the one sitting in the theater. When you wake up here, look at your walls and think "cute. Nice projection. But I know where I actually am." Do not let the 3d have the final word on your identity.

If you feel anxious version of yourself rising up, check these three things:

- Am I seeking proof? (If yes, you're acting like a mortal, when you're pure awareness and SHOULDN'T hand your power to anyone or anything else.)

- Am I waiting for a shift to happen? (If yes, you're placing the power outside yourself.)

It all started in 2021, when a friend of mine first told me about shifting. I didn’t question whether it was real or not, I just went with it. At that time, I was looking up information online, and one afternoon I tried the sunny Method using all five senses. I managed to “mini-shift” into aot for a few seconds.

Then school started again, and because of my eating disorder, I put shifting aside until September 2022, when I decided I wanted to go to my skz dr.

Unfortunately, that’s when I fell into a vicious cycle: trying method after method, getting frustrated, wondering why it wasn’t working anymore, and doubting myself even though I already had proof it worked once. I kept trying, but nothing seemed to work. At that point, all I wanted was to escape my cr, which I hated, and that only made my anger and doubt worse. So I paused shifting.

In the summer of 2023, I discovered subliminals on youtube and a few months later I came across the law of assumption. I decided to try manifesting things in my current reality. But even with loa, I ended up trapped in another cycle: endless affirmations, dividing everything into 3D and 4D, waiting for signs and movement, complicated visualizations. I would make subliminals and check after five minutes if they had worked; I would assume I already had my desired appearance and then immediately look in the mirror to see if it was true. After a while it became exhausting. I was overconsuming information, and since every creator had a different perspective, I just felt even more confused.

By the end of December, I found a creator on amino who had shifted using the law of assumption. She suggested Tumblr as a place to find good resources. So I started reading posts there about loa and duality. Then I read Neville Goddard’s books. That’s when I had my real click.

I realized that I make the rules. There aren’t two separate realities, 3D and 4D, there is only me. Manifestation is instant, and the only thing that can block it is my own belief. Failure doesn’t exist.

From that moment, I started manifesting small things immediately: a canceled test, five euros, a pen, a new phone. These little successes made me realize that if I can manifest a pen, I can also shifting reality. I started assuming, without hesitation, that I can shift whenever and however I want.

It’s that simple.

Once you assume, it’s done. The 3D is just your imagination using the five senses. It’s not your enemy. And it’s instant.

From there, I became a master shifter now. I persist not to see the results, but because I know I’m already living them. Even if one night I assume I wake up in my dr and the next day I’m in my cr bed, it doesn’t mean I failed. Who cares? The 3D doesn’t define me, and it’s not the final result.

And indeed, on January 5th, 2024, I fully shifted into my skz dr. From that moment, I knew all of this had been worth it.

In my cr, which I once wanted to escape, I’ve now manifested everything I desired, and it feels simple: the body and appearance I want, healing from illnesses, my cat, my sp apologizing, a free trip to Budapest, and much more. At the same time, I can live multiple lives without fearing death or worrying about living only once.

So don’t get discouraged. Maybe I made things too complicated along the way, but that’s okay, it was my journey.

Hiiiiii🤗 how are u? I saw this post and would like to ask if you can include a screenshot of the redit post because the link doesn’t work for me when I click it - it’s apparently a restricted website where I am at the moment so I would greatly appreciate that. Thank you🩷

hihi, heres the entire reddit post copied and pasted <3

I GOT MAJOR RESULTS [ full compilation of all my results]

Discussion

GUYS NO OFFENCE BUT PLEASE READ THE ENTIRE POST BEFORE ASKING QUESTIONS 😭

PLEASE COMMENT IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS, I MIGHT MISS A PRIVATE MSG CUS THERE ARE MANY PPL ASKING QUESTIONS, I RLLY WANNA HELP PPL OUT i struggled a lot so didn't want anyone else to I used subs for 2 years, [ to be clear i didnt get rssults for two years cus of a bad mindset but now i got results in 11 dqys cus of the subs i used qnd detatchment ]started getting results like 11 days ago I think? Babe nah, if I can get results you can too and you're not giving up..

Okay firstly these are my results. I'm going top to bottom.

My hair, silky smooth. Like I kid you not I have only 1 hair like a singular hair [ sometimes two-three but u get what i mean] fall when I brush my hair.. bro I have thyroid issues which causes hair fall but now gone. Vanished. POOF

Skin is much clearer and muchhh brighter, I got asked what sunscreen I was using and for my skincare routine by the girl who used to tell me that I was basically ugly

My forehead, I didn't even want this like I have a 4 head not a 5 head and now it's become a 3.5 head, I didn't even know I had forehead affirmations in my playlist like?

My nose, I had a beak [ a bit of an exaggeration] but this was my nose \ now it's \ with a tip and the tip is not \ it's a swoosh..

My lips, bro I had no problem with my lips, but it's like pink now, like my top lip used to be brown, now it's pink like pinky pink, a good pink.. and they look PLUMP they're juicy

My eyes, much bigger and my eyelashes are like curled now like now the usual girl but yknow how at the end of ur lashes one of ur lashes just goes shwoop and it makes a difference? yeah that

My chin, i was so insecure about my chin cus it was long, i was basically that one guy from Aladdin, now tiny af it's like it fits me yknow what I mean?

Overall face, it's become tinier now and it's like a doll like structure, it looks full but snatched at the same time like my jawline is sharp maybe cus i chew gum a lot but my face shape changed

Now let's talk about my body

Yknow when I used to sit down I used to get 2 roles, now I have one. Like my waist become more ).( and not |.| yknow what I mean

My legs didn't change too much, but my hips there are like ( ) on the side of my hips and it just popped out it looks like triangles but in a good way yknow what i mean?

I also got teeth results [ didn't realise until my mom complimented me], a senior asked for my insta and my ex is staring at me, my life is so much easier rn..

Now pookie, I'm about to hook you up with everything I needed to get these results.

MOST IMPORTANTLY I SAW THAT SOMEONE STARTED GETTING RESULTS WHEN THEIR DEVICE VOLUME WAS HIGH, SO THAT MIGHT'VE HELPED I USED HEADPHONES AND MY DEVICE VOLUME WAS 60

FOR BLOCKAGES I USED absolute power's : https://www.patreon.com/posts/blockage-removal-42231979

Firstly, I used https://youtu.be/UIRg3AHxpeo?list=TLPQMzEwNTIwMjRdliU8wgMYkg this is an absolute suggestibility booster which is mwah mwah..

Second, I used MOAB go over here r/TYBL [ https://www.reddit.com/r/Subliminal/comments/12snzbh/my_gift_moab_20/] and go download it babe, cus trust me it works like it WORKS. i already have a 15 min version in my playlist but i used the original too..

Third, I used ISOCHRONIC TONES DURING MY PLAYLIST, so while it was playing I had another tab open for this.. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1gEHysjo3rMjffvNCRlpOrHGJTlGRp_Z7/view info about this is their on absolute power's patron https://www.patreon.com/posts/subconscious-35305080 This is what you're going to listen to during subliminals. not after, not before, DURING.

Fourth, I used my own subliminals, tutorial here https://www.reddit.com/r/Subliminal/comments/1d4r9p9/to_the_pookies_of_the_subliminal_community_a/

Then, I used this playlist https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQOvZs3SDIs&list=PLQq-deCFuTvqheWqa6D0VQotQ03LjuFk-&pp=iAQB i have so many subs in this cus i dont wanna remember what im listening to, it helps me detatch okay?

Then this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbC5lPMTGFE for shoulders and for ribcage ur gonna use https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hc8xDbPwZMY

it rlly works babe and u can't give up, took me two years [ it took me 11 days to get results but took me a while to change my mindset and finally crack the code ig but no it won't take u this long so do not worry!] and i was still delulu and believed in them

i want to start this off by saying, this post is going to be a huge wall of links, if you already have a good sub routine and or playlist then you dont really need to read this but if you want more subliminal recs then this is for sure for u. now, onto the subs.

cute lil disclaimer, i do not believe methods can bring you to your dr on its own, but i do think they can help you get into a good place mentally when trying!

Also, my previous account was terminated, so if this looks familiar, it’s because it’s a repost (third repost to be exact…)

Last thing, if this doesn’t work for you, don’t fret . It probably just wasn’t your cup of tea, and that’s fine . Now, onto the method !

“ The Oscars Method ”

001. make a playlist . It doesn’t matter what songs you put, as long as they resonate with you/your dr, it’s fine . I recommend making a pretty lengthy playlist cause you’re gonna be there a while .

002. Close your eyes and meditate for a bit . Think about what you did that day in your cr, how you felt, what you smelt, doesn’t matter . let your mind roam freely about your cr , because this will be the last time you think about it for the rest of the method .

003. After a few songs, begin to count to 100 . It doesn’t matter how, just get to 100 . i typically count up with my breaths, but it doesn’t matter .

004. as you count, begin to affirm you are in your dr . say where you are, what your name is, what you’re currently doing, etc . “ i am in my dr.” “My name is.”

005. Now, once you’re done affirming, i want you to think exactly like your dr self . think about what you’re gonna do that day, who you’re gonna be with, what you’re gonna do, etc . speak in first person here . “I’m so excited to go to that bakery ___ was telling me about.” “Me and my mom ____.”

006. Sooo, by this point, you should be in your dr!

You can also make this an asleep method and just sleep as your saying where you are and what you’re doing !!

Everytime I use it I have a crazy ass shifting experience or shift. Genuinely my fav method !! All my journal entries documenting my results from this method are insane. I shifted the first time I tried this !!

Unfortunately charging for manifestation/shifting advice is not a new thing in these communities but I can NOT in good conscious just be fine with people doing these things. Capitalism has literally ruined our lives and as a Marxist, loa/shifting should not be locked behind a paywall. You do NOT need to buy anything from anyone! So I decided to compile a master list of resources from shiftblr, shifttok, loatwt, loablr, ndtwt, and ndblr (I don't know if that's what it is called)

shiftblr

@vaminoir

@99oscaars

@cloverapple

@n1k0laa5

@masoncantthinkofaname

@shaysplanet

loablr

@etherealkissed88

@nyxcreate

loatwt

@raicain

@CHRRYDOLL

@etherealkissed

@iamone999

@/cedarshifts

(many shiftblr accounts practice loa and vice versa!)

shifttok

@shiftwith_alex

@roratentia

@kas.shifter

ndblr

awarenessshifts

@divatakesontruth

@itgomyway

@salemlunaa

On YT and twt: conjuredrealm

If you want to delve deeper into the world of ND on Youtube there's:

Anand Universe Offical

Divine Whisper From Heaven

The Mountain

zuckerabudi

For more about nondualism I suggest you look into ramana maharshi, Nisargadatta Maharaj, and Adi Shankaracharya. Remember that the philosophy is called advaita vedanta!

This is a great lecture on Spotify about understanding nondual awareness.

Here is a podcast that contains the works of Neville Goddard.

Another link to a shifting podcast on Spotify.

The name’s Nyx, 21, they/she.

General usual DNIs + minors do not interact as there’s likely to be nsfw content I’ve liked or reposted.

I’m mostly here for fun only and share thoughts when I feel like it + just enjoy being here with whatever all sorts of fandoms etc I interact with!

My posts:

(All under a common hashtag of #nyxshifts if u want to just search up a list of all of these to come up at once while searching on my page ) 😆

1. Groundbreaking shifting realization for myself

2. I finally shifted to the exact reality I intended (And not just random parallel CRs)

3. Shifting isn’t being kept from me because of some annoying negative thoughts, doubts, lack of a good mindset or a stressful life

4. Rating about specifically toxic LOA shifters

5. Shifting motivation in a few words

6. Shifting is limitless, not limitless “well except this one other thing tho-”

7. You will be okay, you can shift realities dear shifter

8. I’ve kept shifting in THE most dire of times— and so can you

Please don't be worried if you haven't shifted yet.

If you had no symptoms, if you never minishifted, if you never felt even slightly different.

I'm going to tell you the ultimate key to shifting: yourself. Whatever that means to you. You knew this would be the answer if you already studied shifting for long enough, you know there's not anything universal on how one can shift.

But you are the only person that can know how to “start” your shifting journey, how to “shift for the first time”. You are the one who chooses when it starts, no matter how complicated it sounds.

My biggest advice is to stop looking.

This is mainly if you're working on LOA, but it counts for other things as well.

The more you look for a reason why you "haven't shifted yet" and what you "went wrong on", the more you let yourself accept you even did something wrong in the first place, but you didn't! You can't even do that to start with?!

Shifting isn't cooking. It's more like (it literally is) existing. You can't exist wrong, no matter the opinions of others, because as long as you exist, you are existing, you have existence, even if someone arguments that for reason "a" or "b" or "c" you don't exist, if they can ever argument it is because you do exist, imaginative or "physical".

The moment you accept you can't make any mistakes, relax and think a lot about shifting, you're going to make far more "progress" than by forcing yourself into a million methods you hate and watching content telling you why shifting only works to certain people. Not only is this content fake, it's harmful, because it induces you to believe misinformation, hate or even dread shifting, and why would you ever do anything you hate/dread?

You want to do methods because they're cool with you? Perfect. You will shift.

You don't want to do methods because you dislike them? Perfect, you will shift.

You have your doubts about shifting and you can't be bothered to "reset your mindset"? Perfect, you will shift.

You spend hours and hours starting a new mindset because you feel like you can't shift without doing that? Perfect, you will shift.

You'll do nothing and just wait until the day you're in MHA swinging a giant sword on mineta because he bothered you? Perfect, you will shift.

Whatever clicks for you, fits you, makes you comfortable or even just makes you laugh for two whole minutes thinking about doing, be it because you think it's funny or because it's a weird method you really wanna try, whatever you want to do, whatever you desire to do, or even if you don't desire to do anything, will make you shift.

So instead of looking up how to shift, lay down and think about how you want to try, if you even do, and relax, it won't take long, and soon you're going to feel immortality. You ARE a master shifter.

for those of you who are on some kind of deadline or really just wanna know how to shift whenever, this is a message provided to you by tarot! disclaimer: this is more of a mindset thing rather than a fool proof “method”…

adopt the queen of cups neutral mentality.

shifting whenever you want starts with a decision. decide you want to shift and then calm your emotions. don’t hype yourself up. don’t get desperate. settle your mind and your feelings. if you’re anxious about “having to do this now” you already lost the state. regulate yourself using slow breathing and soften your thoughts so that you feel no anxiety or desperation. you decided so you are already on the timeline where it is yours. when you begin un-deciding by worrying, you put yourself back in the timeline of not having it.

lead from the calmness into 9 of cups energy.

before any 3d proof comes your way, feel satisfied that it is done. this is the cheat code fr because if you know something is done, and feel that calm confidence, you just reflect that state into your 3d that much faster. don’t start begging and pleading for your attempt to work. have an energy of “this is mine.” your internal satisfaction should replace the need for proof.

5 of swords came out next so stop fighting with the voices in your head.

don’t argue with your thoughts. don’t argue with your doubts. don’t keep yourself stuck in a state where you have to earn your shift by fighting off every obstacle. it’s already yours so those ego tests are nothing. engaging with them will only keep you looping with your old timeline. but you’re on the timeline where you shift whenever you want now so stay present, stay facing forward.

7 of swords neutral.

stop overthinking your method. don’t try to perfect it or plan out the steps before you just go in and do it. you don’t need to be 100% focused or aware. you don’t need to know what comes next in your process. this is actually where people mess up when they try to shift. they start trying to outsmart the process. just let yourself flow with the process without micromanaging it. you do not need to monitor your thoughts so closely to see if you’re “accidentally thinking about your cr instead”. it doesn’t matter!

6 of wands is simple—just expect it to work.

you don’t need to hope and you don’t need to repetitively affirm you’re shifting if you just expect to. literally why wouldn’t you shift? you already decided in step one. and your decisions is what crafts reality. so as long as you stick to that decision it’s gonna work. it’s that simple. the only reason why you’re looking for a more detailed explanation is because ego wants a solution when the solution is just to let the decision persist. that’s all. let your decision persist without interfering. when you decide, it doesn’t matter if there’s a little voice in your head that disagrees with you because that little voice doesn’t have the power, you do. and you always did.

the hanged man neutral.

stop trying to force the shift. allow your perspective to gradually switch from that of your cr to that of your dr. it could take seconds or minutes or until you fall asleep but that’s O K. because you made the decision and it’s going to happen. you don’t have to force your thoughts back to your dr unless they naturally veer in that direction. don’t revert back to over monitoring. when you watch yourself have your shift, you aren’t experiencing it presently, you’re just surveying it. take your hand off the steering wheel and just glide. you’ll have a more enjoyable and less stressful time doing that.

3 of wands.

mentally place yourself ahead. instead of focusing on the fact that you’re trying to shift (which is kinda you speaking from your past state) think from the state where it’s already unfolding and you’re already in your dr. if you shift whenever you want and you already exist in your dr, there’s nothing that you really have to push toward. so if mental images or thoughts of your dr come up, that’s just you aligning with what’s already in motion. don’t rush it. and don’t latch onto it like you’re going to lose it. let your dr form around you. take it in. breathe. and enjoy the sensations, visuals and thoughts as they come.

finally, the wheel of fortune! let the shift embody you.

once you’re in the state, things can flip quickly on their own. you’ve likely experienced it before where you stopped being so focused and just wandered and then suddenly you felt something: a pull, a tug, a wave. but instead of following that sensation and allowing it to pull you deeper and further, you interfered by trying to grab it. don’t grab it this time. there’s no need! you have decided and your decision will only be stopped if YOU interfere with it.

and remember, if you go through this process and happen to “fumble” it, you can always just decide again. the very first time i shifted awake happened after i “fumbled” my attempts all night long and it wasn’t until morning where i was like “okay, let me just let it happen” and within seconds of that decision, it did. so you can decide as many times as you need.

like keep talking, i wanna know everything

you did an asleep method? yeah? so did you lay on your stomach or perhaps you were in a starfish position?

or was it an awake method? eyes open? yeah? how many times did you blink?

This time I don’t really have a question. I just need to tell someone this, to talk it out with someone, because I don’t have anyone to talk to about it.

Lately I’ve been pretty mad at myself. The thing is, I believe in shifting. I feel like I’ve researched enough and don’t need to learn anything else, but I still haven’t shifted. And even though there are days when I stay positive and feel certain that it’s my time to shift, it gets hard to keep that mindset all the time.

There’s someone I fell in love with, and she’s the reason I want to shift. It’s the most beautiful and at the same time the most terrible thing that’s ever happened to me, because I fell in love with someone I’ve never even had close to me. In high school, I used to hear my friends talk about their celebrity crushes or fictional characters they loved, and they spoke about them with so much affection. I never understood how they could love someone they had never met. It didn’t make sense to me. I never understood it until it happened to me. The first time I saw her, it was instant, I said 'wow' out loud. And an important detail: I was in a relationship at the time (not a very good one, honestly). I fell in love with someone I’ve never met, and I still don’t understand how that happened. I genuinely ask myself why, and sometimes I ask that question angrily, because even though I see it as the most beautiful thing that’s happened to me, it also feels terrible since I don’t understand it.

Another thing I can’t ignore is that when my partner and I broke up at the time, I deleted absolutely everything related to the woman I love because I felt guilty and completely heartbroken. A month later, when I had barely started to feel better, improve myself personally, and love myself more, things about her started appearing again and I was clearly still in love with that woman. At the same time, shifting came back into my life. (Just to clarify: in 2020 I had tried shifting, but I didn’t take it seriously and stopped. It’s not that I didn’t believe, I just stopped trying). So that pretty woman and shifting both reappeared in my life at a moment when I was completely broken. I don’t believe in coincidences, to me everything has a reason. The problem is that now I don’t understand why all of that showed up if I still haven’t managed to shift. I admit I’m a bit anxious.

I feel like I can’t give up on shifting. Although I believe giving up doesn’t really exist, since shifting is inevitable. The problem is, and I’m being completely honest, I don’t want to be here. I appreciate this reality, I’m very privileged in many aspects of my life, but I don’t feel fully free. There are things I can’t stand anymore, and the woman I love isn’t here with me.

I’m starting to believe that desire alone isn’t enough. Because I want, every minute of my life, to be with her, with my friends, with my family, to be free, and to finally heal in peace what I need to heal. Recently I had a lucid dream where my best friends from one of my DRs were there, and I heard one of their voices. I don’t even know what their voices are supposed to sound like, and I know it was just a dream. But when I woke up and remembered her voice, I started crying like an idiot. The same thing happens when I dream about the woman I love.

Maybe it’s just about truly persisting. I don’t plan to take any more breaks. I’ve taken breaks before, two or three, each lasting about a week, and I don’t want to do that anymore. I feel like I get nowhere by taking them. My desire to achieve this is much stronger than any need for a break. I honestly don’t know what kind of problem I have, because I don’t think it’s lack of information, belief, motivation, or determination. Maybe what I identify as the problem is that I get scared at the last moment. When I try to shift during lucid dreams (since I have them every time I sleep, so I take advantage of them), and everything starts to feel more real in the dream and I realize I can actually do it, I get scared and wake myself up. I mean, let’s be honest, it’s crazy that you’re in your reality, your room, living your usual life, and in the blink of an eye you’re somewhere else just as real, living a completely different life. It basically changes your life from one second to the next. I'm not saying it's magic, it is just crazy.

You know what? I feel like that SpongeBob meme where he’s handcuffed with huge cuffs and could easily free himself. I hope you know which image I mean, because that’s exactly how I feel haha.

Anyway, thank you for reading. I wrote way more than I expected, sorry haha.

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First, thank you for being so honest about how you feel and having the courage to “expose” yourself like that. I really admire it. Second, I want to warn you that you won’t like what I’m going to say and you probably won’t like me for it either. But remember that all of the following is coming from a good place and I’m not trying to invalide your feelings or experience in any way. (Also, don’t feeling sorry for writing a lot or for reaching out to me, ever).

I’m going to answer you sincerely, and I don’t want you to take it the wrong way, or personally, because what you wrote sounds like it comes from a place of real emotional distress, not just curiosity about shifting.

About coincidences first: I understand why you feel like everything that happened must have some reason, because then it feels meaningful. But even if you personally don’t believe in coincidences, it’s important to remember, that there is no fate, and things do not happen for a deeper reason, independently of your personal beliefs. How can I know that? Because if it did, they shifting wouldn’t be real.

But I understand that doesn’t make your feelings less real. Your emotions about this person and about shifting are genuine. But tying those feelings to the idea that it must happen because it appeared in your life can create a lot of pressure on yourself.

Now about breaks. You said you’ve taken breaks before, but the ones you described (a week or so) aren’t really what I would consider actual breaks. A real break from shifting would be a considerable long time, where you genuinely and completely step away from thinking about it, researching it, attempting it, or emotionally investing in it.

A week often isn’t enough time for your mind to truly reset.

You also said you don’t want to take breaks anymore, and of course that’s your choice. But since you reached out to me, I want to be honest with you, the way you describe not wanting to take one actually shows how intense your emotional dependence (and from what you told me, I would even describe it as maybe an hidden distress) on shifting has become.

(Keep in mind for the rest of this post that when I’m going to use the word “distress”, I am not referring to any sort of “suicidal distress” or any huge or major distress, but more of a small “situational distress” that goes on and off depending on the moment. Anyway, this is the understanding I got from your rant, but let me know if you feel like this really dosent apply to you).

And I say that without any judgment because I’ve been somewhere similar before. I know what it feels like, trust me. What you are describing right now is practically exactly what I went through a couple years ago (CR time). Especially when you were talking about love, escape, healing, etc.

Im feeling like it’s something you desperately need, and it is really not healthy.

From the way you wrote your message, it sounds like you’re reaching a point where shifting feels like the only way to resolve a lot of your emotional pain, and maybe also mental health issues. That kind of pressure can become extremely unhealthy for you, and I think it has.

The relationship you describe with your DR and with this person you love sounds very intense, but you also sound very in distress while talking about it. Maybe you didn’t saw it like that while you were writing this message, or maybe I’m the one who is interpreting this the wrong way, either way it’s totally fine.

When you start to feel like that towards shifting, it can also create huge blockages, because even if it feel like you are putting more efforts than ever in shifting , you actually are doing the opposite, and probably making yourself sink deeper.

I also don’t think you’re in a “false prison” like the SpongeBob meme you mentioned (which btw, was a funny reference). I don’t think you’re someone who just needs to realize the cuffs are loose and suddenly everything works.

I think you are at a point in your life where it is just too much, and it is counterproductive.

And that’s why I think the most helpful thing for you right now might actually be something you said you don’t want to do, a real break.

Because your relationship with shifting right now sounds like it’s tied to some hidden distress and dependency. It (respectfully) seems super unhealthy.

I understand you don’t want to take a break, and I respect that. But if I’m being honest, it’s the healthiest thing you could do for yourself, for your health and for your journey. Focusing on yourself and on your emotional stability.

I’m not a mental health professional, and I don’t necessarily recommend you go seek that type of help, but I’ve been there before and it’s the only thing that will even help. Because of the state you are in, you are stuck, and you need to give yourself the space to breathe again.

If you do decide to take a real break, how long should it last? Until you no longer feel the desperate need to shift.

I know it may sound like and lot and maybe even impossible, but once (if) you’ll have done it, you’ll understand how much worth it was.

And when you’ll feel like that, that’s when you’ll start to see the more progress.

When I’m telling you I understand and I’ve been there, I really mean it. You need to heal your relationship with shifting.

Because right now, it sounds like you’re trying to survive through it.

And you deserve to feel okay whether you shift tomorrow, later, or not for a while. That kind of emotional freedom is much healthier for you than carrying all this weight alone, and it is the freedom that will allow you to shift.

Also, (if we stop talking about shifting for what will follow), having such a strong dependency on a person would still be unhealthy. And it’s even “worst” that you have never met them. Now I want you to really understand that I am not invalidating your feelings, nor do I’m trying to do so, and I’m felling really trapped writing this because it’s trying to be honest while being respectful and sensitive to your situation. (Do not take it personally and understand that I really care for what you told me about yourself).

The issue isn’t the shifting aspect, but it’s the emotional intensity and dependency placed on someone who isn’t actually present in your life.

I completely understand the celebrity crush or fictional crush “phenomenon”, almost everyone experiences it at some point. It’s normal to admire a character, feel attached to them, or even have a short-term infatuation.

But feeling deeply in love for a long time with someone you have never met is not typical romantic attachment. There can be 2 things to explain it. Its called a parasocial relationships

“Parasocial interaction (PSI) refers to a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media, particularly on television and online platforms. Viewers or listeners come to consider media personalities as friends, despite having no or limited interactions with them. PSI is described as an illusory experience, such that media audiences interact with personas (e.g., talk show hosts, celebrities, fictional characters, social media influencers) as if they are engaged in a reciprocal relationship with them. The term was coined by Donald Horton and Richard Wohl in 1956”

-Wikipedia

“Historically, parasocial relationships were viewed as pathological and a symptom of loneliness, isolation and social anxieties. […] Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence. Parasocial relationships are most common with celebrities, organizations (such as sports teams) or television stars.”

-National Register Of Health Service Psychologists find a psychologist

The second condition is a more specific phenomenon sometimes called fictoromance or fictophilia, which refers to strong romantic feelings directed toward fictional characters.

Researchers studying this describe it as “Fictosexuality and fictoromantic are sexual and romantic attraction towards fictional characters in media, as distinct from living people in real life.”

-Wikipedia

Now, I fully understand that this person I fully real in your DR, but they are not here and since you have never met this person and never interacted with them, your brain CANNOT process them the same way it processes real relationships (even if you feel like it is).

Because of that, psychologically your brain treats the person closer to a fictional construct than a real social partner. This may also create blockages toward your shifting journey.

(Again, none of this means your feelings are fake or that you’re “crazy” in any way. Many people go through phases like this, especially during difficult emotional periods). But if it stars lasting over time, become emotionally painful, make you feel like you NEED them, etc, then it stops being a harmless crush and becomes something your mind may be using as an emotional coping mechanism.

And that’s why earlier I said it sounds like you’re more in “distress”, not trapped in some sort of “prison”.

Your feelings are real, but the situation they’re attached to isn’t something your mind can actually resolve the way a real relationship would.

Also, keep in mind that having that same feeling of dependency (and even the distress) towards needing your lover that is fully real in this reality would still be toxic for (both of) you, and super unhealthy. (Just so you know I’m really not trying to invalidate your feelings toward your lover in your DR).

I think stepping back and reconnecting with your own life and emotional stability is so important, and it is what I recommend you should do. When I was in the exact same situation you currently are years ago (CR time), it’s the only thing that actually helped me “heal”, it’s the only thing that helped me finally have an healthy relationship with shifting and my journey, and its the only thing that actually helped me shift. Also, I’m fully 1000% convinces it is the only path that could have ever lead me to where I am today. I know this guy wrenching feeling, and I know how hard it is. But I also know how unhealthy it is and how hard it is to accept it.

Like I said, I am not a medical professional, so you do as you please with everything I’ve just told you, but I did my research to be able to answer your rant. Also, since there wasn’t any questions, I didn’t really knew what to say, so I did my best to try to help you in any way.

Still, remember that I think it was really brave or you to sens that ask and I am not trying to invalidate your feelings or experience in any way.

I just really think the best thing you should do is actually take a break, a real break the way I explained it to you earlier. This is the best and only advice I can give you.

-Apeiron

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HOW TO STOP REACTING TO THE 3D

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how to stop reacting to the 3D (without pretending the 3D isn't there)

because let's be clear first. "don't react to the 3D" does not mean gaslight yourself. it does not mean look at your bank account, see nothing, and go "this is fine, i'm rich actually." that's not detachment. that's just lying to yourself and then feeling worse when it doesn't work.

so let's talk about what it actually means.

what "the 3D" even is in this context

the 3D is your current physical reality. what you can see, touch, measure, and observe right now. the texts he hasn't sent. the money that isn't in the account. the job that hasn't come through. the body that doesn't look how you want it to yet.

it is a printout of past thinking. it is old news. it is already done by the time it shows up in your physical reality.

which means reacting to it as if it's the final word is like getting upset about yesterday's weather.

the problem with reacting

when something in the 3D contradicts what you're trying to manifest, and you react with panic, despair, obsessive checking, or "see i knew it wouldn't work" - you're doing two things.

one, you're treating the current reality as more true than the reality you're building. you're voting for the old story with your emotions.

and two, you're feeding it. you're pouring energy into the thing you don't want. and energy is attention and attention is what makes things persist.

reacting to the 3D keeps you locked in a loop where your outer reality keeps confirming your fears because your fears keep creating your outer reality.

but here's the bit nobody says

you're not supposed to feel nothing. you're not a robot. if something hurts, it hurts. the goal is not emotional suppression. the goal is to stop letting the 3D be the thing that decides how you feel.

there's a difference between:

"i see this, it hurts, and i'm choosing to return to my assumption anyway"

and

"i see this, i spiral for four hours, i convince myself it's never happening, i start from scratch again"

one is a human having a moment and redirecting. the other is handing your entire state over to external circumstances and wondering why nothing changes.

the redirect, not the suppress

when the 3D shows you something you don't want, the move is to acknowledge it without marrying it. like, okay. i see that. that's the old story showing up. noted. and then gently, without drama, you come back to what you know.

it's sorted. it's mine. i don't need the 3D to confirm it for me right now.

not forced positivity. not manic affirmations. just a quiet, firm return to where you've decided to live.

think of it like being on a boat. the waves are going to come. you don't pretend the waves aren't there. you just don't jump in every time one hits the side.

the thing that actually makes it easier

detachment from the 3D gets genuinely easier when you stop needing it to hurry up and change.

a lot of the reactivity isn't really about what's showing up. it's about the gap feeling unbearable. the waiting. the uncertainty. the "but when though."

when you actually settle into living in the end, not as a technique but as a real internal shift, the 3D stops feeling so urgent. it's just the loading screen. you're not scared of the loading screen because you know the game is already downloaded.

the 3D hasn't caught up yet. that's all.

practical things that actually help

when you notice yourself spiralling over something in the 3D, ask: am i reacting to what's real, or to what i'm afraid this means?

because usually it's the second one. the bank balance isn't the problem. what you've decided the bank balance means about your future is the problem.

separate the fact from the story you're telling about the fact. the fact is neutral. your interpretation is what's doing the damage.

the short version

you don't have to pretend the 3D doesn't exist. you just have to stop letting it be the boss of you. it's old information. it's not a verdict. it's not proof that it's not working.

it's just what hasn't changed yet.

and "yet" is doing a lot of work in that sentence.

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⋑ what this blog is all about 🦢

i've learnt about shifting in march 2022, and got to learn about the law of assumption through shifting around late 2023. and in this blog, i mostly talk about the law of assumption or shifting. i also talk abt other things here and there ᵔᴗᵔ

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The 3D Showing You Something You Don't Want to See

Law of Assumption is Simple, Don't be Doing too Much

Nervous System Regulation & the Law of Assumption

Ways to Work on Self Concept

Don't Limit Yourself When You're Limitless.

Doubting Your Abilities in LOA

Not Believing Your Affirmations When it Comes to Manifesting

When the Law of Assumption Proved Me Wrong

Best Advice When it Comes to LOA

what would you do if he said yes would do (lmao)