interesting how kinks and fetishes are okay with the ‘queer community’ and ‘kink shaming’ is bad but they’ll call lesbians ‘genital fetishists’ for not liking penis hmmm

Cause wym you like someone pissing on you and it’s ok to be walking a human with a dog mask on at Walmart in front of children, but lesbians can’t say they prefer other women (which is the whole meaning of lesbian)

Very pro weird girl. Not budging on that.

I love you no-prescription needed OTC daily oral birth control that you can get at Walmart, Amazon, Walgreens, cvs, and sometimes local grocery chains and small pharmacies

PSA: don't blame yourself for feeling aroused by pornography and misogynistic kinks. First of all, the fact that you consciously dislike it already means you don't want it — everyone who tells you otherwise thinks like a rapist. And also we live in a society oversaturated with images of female sexual degradation — it would be more surprising if you actually weren't influenced by it in one way or another. Where are you even supposed to get an idea that it doesn't have to be that way? Even fem"dom" is hardly about women being dominant over men. You are not to blame for not developing a healthy sexuality in a world that desperately doesn't want you to. This can be fixed, but with a deliberate effort and power of will, because it requires going against the current.

It would kill half the 19-25 year olds online to realize "I can't help it I have trauma" is one of THE quintessential abuser excuses

Like there is a difference between "My trauma creates impulsive urges and has changed my instinctive reactions to be irrational, I need to relearn shit." vs "I'm traumatized so I Can't Help It and you're not allowed to expect better of me"

"Male puberty is at most uncomfortable" is an HILARIOUS argument coming from the group of ppl who consider going through the "wrong" puberty "aGaiNst tHeir wilL" to be traumatising and a legit reason to: - give kids who think clothes shouldn't be genderlocked puberty blockers - give teenagers HRT - allow surgery on teens.

real af this is genuinely me after deciding to get up and cut some apples

Hey kids, you need to start worrying a little less about getting “#mogged” and a little more about getting “#smogged”. This is an Air Quality Index public service announcement.

step one is you gotta be really openly mentally ill on tumblr for an extended amount of time

perhaps it is feminist praxis to stop engaging with social media. I know that sounds like a joke but I don't think I am joking. women on display, constantly. hyper vigilant observation of women, constantly. women as product, constantly. idk. there's a lot being normalized that I think humanity will be forced to reckon with long after we're dead.

youve been blogging for close to a decade

over a decade