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This isn't just "think about where the potatoes and coffee come from in your world". This is also about fantasy worlds set in Earth too. The way JK Rowling designed her world so that England has it's own school but has Latin America, Africa and Asia share one school each is heavily influenced by her english centric view of the world around her. Or how she never took two seconds to think about how magic works in different cultures, or how she never explains why the indigenous communities of America didn't fight back against colonizers using magic, or how she decided that european colonizers "civilized" African wizards by teaching them how to use wands. Her way of seeing the rest of the world and obvious rejection to educating herself about other countries influences her world building.

Homophobia is rooted in misogyny. Transphobia is rooted in misogyny. These forms of oppression exist as an extension of a bioessentialist hatred of women whether that involves being one, "acting" like one, "presenting" like one, or rejecting the categorization between men and women altogether. Every form of gendered oppression that negatively affects men does so ultimately because of misogyny as a root cause and is enforced by misogynistic violence.

Any terminology meant to highlight some kind of gendered oppression against a group of men (e.g. "misandry", "transandrophobia", etc.) fundamentally misunderstands gendered oppression, how it works, and why it exists in the first place. You cannot eliminate homophobia without dismantling patriarchy. You cannot eliminate transphobia without dismantling patriarchy.