Out of the depths of hell and back

What's your blog title from?

What movie have you watched most recently? What did you think of it?

what are you looking forward to right now?

if you could do anything at all today, what would it be?

What's your drink of choice? (Coffee/tea order, alcohol of choice, pop, etc)

What's your hair routine like? Anything special?

what's your favorite way to travel? Is there a mode of travel you haven't done that you want to experience?

favorite month of the year and why?

favorite time of day and why?

do you play or follow any sports? & elaborate on that?

what kind of music is stuck in your head a lot lately?

dishes or laundry?

what's something you learned recently?

if you could give a TED talk on anything, what would you talk about?

What's a piece of advice you find yourself giving a lot?

what's a piece of advice you would give to yourself five years ago?

do you believe in luck and superstition? Do you carry any lucky items or follow any lucky rules?

Are you musical? Play any instruments or sing? Would you ever perform for an audience?

Write, type, or speak?

Yes, there are dominants (often ones with executive dysfunction themselves, or high-powered ones who are busy all the time) who go for the sort of servant you're probably fantasizing about. I've filled that role before, and it can be fine - if it works for you, please, do it! My goal is to give folks ideas, not shut you down.

Tonight the one I serve decided they had the spirit of housekeeping in them, and messaged me "could I tap you to at some point grab us a cold water from QT?" And I was like yeah absolutely. And so they took that as a given, figured out their movements from there, decided "actually for cleaning I want to get big trash bags and I'll grab water while I'm out." I wasn't involved at all in the final gameplan, but my availability was useful because they could assess the situation with the option in mind to tap me in where needed. Of course, it helps that if they ordered me to scrub the place top to bottom I'd do it, but that isn't usually what my life looks like. My life looks like understanding things like how useful it was to be on tap like that and optimizing to be more of that flavor of useful!