I get where youāre coming from. I do. But this is SUCH a monumentally weird take.
Christmas was always a construct of man. The Catholic Church first began celebrating Christmas in 336CE, during the reign of Emperor Constantine. The date, December 25th, was determined by a theologian, Hyppolitus, based upon both the Julian calendar (the precursor to ours) and the Hebrew one. This was also based on the fact that in Jewish tradition, the date of conception of a holy person corresponded with the date of their death, meaning that the proposed date of Jesusā death, March 25th, was exactly 9 months before December 25th. This has colloquially been termed the ācalculation theory.ā This theory was further backed up by three manuscripts, the Didascalia Apostolorum, Liber Pontificalis, and the Epistle of Theophilus. This shows that the date of Christmas came from JEWISH tradition, not Christian tradition.
Furthermore, the Christmas tree came from the tradition of pagan Germanic tribes and further Roman customs of decorating with evergreen branches and trees during the winter solstice. These people believed that evergreen trees were thought to have special powers since they stayed green throughout the winter. The idea of Santa Claus, though the name was a shortened version of āSaint Nicholas,ā came from the Norse pagan stories of Odin, who would ride his 8 legged horse through the skies. Norse children would leave their boots (ergo, stockings!) by the fireplace, and Odin would leave presents inside. Candle lighting, caroling, and giving gifts all come from pagan tradition as well, though explaining each of these would make this post WAY too long. Ultimately, what this boils down to is that YES, a LOT of our Christmas traditions were taken from pagan tradition, solely because converts to Christianity from pagan religions would carry their traditions with them. Traditions donāt simply cease to exist just because you convert to a new religion.
What this all boils down to is that it is REALLY strange to complain about people celebrating a holiday that has been a mainstream holiday since 1890 in the United States, and earlier elsewhere. A LOT of atheists grew up in Christian households, and they are absolutely allowed to continue celebrating the traditions that they grew up with their entire lives. It is not ācultural appropriationā for people to celebrate a holiday from one of the largest religious traditions in the world. And YES, we need to acknowledge that a lot of Christian holiday traditions (Easter and Christmas for example) come from former pagan traditions. If anything, Christians are guilty of cultural appropriation if we are doing things like decorating with trees, lighting candles, or giving gifts.
As a fellow Christian, let me just say, we NEED to do better. Jesus taught that we were to love and respect our fellow men, and that a spirit of unity was needed. Jesus taught that we should love and respect our families, and spend time with them. You are allowed to feel frustrated and to want to have a greater focus on Jesus during the season, but you CANNOT exclude others from celebrating a tradition that they have spent their lives celebrating, simply because they arenāt celebrating it in a way you think is right. Jesus is the reason for the season, yes, but Christmas is NOT a closed religious practice, nor does it hurt anyone if others are celebrating it. Itās wild to me that you seem to think that spending time with your family, being generous to others, and serving those around you is anti-Christian. Shame on you.