I think it's a bit fucked up that I have reason to hide/not mention the parts of my transition that others would consider either woman or man adjacent due to not wanting to be misgendered because like that in a sense is being closeted; like I'm being closeted to most of my fellow trans people (i.e. bascally everyone outside of my friends) because they very well could misgender me, and that is fucked up.

I think there’s a tendency to think of aspecs as ‘lacking’ something that the majority of people have, an absence from the baseline, even if they’re not judging, or if they’re aspec themselves. And it’s easy to do when society and labels revolve around attraction and certain types of relationships, but I think we need to remember that we are not living our lives without something, we are living our lives with a different mode of operation, different priorities, rich lives and so on. We are working on different axes, not the same axis at zero

nobody even knows how normal i am on account of my being obviously crazy

the secret truth is that men and women are literally exactly the same

[louder than everyone] MAN I THINK IT DEPENDS!