Supportive
Aqua Utopiaļ½ęµ·ć®åŗć§čØę¶ćē“”ć
we're not kids anymore.


bliss lane

ellievsbear
todays bird
𩵠avery cochrane š©µ
š
One Nice Bug Per Day
Sade Olutola

Kiana Khansmith
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open

PR's Tumblrdome

romaā
Sweet Seals For You, Always
The Stonewall Inn
hello vonnie
Misplaced Lens Cap
seen from Vietnam

seen from Bangladesh

seen from Italy

seen from South Korea
seen from United Kingdom

seen from United States
seen from Algeria

seen from Finland
seen from Malaysia
seen from Bosnia & Herzegovina
seen from United States

seen from Vietnam
seen from Türkiye

seen from Italy
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United States
@turntechtestament
Supportive

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
Quick thing from Twitter! had some fun, expected waaaay more HS tbf lol plus an extra from my buddyĀ @turntechtestamentĀ ās webcomic Radioactive underground you should def check it out!
MY SPECIAL BOY
And the guy from my webcomic is also here i guess
āItās a monster that we shouldnāt have met in our world ⦠so thatās why Iām here now ā¦ā - Taichi Yagami
Me: *Removes my cat from my lap to do something else.*
My cat: Father is...evil? Father is unyielding? Father is incapable of love? I am running away. I am packing my little rucksack and going out to explore the world as a lone vagabond. I can no longer thrive in this household.
The spiritual successor to Miette
Might I also add
May i add the piece from artist Verbal Vomit
Glad to see weāre all in agreement that cats talk like disparaged victorian children
I keep reading these as either with french accents or the Chamberlain from The Dark Crystal Netflix seriesĀ

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
Well with those Im all caught up! Next week well be back on a single page update. Finally were staring to know a bit better whats going on but.. conspiracies? are we sure? >_>
-COMMISSIONS ARE OPEN-
I now see why I struggled with showing my interests to my parents when I was a kid.
Iām listening to my cousin going on about Fortnite. The kid adores the game and is talking about the battle pass and he how hopes to get it later on today.
My mum just flatly says she doesnāt know what that means and has told him to hurry up as they go through the door, not giving my cousin any wiggle room to explain what it means. Fortnite is special to him, he wants to talk about it, he wants to engage but how can he when at that moment, the adult heās talking to shuts him down?
Why canāt some people just take a damn minute to listen, REALLY listen to what kids are saying? Heāll now sit in the car in complete silence because his aunt isnāt interested in what he likes.
Iām not saying everyone has to be a fountain of knowledge for things like that. Hell, you donāt have to like what another personās into but for the love of god, at least TRY and give it a go in understanding why itās so important to that person.
āOooh, that sounds neat! Tell me about it?ā Is one of the best things you can say to a kid. (Or an author.) It matters less that you understand it than it does that they are allowed- are *encouraged*- to explain it
And also, if youāre truly lost:
āIām not sure what that is, can you explain it to me?ā
Kids LOVE getting to tell an adult something the adult doesnāt know. It makes them feel important because hey, weāre grownups! We know everything! Wait, we donāt? Wow! Let me tell you!
also if youāre like me youāve had your family just up and say everything you like is stupid and thatās like. the worst possible thing please just fuckin listen to kids
Adhd b like..... i have one activity on tuesday thats like an hour long but im gonna consider that a busy day so no I canāt make any other plans on that day
funnyjunk is ok sometimes
just saw a post that said that cringe culture is good actually because āhey, itās not opression.ā you realize that things that arenāt oppressionā¦. can be bad too⦠?
a) youāre absolutely right, things that arenāt technically oppression can also be really bad, and b) cringe culture is ableist, which is oppression. so that post was double wrong :)

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
A New History of Fandom Purges
On November 24th, 2018, I posted a list of major deletions of sites or of content on sites that stripped fandom of its history. A bunch of pro-shipper blogs had just been deleted, and people were nervous. I suppose I was thinkingĀ āAll this has happened beforeā¦ā
On December 3rd, 2018, Tumblrās Department of Irony announced the NSFW ban. Thanks for providing this salutary lesson to The Youth and a billion reblogs to me, I guess.
Today, we have AO3 for writing. Audio, images, and video are in as much danger as ever, yet fans attack AO3 every donation drive. For those of you who forget our pastā¦
HERE IS WHAT HISTORY HAS TAUGHT US!
1992Ā - Chelsea Quinn Yarbro forces a zine to be destroyed
1995Ā - Viacom/Paramount goes after fansites
1995Ā - Anne Rice gets IWTV fic deleted everywhere
1997 - Fox and Lucasfilm go after fansites
1998Ā - AOL goes after X-Files fansites
2000Ā - Warner Brothers goes after Harry Potter fansites
2000Ā - Anne Rice anne rices again
2001Ā - Tripod Massacre
2001Ā - Anne Rice goes after IWTV fic on FFN
2001Ā - The Bronze shut down as Buffy changes networks
2002 - FFN bans porn
2002 - FFN bans RPF
2003Ā - Gryffindor Tower implodes
2004 - FFN bans script format
2005 - FFN bans CYOA, Readerfic, 2nd person, Songfic
2005 - Sheezyart bans adult content; y!gallery founded
2005 - Viacom/Paramount goes after fansites again
2006 - Sakura Lemon Archive suddenly closes
2007 - Strikethrough, Boldthrough on Livejournal
2007Ā - Youtube institutes Content ID, deleting many fanvids
2008Ā - Slash Cotillion closes, taking much historical m/m with it
2009 - GeoCities shuts down, taking old fannish websites
2009 - Greatestjournal shuts down; RPGs deleted
2009Ā - Marvel gets scans_daily deleted
2009Ā - imeem, major vidding hub, closes suddenly
2010 - FFN forums purged for inactivity
2010Ā - DeviantArt purges adult fanfic
2010Ā - Literate Union goes after Twilight fandom on FFN
2011 - Delicious destroyed by Yahooās incompetence
2011 - China arrests women for writing m/m; destroys danmei.org
2012 - major FFN crackdown on porn
2012Ā - Megaupload deleted for piracy; also destroys vids, podfic
2013Ā -Ā Max-Dan-Wiz.com purged of fan-generated content
2014 - Quizilla shuts down
2014Ā - China purges m/m story websites; arrests female authors
2014Ā - Blip.tv deletes vids
2014 - Viddler deletes vids
2015 - Journalfenās servers become fully robust, deleting Fandom Wank
2016 - y!Gallery deleted
2016Ā - Elfwood goes offline
2016Ā - Audiofic Archive corrupted; major blow to podfic
2017Ā - Chinese author jailed after being ratted out over fandom drama
2017Ā - Parents get queer Warrior Cats fic purged from Wattpad
2018 - Tumblr deletes pro-shipper blogs
2018 - Tumblr announces NSFW ban
2018Ā - Wattpad deletes accounts/fics without warning
2019Ā - China purges weibo of m/m; more women jailed
This is only a small taste of the many times that:
Fannish moderators got bored, ran out of money, or had a falling out, deleting a site/list/forum along the way.
Sites got bought out and closed for being unprofitable.
Fandom got hit as governments targeted piracy or political dissidents.
Fans grudge reported each other.
Official forums got deleted when the canon finished.
Itās not always malicious. Itās not always about us. But we lose every time.
Some of these purges hit everyone. Many of them hit m/m content specifically or female gaze-y material in general. This is why antis are dead wrong. This is why anti-fujoshi policies end up being anti-m/m policies. This is why we need clear labeling, not content restrictions.
ThisĀ is why we need AO3.
And itās why we need a solution for audio, visuals, and video too.
I feel like with the new ~fandom drama~ or whatever going around, I should re-introduce my favorite theory of fandom, which I call the 1% Theory.
Basically, the 1% Theory dictates that in every fandom, on average, 1% of the fans will be a pure, unsalvageable tire fire. Weāre talking the people who do physical harm over their fandom, who start riots, cannot be talked down. The sort of things public news stories are made of. Weāre not talking necessarily bad fans here- weāre talking people who take this thing so seriously they are willing to start a goddamn fist fight over nothing. The worst of the worst.
The reason I bring this up is because the 1% Theory ties into an important visual of fandom knowledge- that bigger fandoms are always perceived asĀ āworseā, and at a certain point, a fandom always gets big enough toĀ āgo badā. Let me explain.
Say you have a small fandom, like 500 people- the 1% Theory says that out of those 500, only 5 of them will be absolute nutjobs. This is incredibly manageable- itās five people. The fandom and world at large can easily shut them out, block them, ignore their ramblings. The fandom is aĀ ānice placeā.
Now say you have a medium sized fandom- say 100,000 people. Suddenly, the 1% Theory ups your level of calamity to a whopping 1000 people. Thatās a lot. Thatās a lot for anyone to manage. It is, by nature of fandom, impossible toĀ āmanageā because no one owns fan spaces. People start to get nervous. Thereās still so much good, but oof, 1000 people.
Now say you have a truly massive fandom- I use Homestuck here because I know the figures. At itās peak, Homestuck had approximately FIVE MILLION active fans around the globe.
By the 1% Theory, thatās 50,000 people. Fifty THOUSAND starting riots, blackmailing creators, contributing to the worst of the worst of things.
Thereās a couple of important points to take away here, in my opinion.
1) The 1% will always be the loudest, because people are always looking for new drama to follow.
2) Ultimately, it is 1%. It is only 1%. I canāt promise the other 99% are perfect, loving angels, but theĀ āterrible fandomā is still only 1% complete utter garbage.
3) No fandom should ever be judged by their 1%. Big fandoms always look worse, small fandoms always look better. Itās not a good metric.
So remember, if youāre ever feeling disheartened by your fandomās activity- itās just 1%, people. Do your part not to be a part of it.
this is great!
It also complies with the ākiller theoryā. I donāt remember exact names, but people in online games are generally divided into four groups:
- explorers research game opportunities, they donāt mind playing alone, usually donāt hurt others, but sometimes they can exploit game weaknesses
- achievers play to win, to gain points, popularity. They need both explorers who know all perks, and socializers - as their followers and support
- socializers - they play because their friends are all here, they like to be together, they are usually most of the players, they can be easily led astray
- killers - for some reasons they come to hurt others, be it hurtful remarks in the chats or disturbing behavior
A tiny amount of killers is manageable and even profitable. (All four types are important). Killers raise stakes for the achievers, give socializers something to talk about in their groups and give explorers incentives to invent something new.
Angered explorers are the top predators here - but they must be seriously offended, and since they play on the outskirts of the game, killers rarely fight them. Killers usually go for the weakest (socializers) or most noticeable (achievers).
But if the game, by its design, somehow attracts to much killers, who scare socializers, leave achievers without their rewards and - by choking the environment - make it boring for the explorers (what I gonna explore here? ten kinds of dick-related-nicknames? Pff!) - they effectively kill the game.
This is awesome. In fandom terms, I think whether a fandom tends to be, in general, a pretty decent place to be with a small tire fire here or there, or one big flaming dumpster fire, probably has a lot to do with who the 1% in that fandom are. If youāre unlucky enough to be in a fandom where a couple of the tire-fire people are the ones who run the exchanges, or the most influential shippers of your particular small pairing, or the big BNF, you are screwed. Even though the vast majority of the fandom undoubtedly still consists of sane and decent people, itās going to be really hard to avoid the 1%, and theyāll actively drive people out.Ā
On the other hand, some of my best times in fandom have been in calm, sane corners of fandoms that I knew had raging dumpster fires going elsewhere, but I never had to deal with them because my part of the fandom was quite nice.
Large fandoms are a mixed blessing that way ⦠more and bigger tire fires (and more visible to outsiders), but also, with more people and more ships, itās easier to find cozy little pockets of sanity in which to nest.
I think this also speaks to how important it is to manage your own fandom experiences too: any fandom will seem like a raging dumpster fire of you follow people who engage in that sort of behavior, even if itās just as a gawker on the sidelines who reblogs drama posts while eating popcorn. I canāt tell you the number of times Iāve seen some post about āall this drama!!!ā and Iām over here like, āwhat? There was drama? Huh. Not in my neck of the woods, I guess.ā Like I literally have no clue what, if any, specific recent drama the OP is referring to that might have prompted this post, but with around 20 years in fandom under my belt, Iāve seen plenty before.
If you feel like a fandom is getting too toxic, that hopefully shouldnāt mean you can no longer enjoy the things you like, either the canon or the fandom. Your first step should be to stop following/engaging with people who propagate the toxic behavior and replace them with people who create things you actually like. This can include unfollowing, tag blocking, or even blocking blogs. You have to actively step away from that 1% ā which might take some doing, & will likely require unfollowing more than just one person/blacklisting more than one tag, since toxic fandom types often seem closely interconnected, whether theyāre friends encouraging each otherās drama or enemies constantly fighting back and forth ā and go looking for the other 99.
I mean, if you allow yourself to stand right next to a tire fire, then of course the whole world will feel like itās burning!
For anyone who might be writing fic in order to raise money/donations for a cause, please remember notĀ to mention that anywhere on AO3. It is against the Terms of Service to charge money for fic, even if that money is not going to you, personally. Please donāt mention commissions or donations or fundraising or patreon or kofi etc etc in a fic or on your profile. ā¤
I will boost this signal, mostly for myself because my brain is apparently a fucking colander and I canāt remember shit sometimes; and also add, if youāre the one who commissioned a fic, donāt mention that on ao3 either. Not even in your bookmarks! I forget other people can see my notes there. Please donāt get your writing friends in trouble, like I almost did a couple of times :(Ā
Just sayĀ āi asked for this pairing/trope/continuation/whateverā Donāt sayĀ āi commissioned thisā.
iāve had āif you enjoy my writing, click hereā with a link to my kofi in all of my end notes for a couple years and nothingās happened, so maybe try that
Nope. Youāre still breaking their TOS by having a site like ko-fi directly linked, and if anyone finds that out or someone reports you, you can lose your entire account. They have to enforce these rules in order to protect us from copyright laws. Itās why for decades individual fandom creators used to put āI do not own this work or profit from itā at the start of every fic/chapter.
What you can do, is say āfollow me on tumblrā and promote your ko-fi on your tumblr. But Iāve seen people do the link to their ko-fi/patreon without explicitly mentioning them and still losing their accounts or getting hit by warnings cause someone reported them. (The one person I knew who outright lost their account just kept doing it repeatedly despite multiple warnings, like a doofus, so that was on them.)
(I think there may be exceptions for certain charity drives, but I donāt think ko-fi and patreon are protected by that)
Hi! Former AO3 Abuse team member here! Itās been a bit, so Iāll admit that my knowledge may be slightly out of date. But generally speaking you cannot:
Link Directly to:
Kofi
Patreon
Amazon
Your private book site where you sell your writing
Any other fundraising site such as gofundme etc
If you link and are reported your work is in danger of being deleted, but you will be given a warning and time to fix any issues.
You also cannot mention that a work was directly commissioned with $$, hide the rest of your work/novel/chapter/ or in any way paywall the remainder of your work. Things like āsupport my writing here!!ā are usually no go.
General phrasings like trade, requested, asked for, etc are OK.
Joy is correct in saying linking to your tumblr which advertises your kofi or fundraiser is ok.
If you are reported, the AO3 team will do their best to let you know EXACTLY what works and what phrasing is not allowed. They do issue a blanket āresponsible for the rest of your worksā statement so be thorough.
AO3 WILL NOT DELETE YOUR WORK, BAN YOU, OR IN ANY WAY REMOVE ITEMS WITHOUT WARNING. IF YOUR WORK IS DELETED YOU WILL RECEIVE AN EMAIL CONTAINING THE DELETED WORK. KEEP YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS CURRENT. NEVER USE A STUDENT EMAIL ACCOUNT.
Thank you for that š
pacific rim be like, weāre gonna give you unparalleled tenderness between two warriors, each with a tragic past that has hardened them emotionally, and weāre gonna do it in the context of a movie about fighting giant space monsters with huge robots. fucking checks all my boxes thank you

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
In a shitty society that is built on taking as much as you possibly can and giving as little as you possibly can, compassion is punk-rock as hell.
Compassion is punk-rock as hell.