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One year ago I received a death threat from my roommates and lost my job while dealing with the paranoia and anxiety. I have been unable to find employment since then. My girlfriend, her boyfriend, and I have been living together since 2025. I am running out my medications, I no longer have my sleep meds. My girlfriend and I are both unemployed and are running out of money and cannot keep our apartment on one part-time income. We have no reliable transportation and are disabled. We have been struggling with our weights recently and we're both the lightest we've been in years, I recently lost all the weight I gained again.

Please reblog or give a few dollars to help out. I will try to take more photos in the future, I have some I want to take, but my mental health is not in a good place right now. I love you, please share or donate. <3

Below is a list of previous posts (might be updated in the future)

Happy disability pride month! We're still having eating and weight issues. We're still looking for work and funds are low again.

Our cats had an appointment last month! They're both in good health and we have a follow-up appointment coming up for some shots. Insurance covered about half of the appointment, we only need help covering the last $300.

to be clear, policing the kink is blatantly transmisogynistic. (what exactly is it about specifically this kink that raises people's hackles, I wonder? like. it isn't even particularly hardcore usually.) but what i find most telling is the way that simply bringing up the possibility to someone that 'he' might be a girl is equated to explicitly fantastical roleplay scenarios. like making a joke about how someone should go on estrogen, or heaven forbid, sincerely suggesting it is the equivalent of pretend kink scenarios with kidnapping and forced injection.

yeah it's actually fucked up and awful to tell that depressed emo boy that maybe he isn't a boy. really it would be abusive to ever say anything like that. and like. seriously? if the guy was actually a guy happy with being a guy. would such an interaction cause lasting harm to him? to hear people talk it sure sounds like it would!

it's genuinely just more of the classic T*RF irreversible damage fearmongering routine except in addition to the doubly transphobic "transwomen [sic] are grooming 'poor innocent girls' into becoming men" we're apparently also turning poor innocent men into girls. very efficient program i guess. "won't someone think of the poor cis men? the most vulnerable group in society???"

somehow "feminine men" have become this special protected category that must not be impeached. this is fairly common with fictional characters but also extends to real life. like the existence of transfemininity is somehow damaging to the world of gender expression as a whole. gender noncomforming men are apparently the last bulwark against the oppression of gender roles and it would be kind of regressive for any to become women if you think about it.

exaggeratedly phrased forcefem jokes get treated as some sort of genuine manifesto to do evil predatory trans conversion therapy on defenseless men. but even an earnest attempt to help someone is framed as a little problematic, a little in poor taste, even if he was trans it's not your place to push someone out of the closet before they're ready. and besides, sometimes a boy who hates himself is just a boy!

I'm feeling a certain way about some stuff.

Help an autistic trans woman afford life?

I have a friend I know from when we were both 6. She is the only person living nearby and so she saw me go from walking through limping to wheelchair on a daily basis. I keep her updated on my health even tho we rarely hang out anymore. She was gonna come over yesterday and I had to cancel. She asked if I can’t hang out later that day. When I said i won’t feel better later, that if I feel that bad in the morning later will only get worse she got annoyed and “joked” that I’m just finding excuses. And I was surprised, she knows all about me being disabled after all? So, a bit taken aback, I told her it’s a normal thing for me.

“But you got the diagnosis now, aren’t you better?? I thought you’ll get better now”

I'm feeling a certain way about some stuff.

Help an autistic trans woman afford life?

One year ago I received a death threat from my roommates and lost my job while dealing with the paranoia and anxiety. I have been unable to find employment since then. My girlfriend, her boyfriend, and I have been living together since 2025. I am running out my medications, I no longer have my sleep meds. My girlfriend and I are both unemployed and are running out of money and cannot keep our apartment on one part-time income. We have no reliable transportation and are disabled. We have been struggling with our weights recently and we're both the lightest we've been in years, I recently lost all the weight I gained again.

Please reblog or give a few dollars to help out. I will try to take more photos in the future, I have some I want to take, but my mental health is not in a good place right now. I love you, please share or donate. <3

Below is a list of previous posts (might be updated in the future)

Happy disability pride month! We're still having eating and weight issues. We're still looking for work and funds are low again.

Our cats had an appointment last month! They're both in good health and we have a follow-up appointment coming up for some shots. Insurance covered about half of the appointment, we only need help covering the last $300.