Safe Haven

they should make a version of socializing that doesn’t make you feel like you’re still the weird 12 year old kid that doesn’t know why she’s not normal like the other kids

maybe growing up is just becoming who you were at 14 again but learning how to love her this time

@funnier-as-a-system

genderfuck girlboy realness is great until a black person wants to wear braids and waist beads, he she vibes r so awesome until a black person ask u not to treat them as the aggressive bodyguard Man of the group just for having short 4C hair, we love fagdykes until that fagdyke is black and notices u only seem to treat them as the masculine dominant Top in relationships and doesnt like it bc of u only doing it due to race

It turns out that actually standing by "men and women are not inherently very different" is a reliable way to bother absolutely everyone. Left or right, cis or trans, feminist or misogynist, all cling to the binary for dear life.

it is overwhelmingly my experience that kids and teens who met and then “dated” adult partners struggle to think of themselves as victims of CSA because for whatever reason it just didn’t count—not when it was them. they were too precocious, they had too much agency, their abuser didn’t mean any harm, and what would have been a terrible criminal travesty if it had happened to anyone else was just a weird but understandable fluke situation that they brought upon themselves.

if you start introducing nice things into your life it's a slippery slope and you have to be careful in case you start liking it when things are nice

No, no, I said forcemask. Good girls wear their N95s when they leave the house.

i think in a world where the political right is aggressively trying to portray all trans women as pedophile invaders, making it your job as a trans person to hunt down trans women who you personally believe to be dangerous (based on, let's be real, information gathered through stalking campaigns from people who have nothing but malicious intent) makes you also a fascist

you are not solving a societal problem, you are not attempting to help children by addressing systemic issues that harm them, you are a cop.

you are a tool if you spread callouts about trans people on the internet. i mean this very literally: you make yourself very very useful to people who want trans women to not have any space in society.

i'm glad this post is taking off i hope you fucking mean it this time <3 protect every trans woman you meet

Crazy that little bronze animal technology peaked in the zhou dynasty

Will they ever get to spin again?

it is overwhelmingly my experience that kids and teens who met and then “dated” adult partners struggle to think of themselves as victims of CSA because for whatever reason it just didn’t count—not when it was them. they were too precocious, they had too much agency, their abuser didn’t mean any harm, and what would have been a terrible criminal travesty if it had happened to anyone else was just a weird but understandable fluke situation that they brought upon themselves.