Ciswomen get really mad when you tell them medically abusing transsexual men is worse than when they have sex and don't like it and that if they don't stop doing that you will subject them to sex they don't like.
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My name is V Iâm bigender (transmasculine) and I post a lot about how my identity intersects with misogyny. I believe that I am fully a woman as well as fully a man although I live most of my life as a woman. I could also be classed as genderqueer or androgyne but I donât call myself that as often.
If youâre going to make a callout post about me at least @ me I love attention
Running list of things Iâve been called because I think itâs funny, if you hate me please feel free to add to this list. All of these come from either TERFs or transmasc targeting transphobes
Middle aged British woman
Most mentally ill trans man
Least obvious transandro
Sock puppet
Deranged psycho
TMRA trying to poison transfeminism
Transmasc Ben Shapiro
Pathetic cisgender woman/fake trans
Terven princess
Bitch (x14), Cunt (x11), Pooner (x3), Slut (x1)
Nicies list
cool and awesome human being whose blog gives me hope that the storm of transandrophobia on tumblr will pass and we shall all see beautiful dawns someday.
Some more info about me and my beliefs under the cut:
Iâm pretty critical of the trans community because itâs my home and I love it. I donât want us to have to live in a house with broken windows and leaky faucets just because weâre convinced that we can never have anything better. I want better for us. I want us to be safe and happy and I donât want any of us to be shoved aside as if we donât matter. Trans liberation should not only be available for white binary trans people who pass. We need more love for trans people of color outside of turning dead Black trans women into saints without ever listening to what they fought for. We need more love for trans people outside of the imperial core, especially those who donât speak English or who struggle with it. We need more love for intersex people no matter how they identify. We need love for people who, seeking acceptance from a community who is meant to love and care for them, are told that their issues are âtoo complicatedâ or âderailing the conversationâ. To the people on the fringes: I love you.
One thing thatâs going to be controversial about me is that I will be referring to myself as female. I donât believe that itâs useful to me to say Iâve changed my sex or that Iâm not deeply affected by the patriarchal, sexist society we live in. I donât believe this is âself misgenderingâ as I literally donât believe that itâs possible to misgender yourself and I also donât think sex and gender are the same thing. If you, the person reading this, do not identify this way thatâs fine but please donât try to change the way I speak about my body and my oppression because it makes you uncomfortable. I donât believe that your identity has any impact on mine or my validity and I hope you will extend me the same courtesy.
I do also believe in *some* of the tenets of radical feminism. I mean this with as much emphasis as possible: some. I donât believe in trans exclusion, Iâm not a lesbian separatist, etc etc. What I do believe is that gender is a construct that has mostly been used to create a sexist hierarchical society (think gender roles and stereotypes). In my ideal post-patriarchal world, nobody would be trans in the way that no one would be cis, we would all just use whatever clothes and pronouns we wanted and there would be no hierarchy. I also believe that sex based oppression is real and I donât think misogyny could exist without it. This does not mean I donât believe in transmisogyny or that I think all misogyny is sex based.
Another important thing I believe is that we really *really* need to do more to center trans voices outside of the imperial core. White people in the trans community (including myself) also need to stop appropriating language used specifically about racial violence (eg âdigital lynchingâ to refer to blogs getting banned) and language that is hyperbolic to the point of meaninglessness (calling bans on gender affirming care for children in the US âgenocideâ)
As a last note Iâm sincerely uninterested in any discourse that completely ignores misogyny as a monstrous violent force in our world. If I see one more person talk about âAFAB privilegeâ or say female specific issues like pregnancy, abortion, FGM, menstrual stigma, lack of inclusion in medical studies, child marriage, (I could go on forever) donât matter as much as what trans people in the US go through Iâm going to lose my mind.
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Letâs be clear about this: *No* healthy, open, supportive community seeks to terrify and control its members like this on such flimsy pretexts. These are the marks of a manipulative group exercising destructive influence over its most vulnerable members.
A healthy, open, supportive trans community would not look or sound like the trans community weâve got. It would be honest about the risks trans people face, rather than wildly inflating those risks to instill fear.
It would foster resilience and self-sufficiency in gender-questioning youth, rather than telling kids that anyone who disagrees with their worldview hates them or that exposure to misgendering or dead-naming can lead to suicide.
A healthy, open trans community would accept that transition doesnât work for everybody and that there are legitimate reasons to detransition and exit the community.
A healthy, open, supportive trans community would invite ethical research into transition outcomes and alternativesârather than trying to shut down inquiryâbecause trans-identifying people deserve the best care available, not just the most ideologically-compliant âcare.â
And a healthy, open, supportive trans community would encourage young people to explore their questions and doubts openlyârecognizing transition as a serious undertakingâwithout fear of censure or expulsion from the group.
These toxic dynamics arenât contained within the community either, spilling out into the public sphere whenever any issue that touches gender identity is discussed.
You deserve better than this. You are not wrong for having questions, doubts, or concerns.
it's actually deeply unfair that trans identified individuals can colonize language, medical terminology, post pictures and art that say 'kill all terfs' or artistically depicted violence of gender critical women being assaulted and write rape fantasies out in the open but the moment a woman calls a trans identified male "a man with a fetish playing his kink" or even just. "a man" they enact violence against her, and all her friends could leave her.
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Just because youve had bad experiences doesnt mean you get to espouse ableist rhetoric at people you dont like, use intersexist langauge and insult anyone who patiently points that out.
also your anti-kink shit is all terf science. none of it is even based on actual studies. theres an entire college for studying it even, but good god the need for the christian "my disgust is the pinnacle of morality" is strong.
Iâm not even anti kink Iâm just a bitch ÂŻ\_(ă)_/ÂŻ
(Is the intersexist language I supposedly used calling someone a âbasement dwellerâ??)