Something about Pluto in the 11th house that I dont see talked about much is how hard it is to keep friends, and not even because of your lack of trying.
You will have people you try to be besties with that will just move on to someone else the moment its convenient. That whole thing about realising your just the fill in friend that people keep around until they think they found someone better is 11th house Pluto natives everyday lives.
I always see stuff about how to make friends and I just feel this needs to be said because i know there's people with this same natal placement like me who have probably had times when they feel really shit and wonder why none of their friends care about them the way they always do or did for them. Dont beat yourself up because its really not you.
I have had people i considered best friends in the past completely go MIA the moment I dont put all my undivided attention on them and it made me realise how much they dont see me the same, not even concerned to reach out to me in my darkest moments when I would be clearly crying out for some genuine friendship going through domestic violence in the past.
Shit, I have had two people I thought were close friends act like they wanted to help me get out of a DV situation and than took that as an opportunity to team up and make up lies over whatever internal issues they refuse to do self shadow work about, so they could try and kick me out in the hope I would end up homeless. (God and my ancestors had my back though so jokes on them 🙏🏽).
Just know your not alone in having Pluto in 11th, I get its hard when people will use you or pretend to be your friend so they can try and destroy you over their own insecurities.
Know that, self love is key always.
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