somewhere between healing and becoming

In a world where disappearing is easy and commitment is rare, cherish the ones who stay. The ones who speak their truth, fight for the connection, and choose to grow with you - those people are gold.

Because our brains are wired to draw on experience to keep us safe. They are stuck in survival Mode and it takes conscious effort to get out of it and reshape your understanding of the world. Some people have an inherently stronger drive to do that. But everyone can heal with willingness. What doesn't help is judgement. It is also a defense. The tool is compassion and kindness. Even when someone is bitter, compassion can give them a sense of safety that helps them to calm down and get out of survival.

fair point. understanding and accountability can coexist

Video games and chill?

You know you reached adulthood when sleep is the most important thing in your life

i take the art of noticing very seriously

hope u see a pretty sunset and think of how i would’ve loved this

Perfume is the most intense form of memory

celibacy is easy when the idea of being touched without love disgusts you

Safe to say that good communication can fix almost everything.