Although Most Females Are Truly Unaware of It at the Conscious Level, Subconsciously Most Females Understand the Following Fact āInnatelyā when itās Rationally Exposed to Them: Ā A Man is Much More Obedient, Kind, Nurturing, Loving & Generous with his Woman,Ā When he is āYearningā For Orgasm ā Rather than After Heās had One. This is Due Primarily to the Unconscious, Involuntary Neurochemistry of His Male Mind.
Neurochemistry is Quite a Fascinating and Intriguing Science, But also quite simple to summarize to get that āAha!ā Feeling About Male Orgasm Mood Change āAfterā Orgasm/Ejaculation. To understand what is going on, You need to look into the Three Powerful Neurotransmitters - Oxytocin, Prolactin and Dopamine that all interplay while a Male is Visually as well as Sexually Aroused and Stimulated. Feminine Sexual Attention (Teasing & Edging) Serves to Naturally Heighten Male Dopamine Levels - The Powerful Reward Chemical that is at the Very Heart of All Human and Animal Behavior. Along with the Dopamine āIncreaseā when a Male is Highly (Hyper) Aroused is also Heightened Levels of Oxytocin flooding his bloodstream, often colloquially referred to as the āCuddle Hormoneā that is responsible for āBondingā not only between couples but between siblings, children etc - and produces that warm wonderful afterglow after sex. Interestingly, (Both Genders Produce Oxytocin), But these levels Fall away Rapidly in Males after they have an Ejaculative Orgasm.Ā Whereas A Womanās Oxytocin Level Stay Naturally Elevated and Her Dopamine Levels Stay Elevated As Well, Which is Probably One of the Major Reasons Why Women are Naturally Multi-Orgasmic.
So What Is Dopamine You Ask:Ā Itās at the Very Core of ALL our Sexual Drives and Survival Needs, and it Motivates āAll Of Usā to Do Just About Everything in Life. This mechanism within the Reward - Pleasure circuitry of the Human Brain has been around for millions of years and has not changed.
In the Male Brain, Dopamine is āGo & Get it!ā and Prolactin is āWhoa!ā Learn all you can about the Incredibly Addictive Pleasure Drug Dopamine. Itās Incredibly Strong and can Control a Guys Devotion, Veneration & Ultimate Subjugation (Mystically) if Properly Exploited. Think of the Subliminal Programming Possibilities here Ladies, as You Read the Rest of This Excerpt.
Few females Fully Understand or Appreciate the āPOWERā in their Hands, in that All Males have an āoff switchā, which kicks in - right AFTER they Orgasm. It is Generally NOT Understood that Guys have the Rare, Basically Unknown āPotentialā for on-going, Intense Dopamine-Driven Sexual Desire, If their Naturally Occurring Self-Regulating Production of Prolactin is Eliminated and/or Avoided. When The Male Orgasmic Nerves āFIREā, The Explosive Male āOrgasmā produces a Sudden Massive Increased Wave of Both Chemicals (Dopamine and Oxytocin), But at the Same Time, Applies the Sexual āBrakesā by Producing Increased Prolactin Levels. Prolactin Functions to Effectively Shut Down Their Intense Sexual Desire andĀ Prolactin Remains Enhanced / Elevated in the Male Brain for up to āTwo Weeksā, as it takes a while for the levels of Oxytocin and Dopamine to Return to Previous Levels.Ā Therefore Ladiesā¦, Daily Tease, Denial and Firm Sexual Control of a Males Joystick,Ā Means that aĀ āTrainableā (Orgasm Managed) Male Will Be Operating Daily, on Heightened Levels of Both Oxytocin and DopamineĀ without the Undesired, Destructive and UnwantedĀ rush of ProlactinĀ into his bloodstream produced by Male Orgasm.Ā Thus, Keeping in mind that A Man is Much More Obedient, Loving, Nurturing & Generous with his Woman,Ā when he is Desperately āYearningā For Orgasm (High on Dopamine)- Every Ladies Secret Programming Goal Should Be to Carefully and Meticulously āPREVENTā the Dopamine and Oxytocin Level Plunge from Occurring, and the Natural Easy way to do this is by Prolonging and Preserving his Raging Erection, While Restraining & Preventing him from having an Ejaculation. Precious Dopamine and Oxytocin (Again The Bonding Drug) Can be āKeptā at Peak Levels While You Easily and Secretly Influence his Vulnerable Psyche.
As for Easily and Covertly Influencing his Vulnerable Subconscious), The Best Time to Whisper your (Will), Desires into his (Ear), Subconscious Mind, is when he is Lost, Floating in Subspace, Blissed Out ANDĀ Ultra Rock Hard - āHeldā Totally Captive & Imprisoned, Deep up Inside the āParadiseā of Your Glorious Heavenly Womanhood. It Is At This Divine Moment, While His Eyes Are Rolled Back Into His Head and you are Skillfully Delaying & Denying Him Orgasm (Edging),Ā that He is Most Naturally & Helplessly under The Intrinsic Power of Your Will/Suggestion. Imagine the Programming Possibilities Here LadiesĀ - His Vulnerable Open Psyche Will BeĀ Naturally Unprotected, Extremely Susceptible to Your Complete & Total Feminine ControlĀ !!!
When His Dopamine (Reward) and Oxytocin (Cuddle) Levels are Routinely and Habitually Maximized - Improved, More Affectionate & Loving Male Behavior, Naturally brings about an increasedĀ level of Reciprocal Behavior from his Sensual Nurturing Woman, Creating a Virtuous Subliminal Self-Perpetuating Feedback Loop Deep Within Both theĀ Male/Female Mind & Psyche.
{Visualize or imagine the following scenarioā¦ A Man and Woman Laying in Bed, Both Watching The Movie 50 Shades of Grey. The Male on his Back , propped up by pillows (completely naked of course), While the female lays her head (resting it) on his lower abdomen, faced towards the TV screen. For the Entire Length of the Move, the Lady holds Captive and Still, in her Gently Nursing Mouth, the first 2 or 3 inches of the Males Raging Hard - Desperate Erection. She Knows That Not Only is he Feeling āUltra Maleā in this Extremely Rock Hard Condition, But that she is also Flooding his Helpless Brain with Steady and Consistent Levels of Dopamine and Oxytocin. As his Joyful Hyper-Sensitive Manhood Pulses with Each Heartbeat, She is Ingeniously Re-enforcing her Natural Feminine Dominion and Authority - Deep Into the Depths of Her Males Defenseless Psyche. By Tenderly & Carefully āTeasingā Him in This Powerful but Nurturing Way, She Can Make Comments and Plant Her Thoughts and Desires (about Certain Key aspects of the Movie) Easily into the Subconscious of Her Male}.
In Conclusion, A Males Orgasm / Ejaculation / Sexual Energy - Should Be Routinely and Habitually Managed, āSavedā, Restricted & Preserved (Karezza); Causing Not Only His Healthy Libido / Yearning Desire to Naturally Explode, But His Loving Devotion & Bonding as Well. The whole point of Prolonging & Preventing his orgasm, is to āAccumulateā and Build the Sexual Energy or nervous Energy called āOjasā, which is Wasted the moment the Nerves Fire During Male Ejaculation. It is not his semen loss thatās the problem, Itās actually the Firing of the Male Nervous System During Sexual Stimulation that Needs to be Avoided and Retained. The more you Conserve this Reservoir of ENERGY, (His Battery āJoystickā Fully Charged) The Stronger the two of you will Bond & His Desire to Pleasure āHis Goddessā in Every Aspect of Life Develops Beautifully.
NurtureĀ WhatāsĀ NaturalĀ -Ā Ladies Are Multi Orgasmic - Males Are Not !!!
While A Males Precious Sexual Energy (Ojas) Should Be Routinely And Habitually Conserved, Preserved and āSavedā (to Increase Dopamine / Oxytocin ā While Minimizing Prolactin) , A Lady on The Other Hand Should āFully & Freelyā Bask in Feminine Orgasmic Bliss, As Often As She Desires !!!
Nature Intended it Like This Ladies - Donāt Fight Nature, Learn from it, Exploit It and Revel in It !!!
Thus, A Female Led Relationship (FLR)ā¦ Keeps āThe PassionāĀ Alive in The Relationship, With The Seductive, Tantric āFemdomā Art of Karezzaā¦
Secretly, Carefully & Strategicallyā¦. Take Him to the Dark Side (Femdom) - Show Him What His Male Body, Was Truly Made For (Karezza) !!!
His Entire Function and āDesign" as a Male is Ultimately For Your Total Exploitation, Entertainment and Gratification, Not Just Your Sustenance and Sanctuary ā¦
In Review, Routine & Habitual Karezza āTrainingā of the Male (Mind & Erection), Beautifully and Naturally Increase āHISā Libido, Passion, Devotion, Desire and Virility as well as his Subjugation and Veneration. Creating Once Again, A Wonderful, Subliminal, Self-Perpetuating (Feedback Loop), Deep Within BOTH The Male & Female Psycheā¦
With this Powerful Femdom type ofĀ āKAREZZAā, The Womanās Love Life / Sex Life - Naturally Improves Exponentiallyā¦
Imagine the Connection, The Prolonged Bliss you Both Will Experience - Him Being Perched Everlastingly Right on the Very āEdgeā of Orgasm, And You Perched Right āOn Top of Himā HavingĀ Quivering Full Body Orgasmic Bliss to your Hearts Content. Take Breaks Frequently - Sexual Fulfillment, Is Most Assuredly Made āSweeterā, By The Prolonging of Desireā¦ In this Way, You Can Both RIDE The Exquisite āEdgeā For as Long, and As Deeply as you BothĀ Breathe Properly.
Although this Might Sound Torturous to Some (a Good Kind of Torture) Trust Me, itās Pure āEuphoriaā. By Harnessing, Channeling and Absorbing His PulsatingĀ Sexual Energy Consciously Into and Through Your Consuming Womanhood; That Divine āAccumulatedā Flow of Precious Sexual Energy will spread into Everything That You Do. You will Feel Revitalized, Connected and Tuned into the Rhythms of Life and He Will Absolutely and Utterly Worship Youā¦
Note: Depriving a man of the use of his Erection while he is Utterly Helpless & Completely āCAPTIVEā, (Imprisoned) Deep up Inside of the Paradise of Your Heavenly Vagina, is a Most Wonderful Form of Obtaining Complete Sexual Dominance / Control over him, Especially If U Freely Orgasm - While Preventing Him from Doing So .
Having him sit upright and then wrapping your legs around his back is one of the Best Possible Positions for Prolonged Tantra & Karezza Lovemaking, Especially in the Hyper-Sensitive State He Will Undoubtedly Be in After Your Interminable Edging. The Wise Woman, Skilled in her āArtā Must Retain Control of āAllā Movements, Thus Beautifully Controlling Herself & Her Maleā¦ Until Her Stud Has Not Only Attained Complete and Deepest Union With Her, But Also Become Acclimated to His Secure Enveloping Captivity.
Thenā¦.and Only Thenā¦.Slow, Rocking (Karezza) Style Intercourse ā Will Lead to a Womanās Complete Discharge of Her Nervous Surplus, Complete Relief from All of Her Sexual Tension Due to Intense Orgasmic Ecstasy, And More Prolonged BLISS and Satisfaction for Him than a 15 Second Ejaculation Could Ever Provide.
Remember, The Key to TeachingĀ A MaleĀ āNEW BEHAVIORā (How Not To Cum) withĀ the Hypnotic Powerful Neurotransmitter Dopamine, Requires Frequent Repetitive Training !!!!!Ā Ā If You Learn To Exploit The Powerful ProcessesĀ Neurochemistry (Dopamine and Oxytocin) Have on the Psychology of the Vulnerable Male Mind - Youāll Be Able to Easily āTrainā Your Male To Respond To You, With Virtually Any āConditionedā Behavior You Desireā¦
(Karezza)ā¦ Ladies CumĀ Ā - MALES DONāT (Tease & Denial)
Of all the things You can āDoā when You Tease, āEdgeā & Torture a Man, The One Thing that will Ultimately give you the Greatest Dividend ā Will Be - Ruining His Orgasm.
How many Ladies reading this are Familiar, Comfortable and/or Titillated with the Concept?
Ruining Your Males Orgasm is Always Done by Abruptly Abandoning the Stimulation of His Penis (Joystick) Just Prior to the Point of No Return, Thus Minimizing his Pleasure, But at the Same Time Magically Making Him Hornier & Hornier & Hornier; The Purpose Being, Driving his Libido, Dopamine and Desire for your Femininity Up to Absolutely Peak Levels.
Learn to Always Say, āAww, Did I Ruin that Honey?ā Many Ladies find that they get a Real Power Thrill when they See their Studmuffins Imminent Ejaculation, Utterly Stopped in itās Tracks. Virtually All Women Become Absolutely Delighted In JustĀ How āHornyĀ & Rock Hard"Ā Their Males Stay Immediately AfterwardsĀ !!!
Once Again Ladies, Hereās the Paradoxical Secret of Habitually Ruining Your Guys Ejaculative Orgasm; His LibidoĀ & Desire for your Femininity Will Multiply Beyond Your Wildest Imagination, Such a Win-Win Situation for Systematically Subjugating Him!!!
Within Every Woman there is a āDommeā - Waiting to be Discovered, Nurtured, Worshiped and Served !!!Ā
I admit, it takes Practice to get Really Good at RuiningĀ a Males Orgasm. Probably the Single Most Often Asked Question in a Womanās Mind, Women who Really Want to Subliminally Dominate, Subjugate, as Well as Perpetually Tease and Deny Their Stud Muffin āProperlyā,Ā Want to know How to Ruin a Male Orgasm The Right Way.Ā Here is a Quick and Sadistic Outline of How You can Learn to Habitually Ruin your Guyās Orgasms & Make him your Totally Subservient, Subordinate, Lusting Sex Slave (As He Should Be). Remember, every Man is Different and You will have to Learn the Signs Your Man Unwittingly Gives when He is Reaching The Point of No Return. That is, the Point at Which He is Going to Erupt & ExplodeĀ no Matter what You do. You Can Only Learn these Signs and Signals by Watching Him Closely and āPracticingā Daily. Watch his facial expressions, his body, his feet, hisĀ movements, which muscles tense and Watch His Breathing .
You Need to Get Him and āKeepā Him Ultra Aroused Obviously, and then You want to Bring him as Close toĀ Orgasm as You possibly Can, Without Allowing Him to Actually CumĀ while You are touching him. I emphasize this because in order to ruin his orgasm Properly, You must stop All Physical Stimulation āRight Beforeā The Last Possible Second. Always Remember, Itās Better to Stop Stimulation 15 Seconds Too Early, Than 1 Second Too LateĀ !!!
I recommend that you Stroke or if you Prefer - Nurse on his Erection Very Gently, and with a good amount of lubrication. Although You can do this without lubrication if your sucking on him, Males Last Longer when they are Well Lubricated, And the longer you KEEP Him Rock Hard in the Peaked āEdgedā Phase, the Higher his Dopamine Levels Will UltimatelyĀ Be. Give him four or five strokes, fast or slow doesnāt matter. Alternate between fast and slow if You like. The Key Is In the Pause Between these āElongatedā Never Ending Sets of strokes. You Must Pause However Ā Long Enough to Allow Him to Relax and Recover Just a Little Bit, Before You give Him His Next āSetā of Blissful HypnoticĀ Programming Strokes. The Longer You want to Tease Him, and the More Dopamine/ Oxytocin You Want in His Brain (while you whisper your desires into his open ear), the Longer Your Torturous Teasing and āPausesā Should Last. Remember, His Impressionable Mind is Quite Open in this Condition to Your Hypnotic Suggestions, So Be Sure To Exploit this Vulnerability LadiesĀ ā¦
Watch him Very CloselyĀ !!! When You see the signs of his Impending Imminent Orgasm, Remove your hand or mouth and Stop touching him Immediately!!! Wait at Least Ten Seconds Before You Touch his Hyper-Sensitive (Straining) Erection Again; Fifteen to Twenty Seconds Even Better. Any less time, and You may trigger a Full-on Orgasm the Instant You start Up Again. Many men unconsciously try to hold back their ejaculation, especially if Youāve Properly āTrainedā them with Karezza Not to Cum without Your permission, or if they feel they might cum while You are not directly touching them. This a good thing, encourage this behavior & Exploit ITā¦ Once Youāve reached that all important point of no return, they will most often trigger their own miniature ruined ejaculation by just trying not to Explode.
Many Men hold out, for as long as, eight seconds before they Finally Succumb to a Helpless Joyless Ruined Orgasm. That is, eight seconds after You stop touching, sucking & stimulating them. That is why I say, The Astute LadyĀ Should Wait at Least Ten to Fifteen Seconds before she begins stroking her Stud Muffins Hypersensitive JoystickĀ Again. The Longer the Breaks are between stroking stimulations, The Better!!!
What You Ultimately Want to See and Trigger Ladies, is your guysĀ āCreaminessāĀ begin to slowly flow out of the tip of their penis head āsmoothlyā, like a miniature oozingĀ river - AFTER Youāve Stopped All Stimulation. The Cum will NOT Explode Out with Force as you āand theyā are typically used to, Thus in this Way, You Ultimately will be Saving, Accumulating and Preserving Your Lovers Precious Sexual Energy from Being Wasted, and this Sexual Energy Once again Beautifully Builds Upon Itself. The sadistically fun part is, that no matter how hard they try, they will be unable to pump their own cum out with any pressure, But They can try. They can flex their āKegelā muscles that usually make their cum squirt, spurt, or shoot out, but it will not work :))Ā Most Importantly, Theyāll be Hornier and Harder than Everā¦
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In Review, Ruined Male Orgasms are Just That, Totally Unsatisfying!!! They involve stroking, sucking, stimulating & masterbating an erect penis, Right UP to the Point of No Return, āALWAYSā After Interminable Edging. And Rather than Milking the Erection Through the Blissful, Cherished Orgasm, a Couple of Subjugating Femdom Techniques can be Used to Properly Ruin the Male Orgasm & Reinforce To His Unguarded Psyche, Your Ultimate (Feminine) Control.Ā A Quick Summary of the Most Effective, Femdom Techniques are Summarized Below.
Abandonment: Through extensive experience, the Mistress identifies the point of no return (PNR) for the Erection being Subjugated and Totally Ceases Any & All Stimulation, āJust Beforeā His Ejaculation Spasms Begin. Simply sit back and Delight in Watching the Silly, āStrainingā, Pulsating Appendage Struggle to Expend the Unstoppable Pressurized Cream Inside of it, which is Gut Wrenching and Totally Unsatisfying. The Victimized & Totally Stunned Manhood will (Almost Always), Paradoxically Remain Fully Erect and Extremely Rock Hard Following The Ruined Orgasm & Immediately Feel the Oh So Desperate Need to Cum Again.
Keep in Mind Ladies, Your Routine & Habitual Goal is to āPreventā his Orgasmic Nerves from Firing āCompletelyāā¦Thus Retaining Over 95% of His Precious & Priceless Sexual Energy from Being Wastedā¦ A Small River of Cum Slowly āOozingā Down His Bursting Hard, āStrainingā, Vein Filled Cock Shaft is What You Want to See Happening Repeatedlyā¦
Taking This Subliminal Programming & Subjugation A Step Further !!!
Bleeding: An advanced Technique With Extremely Wonderful Libido Building Effects.Ā Rather than bringing the Desperate, Throbbing Erect Penis Up To the Point of No Return (PNR), Stimulation is Abruptly Stopped JUST Prior to This Point, Causing āYourā Play Toy to Leak Out (Ooze) a Small Amount of Precum, but Still Remain, Right on the Verge (Edge) of Orgasm.
Due to The Wonderful Involuntary Neurochemistry of his Mind, A Males Dopamine Levels Will Again āBe Peakedā at This Point. Itās at this Exact Point in Time that His Mind & Psyche is Most Vulnerable to your Comments, Suggestions and Subliminal Programming, So Exploit This Omnipotent Giftā¦.. Firmly āCommand Himā Not To Cum, Tell Him Heās Never Allowed to Cum Without Your Permission and Praise Him What a Good Boy He Is for Obeying You.
After a Short Pause, Once āControlā is Again Regained over the Straining, Throbbing, Desperate, Hyper Sensitive Erection, This Procedure can be Repeated Over and Over and Over Again, Drawing Small Oozing amounts of Cum from the Screaming āJoystickā Each Time.
At Some Opportune Point of Your Choosing, His Vulnerable Bursting Hard Joystick Can Then Be Stimulated to a Maddening, Straining, Painful Dry Orgasm He Will Never Forget.Ā If the āDommeā is Feeling Particularly Sadistic, the Dry Orgasm Can Then Also Be Ruined, Most likely Leaving the Possessor of the Tortured Dominated Cock Sobbing and Writhing, But Advantageously Hornier and Harder Than Ever !!!
This is the Perfect Time ā After āA Seriesā of Exquisite Ruined Orgasms (RO) ā For The Astute Lady To Mount Her Guys Now Supersized, Traumatized, Totally Subjugated and āDrainedā - BUT Extremely Horny Stud Muffin, in order to Delight in a Rock Solid āUltimateā Multi-Orgasmic Ride of Whatever Duration She Chooses !!! ā Which Normally He Would Be Unable To Endure For Any Extended Length of Timeā¦ The Beauty Of This Viagra Induced (Femdom) Subjugation Is, Even With His Raging Accumulated Sexual Energy Carefully Preserved, He Wonāt Be Able to Cum, There Wonāt Be ANY Cum Left Inside Him !!!
You Will Now Completely OWN Him, Physically & Psychologically !!!
In Review - Eventually the Males Balls can be Completely āEmptiedā in this Most Advantageous āBleedingā Type of Way, While Retaining & Harnessing All Of His Oh So Precious Sexual Energy. Some Very Smart, Liberated & Skilled Women Use Tease & Denial, Along With āEDGINGā, Followed By A Series of Ruined Orgasms, as a Wonderfully Sadistic Method of Totally Draining Their Dominated Husbands / Boyfriends Balls, Before They Mount Their Insanely Horny Bull.
Remember, There is a Major Difference Between Male Ejaculation and Male Orgasm; While usually occurring simultaneously, they are NOT THE SAME THING ā¦ Male Orgasm is the Pleasurable Rhythmic Muscle Contractions that are the result of Prolonged Mental & Physical Arousing Stimuli (Thus the āTrainableā Multi Orgasmic Male). Ejaculation However refers to the āOut of Controlā Firing of His Male Orgasmic Nerves and the Energy Draining Explosive Expulsion of His Pressurized Ejaculate Which Must AlwaysĀ Be Properly Managed, Controlled, Restricted and Purposely Avoided by the Dominant āRulingā Female of Course !!!.
Remember Ladies, Practice Makes Perfectā¦
If he isnāt Totally Emptied/Drained of Semen Every 10-18 Days, Forbidden Accidents May Happen, And this is Definitely a No-No if your Properly Harnessing, Absorbing, Managing and Restricting All of his Sexual Energy and Ejaculated Orgasms As You Should Be !!!
Remember Ladies Your Orgasmic Bliss Will Become āMaximizedā ā¦The More Your Dominated / Subjugated Males Orgasms ARE Routinely āMinimizedāā¦
Through a Manās Passion & Libido, Nature Has āGivenā Man INTO Womanās Hands, and The Woman who Does Not Know How to Make Him Her Subject, Her Slave, Her TOY, and How to Thoroughly Control Him with Her Femininity in the End is Not Wise.
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