Fe Fi Fu

Person 2: Ur an ExFP (provides intelligent explanation referencing multiple points in the model)

Keys2cognition: Ur an INTJ. You have tested 5 times out of 5, in different moods and at different levels of focus, as INTJ. I think it’s pretty obvious.

Person 3: MBTI is great and you only have one type

Person 4: Read my post where I subconsciously imply that Ne and Se are exactly the same.

Me:

INTP: Isn’t that basically everyone, ever?

ENTP: By the transitive property, everyone, ever, has invaded Russia in the winter.

ESFP: You’re the best!

ESFJ: No, you’re the best!

And their shadows, INTJ and INTP:

INTJ: You’re the worst.

INFP: cute ghost. they are small but brave. they have big ideas, and they fly through wind chimes in the night to make songs for you.

ENFP: eager ghost. they are so excited about so many things. they don’t seem to care that they can’t do everything they want to.

INFJ: dreamy ghost. they are very nice and help you a lot, but they always seem focused on something faraway, in the distance.

ENFJ: thoughtful ghost. they give you hugs and bring you nice things when you feel bad. you can tell that they’re sad you can’t hug them back.

INTP: reflective ghost. it seems like they want to learn more about everything in the world. you think about what they do when they’re alone.

ENTP: witty ghost. you laugh at their bad jokes, but they never do. you wonder whether they’re telling the truth when you ask why not.

INTJ: powerful ghost. they seem driven by determination; maybe that’s why they came back. you hope whoever did this to them isn’t around any more.

ENTJ: diligent ghost. they are always working on secret projects that they don’t want to show you. you want to help them, but you don’t know how.

ISFP: withdrawn ghost. they read poetry to you and glitter in the sunlight. you’ve seen them walking through the fields when no one else is around.

ESFP: enthusiastic ghost. it seems like they’re always smiling. you have never seen them downcast, but maybe that’s because they don’t want you to.

ISTP: resilient ghost. they never fade, and they’re always leaping into action. you ask them how they can be so strong, and they just smile.

ESTP: lively ghost. you love talking to them, because they are so outgoing and vibrant that it seems sometimes like they’re alive.

ISFJ: bittersweet ghost. you share quiet moments. it seems like they can turn invisible sometimes, and you wonder if there’s a reason why.

ESFJ: gentle ghost. they help you learn from your mistakes. they say they can give you luck, and you secretly think that maybe they can.

ISTJ: calm ghost. they always have a level head when you’re panicking; maybe it’s because they’re already dead. they give you good but firm advice.

What I noticed and observed about them: (3 FEMALES & 3 MALES)

Almost all of the ENFJs I know are extremely approachable and friendly. They’re like a breath of fresh air. Their vibes are just so nice and infectious. 

However, two of the ENFJ females I know may seem snobbish at first–probably due to their second dominant function; Ni (which causes them to overthink and not be aware of their face). I highly doubt they mean it though–their caring actions say otherwise, anyway. 

When you converse with them, you’ll notice that they have this glow in their face that just makes you want to keep talking. They have the ability to make people feel comfortable and special.

They mold themselves as they talk to people. They know what the other person is into or what the other person is going through–and they will use their interpersonal skills to know exactly what to talk about. And how to act. They are the ultimate chameleons.

They hold onto what they feel is right and wrong, and will feel insulted/disgusted if they see other people not behaving in a way that they don’t believe in–but will keep it to themselves to avoid conflict (unless they are the more assertive ENFJs).

Almost all of the ones I know are musically-inclined and love using their music abilities to gather people together and jam with them; or well, to impress their crushes. 

 The ENFJ guys I know are the “larger-than-life” type of guys. They really stand out because of their lively, childish, yet determined personality.

Most of the ENFJs I know are charismatic. When they talk, people quiet down because they know that they have something meaningful to say. Or derpy. There is no in-between.

These are the peacemakers. Sure, they have strong opinions– but they’re mostly focused on what’s good for everyone. They don’t like taking sides because they want to be fair; and want to take the time to understand both.

Some of the ENFJs I know don’t really know themselves. They aren’t the most introspective individuals since they focus more on others–so sometimes this may lead to them not knowing much about what they truly like. I remember one of my ENFJ friends was asked what her favorite music genre was by an acquaintance– and she didn’t know how to answer; like she was afraid that she’d end up saying the wrong genre.

They actually rant a lot to their close friends about how they truly feel about certain people–but when they are faced with the people they were ranting about–they act as if they hadn’t said anything bad about them behind their back…and what more is that they act like they’re best friends with them. Their chameleon skills are impressive.

They aren’t as organized as ESFJs, but they have their own way of being organized. They’re just much more chill than ESFJs. And forgetful.

Seeing them in action is so entertaining. Organizing events, talking to people, helping people, reciting in class. It’s like they were born to make the world a much easier place.

Some of the ENFJs I know had a difficult time getting out of toxic relationships. They wouldn’t give up on their significant other even if the bad outweighed the good in the relationship. They really do focus on the good of people.

Some of the ENFJs I know could be mistaken for being flirty because they don’t ever turn off their charm (even when they’re uninterested). And this could lead the trouble if they aren’t single.

ENFJs are softies at heart. I swear, they have a lot of love to share. Even if they don’t show it–you’ll notice it eventually. They love romantic movies! (Even the guys) Such a giveaway. 

Well, what do you guys think? Agree or disagree? :)